Tone

[Mistress Lovely]

Last night I was reflecting on how much range there is when it comes to tone in a session.

Some submissives crave cruel, unrelenting sadism- being used and discarded without a second glance. Others go deeper through mind games, teasing sweetness, and carefully plotted corruption.

Some need to be broken open with unexpected warmth. Some want to laugh and feel safe while being stretched.

So tell me this- when you close your eyes, what kind of treatment do you fantasize about? Not the activities- the tone. The feel of it.

I’m curious what you crave.

[Tyro Tim]

Trust.  I want to know that you’re looking to provide what I don’t even know I need.

I’m one not looking for sadism; I want to surrender control and see where I’ll be led.

Anywhere close to the answer you expected?

If the roles were reversed (not something either of us would crave) I would use for my own pleasure but make sure to protect you at the same time, if that makes any sort of sense. I can’t help but to care.

[Mistress Lovely]

35 minutes ago, Tyro Tim said:

Trust.  I want to know that you’re looking to provide what I don’t even know I need.

I’m one not looking for sadism; I want to surrender control and see where I’ll be led.

Anywhere close to the answer you expected?

If the roles were reversed (not something either of us would crave) I would use for my own pleasure but make sure to protect you at the same time, if that makes any sort of sense. I can’t help but to care.

You think deeply about power dynamics. Does that ever feel isolating? I wonder what you thought I was expecting- I like hearing how your mind works.