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On 10/1/2019 at 2:52 PM, Mistress Megan Ang said:
What are your Halloween month plans?! Are you going to carve pumpkins? Watch scary movies? If so, what are your favorite festive films? What are you going to be? And will you showcase any of your kinks in your costumes?
I have questions & I want them answered.
I''m entered in an underwater pumpkin carving contest this weekend.
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If you mean those moments when, in a otherwise vanilla relationship, you grab her pony tale and things kinda escalate quickly into a near feral "Me Tarzan, you Jane" kinda thing, and you realize after, when you look at the teeth marks on sweaty skin, and wonder if you should apologize or not, then hell yeah! It's a moment when great passions are released and trust steps up a level.
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Most vividly I remember a session in my mid 20's not long after a breakup. Mistress said some damn random thing or other and it reminded me of my ex, and all of a sudden I was done being strong. It felt lie putting down a big bag of heavy, pointy bricks that had been digging into my back. Yep, you're gonna pick it up later, but the break is nice, and you're going to leave a few of those bricks behind. Mistress was amazing with me processing all that.
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On 1/14/2019 at 7:21 PM, Mistress Rey said:
Has anyone ever been stripped naked by a woman in public before? At least had their genitals exposed? Pants pulled down?
You triggered a memory I haven't cherished in years, so thank you for that. ?
To answer your question: Sort of. I arrived for my first meeting with a domme, but her dungeon had flooded so we took a cab to another dungeon. Once in the cab, she whispered instructions in my ear while she loosened my belt a notch and pulled my dress shirt out of my pants. When she opened my zipper with an audible ZIIIIIP that made the cabbie look up, she then made meet the cabbies eyes in the mirror as she pulled out my cock and balls. She spent the rest of the ride waving her hand out the window at imaginary acquaintances, while waving my dick in time using the other. I'm pretty sure the cabbie either never picked up on it or maybe didn't care.
As we pulled up to the location, I remember being worried about the impossibility of tucking every aroused thing back in without making a spectacle of myself. Not a problem. Firmly "guided" out of the cab by my dick, I never got the chance to try, and wound up walking, arms folded, with everything still hanging out and perilously covered by my shirttail. I say perilously because, with a little hip tilt I could walk without any "imprint" showing through my shirttail. If I started softening even a bit, it would created a tentpole situation walking down the street in midtown manhattan. Fortunately, mistress was negotiating the scene by whispering the things she intended to do once we were inside.
Once we got through the door, I felt victorious. Mistress gave a look to the dungeon's receptionist before lifting my shirttail and exposing me. I've always thought she looked impressed for just a second before giving me a "Not Impressed" look. The session that followed was intense.
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Have fun whatever. You might want to try Indoor rock climbing https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/rock-climbing-nyc , bowling, or one of those eat and play restaurants like Dave and Busters.
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12 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
Haha how old were you? Btw, car sex and really any "location" sex is fun ?
I wasn't quite 18 and we hadn't "done it" with each other yet. Yes, cops with flashlights were a real risk, but believe me that danger doesn't even register on a teenaged boy with a hardon. This eclipsed the time a year earlier when another GF asked if she was getting fat and I said "It's just more of you to love" Experience comes with a long line of mistakes
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2 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
What is the dumbest mistake you've ever made with a woman?
When we were making out in the car and she asked "What do you think of girls that swallow?" I said "sounds disgusting, really." About 5 minutes later it dawned on me.
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On 7/22/2018 at 4:25 PM, Mistress Vivienne Fang said:
A potential partner needs to be able to make a perfect spaghetti with tomato sauce. It's a staple and the #1 recipe to keep me happy.
I make a lasagna you might enjoy, then.
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On 7/15/2018 at 12:29 PM, Mistress Alexia Zito said:
Sounds delicious! What kind of veggies are your favorite with this meal?
Baby vegetables, mostly: carrots, corn, cucumbers. If I have a few days to brine/pickle everything, then a mild pepper or 2. Thinking about it now, those are all all pretty phallic choices. An unconcious desire to send a subliminal message, maybe.
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Seared sesame and herb crusted Bluefin tuna with a soy/honey dipping sauce. Small roasted potatoes and veggies. A chocolate mousse for dessert
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On 4/25/2018 at 10:25 PM, Mistress Kang said:
That thing is very hot. You're sending the message to pounce on you and drill your face!
