Curious about ruining orgasms… can anyone introduce me to the concept?

Your very beautiful 😍 

Hmmm….Here’s my dilemma.  I would like to help you out .

But this is one of those things where I don’t want to have a say in what happens.  Nor do I want to know what will happen.  It works best when the Mistress decides and does not reveal what will happen until it does.