What you didn’t know you craved

[Mistress Lovely]

I’m curious… have any of your fantasies ever changed or evolved after a session? 
 

Maybe something you’d never thought you’d like started to take root. Or maybe something else got rewritten entirely. 
 

Was it a surprise? Did it feel like discovery, or surrender?

[theDumbMule]

I have fairly recently discovered that I like feeling the weight of a mistress on me.  Particularly on my back, but front also works.  This can be in the form of trampling or just sitting on me or laying on me.

It wasn’t something i thought much about until a couple of years ago when it happened in a session.  It unlocked a new fetish for me.  It caught me by surprise but it plays into what I like about submission, being used, yet somehow the weight itself offers a sense of comfort oddly.

[Ford Ranger]

Two things come to mind.

One was a lifestyle Mistress who lived long distance, in between visits I’d have to send her pictures of me barefoot in the city.  At first it kind of freaked me out. Now that memory of my feet on our gross streets turns me on and I can almost feel it on my soles. 
 

The second is being wrapped / hooded. Real physical binding and sensory deprivation. I was sure I would get claustrophobic. Had my hand on the squeaker ready to go. But instead, I just let go, and it was incredible. 

[Lights]

16 hours ago, Mistress Lovely said:

I’m curious… have any of your fantasies ever changed or evolved after a session? 
 

Maybe something you’d never thought you’d like started to take root. Or maybe something else got rewritten entirely. 
 

Was it a surprise? Did it feel like discovery, or surrender?

Always more curious about CEI after a session and wishing I had actually gone through with it. But with more training..