When am I NOT sending that message?
On 6/16/2018 at 12:46 PM, Mistress Alexia Zito said:I would love to see a sub wearing one of these. I’ve also seen ones that go over someone ass! I have to find the picture to share.
I volunteer for both, you flirt, you!
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2 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
If it was under in a friend's bathroom, would you change it to over? Have you ever?
Over and dear god, no. There IS a right way, but it doesn't matter too much to me. It's one of the things I noticed at the Fortress actually. The first time, it was "Does the attention to detail go THAT far? " Then I remembered to notice a few more times, to confirm that the first few weren't a fluke Maybe I was just trying to distract myself from the Kick in the balls to come.
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2 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
Would your answers change if your relationship with Mistress B was many years old, as long as or longer than your relationship with Mistress A? I think a longer relationship means a stronger one and possibly more difficult to break off.
I'd like to think Mistress B would know enough about me to take no for an answer. If not, then I have been wrong about her all this time, and I'm going to start wondering if my secrets are safe with her. Maybe loyalty would bring me back for another session or 2, but once trust is shattered, the handwriting is on the wall.
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I would tell Mistress B that I keep confidences as a matter of personal integrity, not loyalty. If Mistress B kept pushing, it would be the last time we played. If a mistress expects me to betray other's secrets, I start wondering about what confidences of mine she might be willing to betray
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On 4/23/2018 at 10:20 AM, job1617 said:
This! The Pussy Face Oral Sex Mouth Gag "Fuck your partner's mouth like it's a pussy!"
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On 3/21/2018 at 1:27 PM, Mistress Justine Shankar said:
Roman Catholic history never fails to morbidly intrigue me, haha. I wonder how many men today would pass such a test.
Incidentally, this gives some delicious ideas for multi-domme roleplay; I can't decide which would be more fun, the dissatisfied wife or the judge charged with a brutal reckoning. All the more reason to try both.
The Roman Catholic history of marriage is one of different needs, influences and traditions getting smashed together like continental plates. Watching theologians tie themselves in knots reconciling it all is funny.
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On 3/22/2018 at 6:08 AM, electrofan said:
I don't want to make light of the medical intent of the rigiscan, but I can think of great uses for it at the Fortress. That device alone would give me an erection. And using it as a trigger for electrical "stimulation" during relentless teasing! Maybe in an interrogation scenario. WOW!
Regarding the historical legal requirement for husbands to fulfill bedroom duties, I think the Catholic church was determined to maintain large congregations, which equated to money and power.
I love the fortress, and the forum.
I wasn't making light of the medical side, either, but I AM a pervert and imagining ways to pervert a legit thing to feed my fantasies is simply what perverts do.
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Today, incurable impotence before the marriage began is still grounds for annulment in the Catholic church. Today, we would use the "Rigiscan Plus" to prove things one way or another. http://www.gotopmedical.com/rigiscan®-plus.html It certainly seems less intrusive, but it keeps a record throughout the day. It somehow seems perfect for SPH.
On 3/15/2018 at 7:33 AM, Mistress Rey said:What a wild account of some court case humiliation!
In Roman Catholic France, (pre Revolution) human bodies were not considered private property. Married persons were required to perform their bedroom duties by law. An impotent husband, even if he was unaware of it before marriage, would be considered to have committed larceny. Divorce was almost non existent, but a marriage could be dissolved on the account of the husband’s flaccid prone penis! The couple would be subject to examinations, plenty of groping and prodding by medical professionals. Under all that pressure how is a man to perform?Then, they would have to copulate in front of medical professionals and/or close family members at the court to make sure the husband was doing his wife right. It all sounds so humiliating and hilarious that this was once a way to settle a court case!
An excerpt from the text: “It involved a couple—likely estranged—who were compelled to have sex in semiprivate quarters, either within the courthouse or rented rooms, with medical people and legal people and close family nearby. In some accounts, all that shrouded the copulating pair were thin paper screens; in others the small crowd gathered behind a half open door or in an antechamber. The entire trying event lasted roughly two hours, punctuated by the kind of bickering achievable only by two people-in-hate. Before and after there were careful checks for fraud. On entering, each party was stripped and examined in every available orifice, searched for vials of blood, and checked for the use of astringents. Afterward, their genitals and bedsheets were subject to examination for fluids.”
https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2016/05/18/the-hard-on-on-trial/
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Maybe it's not really kidnapping if I volunteer, but you'll need a run through before your real first victim. I volunteer either way.
