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  2. Freud

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    How do you frame it now to negate the shame associated?

     

    It's more that I've gotten over the shame, and now think a lot about how to frame it. The framing part is more the exploration, how to deal with all that offputtyness. I try to normalize it.

  3. Freud

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    Being forever strung along by your balls chasing a fetish can be viewed as a neurosis. I'm probably a bit too immature to answer this question from the amount of laughter that came after wiki-ing 'neurosis' and viewing the heading "Horney's theory". Given that, I'll defend my point with a joke I like (:50 to end): https://www.youtube....h?v=w0nH0cuSOSI

     

    But to go with the statement and question, repressing in general will lead to neurosis, from fetishes to raise requests. I don't quite understand what neurosis is, I answer with this line from the wiki in mind, "It has perhaps been most simply defined as a "poor ability to adapt to one's environment, an inability to change one's life patterns, and the inability to develop a richer, more complex, more satisfying personality.""

     

    If I never explored BDSM, or fetishes more specifically, it would mean I'd not figured out how to communicate what I like either because I'm too dumb socially or too bashful. And being either of those things would affect my life negatively.

     

    Open exploration has been very helpful in figuring out what I go for exactly and why. Also, I suppose it helps develops tact.

     

    I realized it when I stumbled on a video trailer from a producer of the fetish specific material. The how is that I'd viewed it when I was around puberty age.

     

    Getting over shame and finding a way to frame the fetish in a way that didn't make me feel overly odd led me to want to explore it.

  6. Your Fetish "Porn"

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    WHO ARE YOU AND HOW DID YOU GET INTO MY BRAIN?! LOL

    OMG I've never heard of him but I'm so glad you've introduced me to his gi-normous back! LOVE IT!!

     

    As for your ear-cleaning-video-watching fetish - how unusual :wink: I did a quick search and it seems the service is only offered by medical professions (likely by law) but there are several places that offer ear candling but I suppose that's not quite the same.

     

    I found that watching videos of people getting their ears cleaned makes me very edgy, anxious that they might get injured. Up until about elementary school I would lay my head on my mom's lap under a bright light and she'd clean my ears which *was* very relaxing :wink: so I can certainly see the appeal for you.

     

    I'm sure there's a place without MD's. The biggest disappointment in my life would be to discover that such a service as the one in the video were completely without demand in the U.S. and did not exist.

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