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  3. Sexual orientation and gender identity

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    It's intriguing to hear how people identify, and how much (or little) it is informed by their sexual activities. It's also interesting to find out how quick we are to categorize each other according to our learned framework of sexuality. I identify as a male queer omnisexual switch (that's a mouthful, I know!) I'm in a relationship with a woman who identifies much like I do, except for the male & switch part. She has male and female lovers and so do I. Sometimes we share. We have a MTF lover, as well as an FTM play partner we see occasionally from out of town. When it comes to BDSM, my GF doesn't really get into it so she encourages me follow my bliss with others when it comes to subbing  or Domming. So we're all over the place. I should say that I primarily identify as lucky, for finding someone like her to love.

    That last part is adorable! I'm glad you've found a way to fulfill your desires in your partners, kink and orientation.

  4. First Porn You Ever Saw

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    Wow, M Lu!

    Do I feel old? NahI I'm not old in the head, yet.

    But you could google porn when you were young.  I, and many others here, had to search and dig for that shit when we were young.  How old where you, about, when you discovered it?  Thats a question to everyone.  I was 8.  

    Hahaha it might have been yahoo or AOL but search engines were available by that time. I don't remember exactly - I might've even just went directly onto their website. I distinctly remember it being flashdancers. I think I was about 7 or 8

  5. First Porn You Ever Saw

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    Ooh i haven't thought about this for a long time. I saw an ad for a strip club back when yellow cabs used to have those stands on the roofs (i don't think they do that anymore?) and it piqued my interest. I went home and googled it and started browsing through pictures of naked ladies and eventually found a video of a woman masturbating. I'm positive I started out watching girl on girl porn for a while.

  14. Sexual orientation and gender identity

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    Ah I love reading these replies! I would say for myself that I am heteroflexible as I have in the past been attracted to women, though if heterosexuality and homosexuality are two opposite ends of a sexuality spectrum, I am closer to being hetero than I am to being in the middle. There is something particular about owning and playing with men that turns me on astronomically.

     

    I learned that the ancient Greeks and Romans followed the standard paradigm of marrying and being in heterosexual couples, but would have socially acceptable same sex encounters. Sexuality was not conceptualized then, and wasn't really done so until relatively recently!

  17. Sexual orientation and gender identity

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    I have so many questions on gender identity as it is a truly fascinating subject. Oh boy, here we go: how do you identify in terms of gender and sexual identity? With more openness to talking about lgbt issues, many categories have been named in the past couple of years. Do you think your gender identity can fit into a label? Are you decidedly one or do you think it might change someday? Do you think kink is part of your gender identity?

     

    Here are some identities (feel free to give other answers as well)

    Heterosexual

    Heteroflexible

    Bisexual

    Homosexual

    Pansexual

    Asexual

    Demisexual

    Sapiosexual

  24. Famous Foot Fetishists

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    Isn't it interesting that some foot fetishists want to worship dirty feet while others, like myself, require well-groomed feet?  For me, being into "goddess-worship" and holding to the old adage that "cleanliness is next to godliness", clean feet are a prerequisite for me.  Generally I regard the cleanliness of feet, or lack thereof, as an indicator of overall personal hygiene.  

     

    For those fetistists who like dirty feet, is the attraction that worshipping dirty feet is extra-humiliating which is the turn-on?  Just curious.

    I can't speak for the latter bit though I will say that I like to keep my feet clean at all times and for my subs to worship them as such. I'm also a fan of walking around in the same pair of shoes all day and pressing a naturally musky foot onto a sub's face. I do think the one exception I would make is for something edible and sweet, like whipped cream or honey-- then have my feet licked cleaned course!

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