I will admit, one of my strange fantasies is to kidnap a guy at a bar, and bring him home to my dungeon. It would be too late once he comes to his senses, he would be tied up, unable to escape, and would have to surrender to all my whims. Which would be, converting him into my cock slut.
Redhat, what fun it was, kidnapping you with Mistress von Dietz and Mistress Kang!
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Absolutely true. I was also thinking in terms of empowering potential victims. It's a lot harder to victimize someone who knows they can speak out and be believed in the first place, and much easier to punish the predator.
I think what's beginning to change is that as a broad society, we're starting to develop a genuine respect for women, both in the workplace and as human beings.
Never is a long time. Many have gotten away with it and, I'm sure, there are some who believe themselves invincible even now. Time will tell but something has changed.
Dannyboy
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Philip Seymour Hoffman disliked giving interviews because he felt that getting to know him as a person changed how you saw the characters he was playing. It's certainly true.
I can still enjoy many of Mel Gibson's performances, even knowing the things he's said and done: To me, there's little intersection between what he's done and who he's playing. OTOH, I couldn't watch a Cosby show rerun without wondering whether he slipped Lisa Bonet a rufie at some point.
I don't think the revelation that Famous Person X grabbed somebody's ass 40 years ago should result in a banning of all their previous work. Going forward, however, a producer has to think not just in terms of box office power, but in terms of the safety of all the people on the set.
For the most part these sexual predations are not about sex, they're about power. They're about saying "I'm Famous Person X, and you're a nobody. Nobody will believe you, so I can do what I want." BDSM, by it's nature involves exchanging that level of power, but voluntarily. Taking that power without consent is, to my mind, rape.
One of the messages I'm hearing is: You're never powerful enough to get away with it.
.I was wondering to see how everyone else feels about this and if can you still enjoy someone's work after being accused of all of this? It's sort of a mixed bag for me because it looks like anybody can accuse anyone of anything and have someone's career and reputation tank after no proof in court of law. But I also look at it from the accuser's POV too and think why they would want to falsely accuse someone who's, arguably, more powerful than they are.
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For the most part, both. It's easy to lie because, while marks may accidentally show, the details are really nobody's business. They don't especially want to know the details of my sex life, so they take the explanation given and move on.
If they thought about it, my lies would probably fall apart. The thing I find is that almost nobody really wants to think too hard about it. Do they really want to picture a 50 something average looking man naked and tied up? For the vast majority, no they don't. If they do, we should have dinner sometime.
I'd guess your experience is different because anyone over age 12 with a pulse could spend many hours picturing YOUR sex life.
Do you find it easy to lie about your marks and hide your double life, or do you feel like people can see through your lies?
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The stripes went clear across both buttcheeks. His expression WAS precious. I'd give a lot to know what the expression on MY face looked like. As far as public humiliation, it was all a mistress could ask
The twizzler?! That must have been ages ago! Where were these marks? What I wouldn't give to see his expression...
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A lot of times I'm working at a public pool, and I share a locker room with my clients, so I have to be careful that any Fortress marks stay hidden from view even in there. It's a reminder of the session, and a little public humiliation play, even if I'm the only one that knows.
One night (with Twizzler marks from Mistress Kang still raised enough to feel with my fingers) I was sure my clients had left, but one of my coworkers came through the locker room and asked what the fuck had happened to me. I told him a story about winching my brothers boat onto the trailer when the line snapped...
To this day I have no idea at all what he thought. I seriously don't think he cared, he just wanted a story. One of the things I love about NYC is that whatever he thought, he'd seen nine weirder things in the pool that night.
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I've been webcaming with apparently clothed people. Also baking a lot. biscuits, dog treats, pizza, pot pie, cheeze bread. And cutting my own hair: A buzz cut with a razor from Newegg I figure will grow out by the time this is over.
Not exactly a daily thing, but I have been telling people that if "Social distancing" sounds too wimpy, they should say " I've sworn an Oath of Isolation until this pestilence is purged from these sacred lands" in a Viking voice.