Tone

[Mistress Lovely]

Last night I was reflecting on how much range there is when it comes to tone in a session.

Some submissives crave cruel, unrelenting sadism- being used and discarded without a second glance. Others go deeper through mind games, teasing sweetness, and carefully plotted corruption.

Some need to be broken open with unexpected warmth. Some want to laugh and feel safe while being stretched.

So tell me this- when you close your eyes, what kind of treatment do you fantasize about? Not the activities- the tone. The feel of it.

I’m curious what you crave.

[Tyro Tim]

Trust.  I want to know that you’re looking to provide what I don’t even know I need.

I’m one not looking for sadism; I want to surrender control and see where I’ll be led.

Anywhere close to the answer you expected?

If the roles were reversed (not something either of us would crave) I would use for my own pleasure but make sure to protect you at the same time, if that makes any sort of sense. I can’t help but to care.

[Mistress Lovely]

35 minutes ago, Tyro Tim said:

Trust.  I want to know that you’re looking to provide what I don’t even know I need.

I’m one not looking for sadism; I want to surrender control and see where I’ll be led.

Anywhere close to the answer you expected?

If the roles were reversed (not something either of us would crave) I would use for my own pleasure but make sure to protect you at the same time, if that makes any sort of sense. I can’t help but to care.

You think deeply about power dynamics. Does that ever feel isolating? I wonder what you thought I was expecting- I like hearing how your mind works.

[TKLVR]

I like a teasing tone to the session. I want the mistress to be in full control (obviously), but I prefer light and playful to dark and menacing. 

[First Time Fortress]

On 9/14/2025 at 9:52 PM, Mistress Lovely said:

Last night I was reflecting on how much range there is when it comes to tone in a session.

Some submissives crave cruel, unrelenting sadism- being used and discarded without a second glance. Others go deeper through mind games, teasing sweetness, and carefully plotted corruption.

Some need to be broken open with unexpected warmth. Some want to laugh and feel safe while being stretched.

So tell me this- when you close your eyes, what kind of treatment do you fantasize about? Not the activities- the tone. The feel of it.

I’m curious what you crave.

Once I close my eyes I feel that whatever will happen to me is not subject to choice as Mistress will already have me bound and strapped in........What I want to do becomes academic as my fate is already decided.

Ideally a whisper in my ear of what's coming next is such a turn on ..........especially if it involves CBT  OR  being fully shaved on cock and balls

[JonCla]

While I like to be completely controlled I also like it to be friendly and fun. Kind of like we are actually friends doing something totally normal except that thing is my torment haha. Like going bowling or golfing.

[PainLover]

I definitely need a intense sadistic session and I very much appreciate cruel twisted mind games that turn the session even more painful with unexpected turns