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🤫 don’t worry about it

My first session with Mistress Dalisay was indeed An unexpected delight It's probably best that I hoard the details, simply because your session probably won't be anything like mine. For me something quietly 'clicked' into place.. and whatever it was just felt.. 'right'.. Mistress Dalisay is sensitive to the fact that every submissive is unique and explained her views on that in the first few minutes. She smiled as she stared at me for a long 4 or 5 minutes and when I looked away she quickly set the tone for my behavior.. scolding me without raising her voice .." look at me.. look into my eyes ..do NOT look away .. HEY!.. I said do not look away".. The dark eyes were bottomless and the smile was genuine.. Once she sized me up and decided on the journey she instructed me to sit quietly while she left to choose the necessary tools. Except for the eyes, the smile and the soft but firm voice everything else became blurry .. Time passed.. conversation flowed effortlessly.. bonding and trust somehow 'happened'.. I became more and more aware of the reality of the 'click' and that a door opened to what became more than a generic D/s first session. That I sincerely wanted to please her became something real and important.. not just words.. Mistress Dalisay can touch you deeply and that appears to be a gift she uses with subtle intention. My ever present age-gap concerns evaporated and what remained was a 'Top' and a 'bottom' in their natural element. Sometimes what you don't say is more meaningful.. more revealing than if you were to describe the details. This was a truly intimate session.. alive with pain, wonder and spontaneous laughter. Her infectious smile and her 'presence' never wavered throughout, and I left the fortress lighter and younger with a smile under the special facemask she prepared for my 1 hour ride home. Days later my still tender nipples and the deliberately precise cane marks are just the physical reminders of a deeper and meaningful experience that I hope to revisit soon.

Physical pain in a session, then ball busting. Few sharp kicks to my balls from a Mistress in heels broke me. Only time I had to safeword

Sorry Mistress did I say something wrong?

Ladies, pfft.

Yes that would be both terrifying and very exciting. I would need to please so many Ladies to get the opportunity for each to try their finger. A twist on a famous story.

I have broken down into tears once during a heavier impact session. Not from the pain, from my own emotions releasing

Looks like you’ll find out soon 😉. Be ready for a battle of wits. I know I can go plural with wits because you will be involved.

Haha. Imagine getting locked in with this, but then discover the fingerprint you need is… not who you thought.

There’s something about tight ropes and titrated pain that leaves you nowhere to run. A core fascination of mine.

Ok deal mistress

https://a.co/d/06rQlYAj Has anybody used the fingerprint locks? This gives a new meaning to ownership and who is in control.

Welcome Mistress Shang look forward to meeting you and obeying your commands to please you

Not to be too, too deep; but sitting and trying to feel my emotions instead of trying to suppress or run from them

My opinion is that it's too sweeping a generalization. I had the pleasure of completing a century ride (bicycling for 100 miles in a single day). Pain was definitely necessary for that. I had to push myself in training for months to build up to it, and on event day I had to press on when I would much rather have rested. OTOH, my sexual life is generally vanilla, with an occasional moment when I feel a need to submit. In between those BDSM episodes, I get plenty of pleasure from standard boring heteronormative sex, with no pain being involved. So pain is sometimes necessary but not always.

Haha I like that I scare you 😈 Gotta keep you on your toes and ensure you’re paying attention…

Wow, well yeah especially with you encouraging her like that!! But by the sound of things I'm under the impression she probably already fits in right 🖤

Yes

Your way of indexing memory seems interesting. Do you have an opinion on the platitude that pain is necessary for the experience of pleasure?

Lol. Not benevolence. Just pragmatism. I need this callus off me. Hahaha

🙄 I think it is @Mistress Shang who will be leaving an impression on you, and with great force too, isn’t it??