Danny

Would that dungeon happen to be in the Philippines? I ask because I might be going there next month. I'll be there for a couple weeks.

...that's a dare that I'm hesitant to take. Since I already opened my big mouth, I'll think about it. I gotta say...I like creating a little friction before a session. It makes for a warm start to what I'm guessing would be an inferno of a session. Right now it just sucks that I'm overseas. Getting back to the states and visiting NYC and The Fortress is something I really look forward to in the future.

Jessy, if you have ideas for a business card and need someone to have them made, I can help. Business cards are popular here in South Korea. It's a specialty for some businesses here. I hope you're doing well. Danny

Recently I found an interesting adult movie scene online. It deals with somewhat dominant Japanese girls giving deep and prolonged kisses to a guy and each other. I thought it was kinda hot. Adding to the eroticism, the girls spit into the guy's mouth before resuming some deep tongue twisting kisses...even sucking on each other's tongues but always maintaining dominance over the guy in the way they kissed i.e. forcing the kisses on him instead of the other way around. I did a search online and found other similar movie scenes. Is this a popular fetish in Japan? Is there a name for it? Although the kisses seemed forced and a little clumsy at times, I still liked the scenes...maybe because it's uncommon for girls and guys to kiss in American adult movies now days. When they do, it's rarely with passion.

Mistress Choi, I really like the approach you describe. Although I have only visited The Fortress once (I work overseas) I read the profiles of each Mistress at that time and felt like you might go too easy on me. I'm beginning to think I was wrong...and I like it. Danny

I'm wondering what waxing is like. Yeah, I've heard it's painful but from a D/s perspective how hot would that be. My guess is that experiencing it would make me want to fuck hard afterward.

Is there a certain position (straddling someone's hips, head, from a balcony) or location (shower, outdoors, in the ocean) that you enjoyed give or receive a golden shower? I'm interested in hearing other people's experiences and what the mood was like i.e. was it erotic, forceful, empowering, humiliating, did you beg for it, did you make the other person beg for it, was it pure ecstasy for you but maybe not the other....and if so was that what made it so hot for you? At the core, what was it about your best experience with golden showers that you enjoyed so much...what made it so memorable? I only experienced a golden shower once when an ex-girlfriend did it on my leg in the shower. I said something about waiting for the water to warm up. She was kissing me in the shower at the time, intertwined her legs with mine with some wet and soapy heavy petting going on. Suddenly and surprisingly to me (in a good way) she started giving my leg a golden shower while keeping her lips locked on mine in a passionate moment of kissing and heavy petting. When she was done, she pulled away, giggled and asked if the water was warm enough yet. That led to other kinky fun. Anyway, I enjoyed the way she introduced the golden shower...completely unexpected and non-consensual but in the shower where it washed off right away. She did it only half jokingly...it was something she wanted to do it for a while but was a little apprehensive about what my response would be. I'm glad that she never asked and just did it because it got her off to do it and to me, sensing that a girl is aroused by something and using me to get her off is the hottest thing in the world.

Is there any way I can take a rain check. It would mean a lot.

I have never been slapped so hard that it left a mark...it seems like that would be more of a punch. Maybe some people's skin just reacts differently. My face has turned a little red because of it but never bruised. Maybe I'm not taking it as hard as I think. Regardless, since we're talking about face slapping. One form of it that I think is super hot to see in a porno is when a girl is up close and face to face with a guy, caressing his face and maybe even saying something sweet to him, then suddenly, very quickly and somewhat hard, she pulls back just a little and with lightning speed slaps his face hard and does it in mid-sentence while saying something nice to him. What a huge mind fuck. Or possibly saying something deeply humiliating but in a soft and compassionate tone while pulling back for a slightly longer wind-up slap but following through in a softer way than the first slap....again, a huge mind fuck. What about holding my face like Mistress Jung described, clutching my jaw in a way that forces it open. Suddenly you spit in my mouth and follow it up with a firm bitch slap to the face and calling me a stupid faggot while laughing at me. It would be such a big mind fuck and I'd love it. The thing is, I'd want to be left completely off balance and not know whether one moment you'll say something soft and sweet and follow up with a consoling caress to my cheek or a slap and some harsh verbal humiliation, or some combination of both. Better yet, having two Mistresses treating me this way....both of you mentally and physically fucking with me with your caresses, slaps, bitch slaps, make-my-head-spin slaps, and even some unexpected firm whacks right to the nutz! I'd love to hear your thoughts on this Mistress Choi, Jung, or any other Mistress reading this. I'd definitely love to hear Mistress Jessy's thoughts (I so want to have a session with her the next time I'm in NYC). Danny

Mistress Kang, I'd like to see more pictures of you dressed the way you describe. I thank you for the pictures you have already shared. I feel fortunate for being able to see them. Danny

This is another reason I'd like to have a session with you. If you physically overpowered me and inflict some pain in the process, I think it would make for a great session. I'm not a fighter...go easy on me.

If it was me...I'd prefer to here it in the Mistresses voice.

Wear cloths that emulate your mood...you can't go wrong. Feeling bitchy and in control? How about wearing that suit-skirt that Jessy mentioned. Play it up but not over the top. In a sexy teasing mood? Maybe a sheer bra, matching thong, thigh-high stocking and heels. Simple but sexy as fuck! Don't feel like dressing up at all? Wearing your favorite old jeans and t-shirt or whatever it is that you lounge around in at home. It's hotter than you might thing. This brings me to my next point. If it's possible, I would really love to see these outfits worn by a Mistress in a complementary environment. For instance, the suit-skirt. How about a photo shoot in a high rise executive office in downtown Manhattan? A nicely decorated office, great view, well lit etc. I know it's not that simple...there are expenses involved. You would have to get someone to agree to let you use their office for an hour or two. You would most likely want to have a professional photographer. There are ways though. This is a little off topic but what if you offered up such a photo shoot too Leg Show Magazine. http://legshow.com/dec2010/1210-home.html Since I'm bringing this up, if Jessy would ever be interested in this kind of photo shoot, I would love to be her sub in it.

I think it depends on your interests. Have your read the profiles?