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You did well for a first-timer. Next time, I expect even less hesitation… and maybe no safe word at all. Until then, keep that promise and keep thinking of me.

I don't think I've been there yet, but I hope to experience it. I imagine it will feel like vacation.

I had originally booked a 2 hour appointment yesterday with Mistress Ito. But when I saw her in person, and saw how beautiful and commanding she was, I just knew I had to get more time with her. So I extended it to 3 hours. This was my first ever bdsm session, so I was nervous and didn't know what to expect. When she opened the door and walked in, I saw the most gorgeous woman I had even seen my whole life. She was wearing the exact outfit requested. She immediately ordered me on my knees and made me look up at her. I had mentioned in my emails that I wanted to speak to her before we started. But in that moment, kneeling in front of her, I forgot everything I wanted to say. But she was really patient with me and gave me time to express everything. I had requested an exploratory session going through a lot of fetishes and also wanted her to push my limits and test my tolerance for pain. Mistress Ito is REALLY good at what she does. She knows exactly what to say to you to put you in your place. She knows exactly how to pin you down so you can't move. And she knows exactly what games to play with your head. In the 3 hours we had together, she pushed every single one of my limits. She relentlessly inflicted pain on almost every part of my body until I was forced to say the safe word. In the end, I couldn't take as much as she wanted me to, so I promised her I would try harder next time. One of the most memorable moments from our session, at least for me, was when she helped me reapply a bandage I had on my finger. She went from cruel and sadistic, to gentle and caring, and then switched back like it was nothing. Also, she was a completely different person after the session. She had a cute, innocent that almost made me forget the cruel torture she had subjected me to just minutes earlier. Thank you Mistress Ito, for the most memorable 3 hours of my life. Like I said to you after the session, I will remember you forever. - Adam

Vacation for sure. I can’t say I always get there but when I do it’s an incredible feeling. The Head Mistress once sent me there so intensely, for about 5 hours after we parted I felt like I was in an altered state. I was absolutely insane.

11 years in and I still get nervous. Just don’t get cold feet. I feel like it’s a huge emotional and psychological step to actually enter into this world, but it’s worth it. You’ll regret it if you don’t go through with it. Honestly my earliest sessions were a bit stilted but were enough to keep me going. Over time you’ll get a sense of what works for you and what dommes you connect with. The more tome you invest in the experience the more you will take from it. Best of luck and welcome to the “scene.”

Every sub's dream to be at kitty's position

Don't know about sub space but I get domspace sometimes when using the whip🥹

You did a good job today! Don't forget to do your "homework" until next time

Hahahaha so real

I wish it was home. But it’s more vacation.

"I think I'm going to be shaking and trembling" Lucky you, that is a bonus.

With the right Mistress, it is more like returning home.

When a man’s greatest aspiration is self-aware sleaze, my job gets too easy. He degrades himself on autopilot.

This is me, when I walk into a session:

You want a side of fries with that? Tsk tsk, all that talk of ceding control…

Is it a place you go on vacation? Or a home that you return to?

I look forward to being chastised by being tickled breathless!

Be nervous.

I heard Mistress Lovely thinks the chatty ones are cuter out of breath.

Feeling nervous is natural and appropriate. Just know that you are in good hands and prepare to "let go" so you can fully enjoy the experience.

I love this concept of friendly and fun. I have a tickle torture session scheduled with Mistress Lovely soon, and that is what I am envisioning. Of course, this all revolves around trust. Once we submit to a mistress, we cede control to them and trust them to set the appropriate tone and lead the session where it should go.

Hi everyone, It's my first time posting here but I just wanted to share how I'm feeling right now with my upcoming session with Mistress Ito tomorrow. It will be my first ever bdsm session, something I've been fantasizing about for years now. I'm obviously excited but I'm also very nervous. I just don't know what to expect. I always get anxious before normal dates, and this a full-fledged bdsm session! And mistress Ito is obviously very beautiful. I think I'm going to be shaking and trembling in front of her, even while just talking and discussing with her. Tomorrow will be the first ever time I'm going to tell someone in-person, face-to-face, what my deepest darkest fantasies are, I mean, how do I even prepare for that? I just hope I can please her and have fun while doing it. Anyway, I'll be sure to leave an update post after the session to tell you how it went Sincerely, Adam