Dannyboy

Ray: I know this has been done and was revealed in a posting on Mistress Kang's old Yahoo group by the sub whose session was videotaped. Dannyboy

Jessy: You needn't apologize to me, in fact I am pleasantly surprised. With your ability to draw such an apt analogy you'd be a cinch to pass the MENSA qualifying exam. You've prompted me to re-read everything in this topic and to re-experience the thoughts and feelings of long ago. Yes we have that understanding. I am so grateful that it still exists today. You know of recent events in my life and how happy I've become. I still have the draft of the poem I wrote for you in July, 2005 and I remember your reaction as you read it. How could I have understood you so well? Another year of the Gregorian calendar is coming to and end and another birthday dinner with my Japanese daughter will take place this coming week. Let's all hope the next year will find us in better circumstances. Dammyboy

I never considered it cheating until, this moment, right now. Could be because I'm not the jealous type. I also believe the connections can be shared between several people. I don't understand why there has to be a distinction between the emotion you feel towards one mistress and the budding emotion you may feel towards another. It doesn't have to be a competition. Maybe I'm over simplifying, but its almost in the way you would choose a fine wine, or in the way you would choose to see one friend over another. Not that either wine you would choose is one you favor, or friend a friend you would choose over another, its just that sometimes you'd prefer one over the other depending on your mood (or maybe even both). Or at least that was the way I used to see it, Dannyboy. Now that I know that its a matter of being rejected :x :x :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: haha, j/k, I don't have the capacity to care about rejection. Mistress Ahn: So little time right now and so much to say. My basic self is from an earlier generation where people were faithful to their mates, people lived happily ever after, there were Courts Law and the police protected you (now you come to me on the day my daughter is to be married and you ask me to commit murder for money, LOL) Of course people always did what people always do but we may feel slightly different about it. Relationships take many forms and people expect from others no more than what they're willing to give. I'll elaborate later. Dannyboy

Mistress Jung: Thought provoking; I will respond at greater length when I have more time. Dannyboy

MW: When I first met Mistress Kang, pre-Fortress, I had a long-term relationship with a Japanese Mistress and another connection with a Chinese Mistress that was reestablished around the time the Fortress opened for sessions. I felt a great deal of guilt vis a vis the Japanese Mistress as we were and are still karmically connected. I feel less guilt with the Fortress Ladies because it's more like a happy family, LOL. Mistress Kang is always number 1 in my book and Vu is special for reasons stated over time in the Forum. Still I am always aware that choosing one is, in some sense, a rejection of all the others. Dannyboy

Vive la double-entendre. Dannyboy

Mistress Zhao: It's the whatever you wish that leaves little to the imagination, n'est-ce pas? Dannyboy

Dear Mistress Kang: I wrote a lenghty response and it vanished as I lost the connection. Ideally I would never play with more than 2 other players. I usually need a cohesive story line as my sessions are episodes in a long running soap opera. It is possible for one to bite off more than he can chew as I did with adolescent friends when we first had access to alcohol. Sometimes a well trained marathon runner will discover after a few miles that he's going to have a bad day. Wish I didn't lose my first response. Dannyboy

fist... It's all about trust. Dannyboy

mustanggt: Jealousy sometimes rears its ugly head. There are so few lovely Ladies of the Fortress and so many of us who have to wait for those special moments. The world has so many voluptuous beauties but Mistress Kang's soul radiates and surpasses her obvious beauty. I feel privileged to see past the visual and sense the radiance. Dannyboy

Dear Seung: Having experienced both in previous lives, believe me, the latter is worse. Dannyboy

Ray: I have to leave the country until this Solazzo business is cleared up, seem his trick was no treat. Protocol? Sometimes I am an iconoclast. But I ACT LIKE A MAN!!!! Dan Corleone

Mistress Ree: All I did was to have an early dinner at my favorite Italian "family" restaurant. Then we went home and watched "Night of The Living Dead" and finally I set up my Gatling gun to mow down any trick or treaters who made it past the mine field. Wait til next year!!! LOL Dannyboy

Ray: I think men, in general, would balk at the idea. I have sessioned with 2 Mistresses before. Also with 1 Mistress and a female switch or subgirl. I'm pretty sure that most Mistresses would love to get 2 submissive men in session. Dannyboy

I would suggest that many clients are in long term relationships or are married. In some cases both parties are aware of the interest but probably in most it is secret. I perused the responses but my own comment is that each of us has to clear that hurdle in his own way. Even if one is not attached there is some other hurdle out there such as: is this behavior perverted and should I feel guilty or ashamed of it? I would believe that most of us can, at least, rationalize our behavior as a healthy outlet for feelings and propensities we may not even understand. You may find that if you don't attempt this experience now, the desire to try will always come back to you. If you elect to book a session you couldn't find a safer and more understanding environment to explore your own interests. The rest is up to you. Dannyboy

Ray: She did a stint on NY1. I remember she interviewed a Judge that I know. Can't say anymore than that. Lucy Liu doesn't impress me that way. I would like to top her in session though. Dannyboy

Another song title that I want to spoof. The Four Seasons did "Save It For Me" How about "Shave It For Me" Dannyboy

Well Dannyboy, I love parody songs as well. Parody titles though, well, "Wank It" by Michael Jackson, and Rascal Flatts' unfortunate song name of "Bob that Head" (IT IS A REAL SONG TOO!) As for songs that I listen to quite a bit, Japanese rock duo Ali Project already has an S&M entitled song called "Hizamazuite Ashi wo Oname" which translates somehow to "Kneel Down and Lick My Feet". There's also Bob River's "Walking 'Round in Women's Underwear" for the Christmas jingle or crossdressing needs. Also, the song "Vanilla" by Gackt is so awesome, and the live concert performance demonstrates why I love it. -Monokuro Mono.... I knew this wouldn't stay as simple as I thought. Thanks for opening up another door and point of view. I've done sessions (at least partially) in Japanese, learning how to count to 100. I would know enough to respond to the command "hizamazuite ashi wo oname" by saying "hai Jo O Sama" although the Mistress prefered to be called Okaasama or Honorable Mother. Dannyboy

Ray: Still haven't gotten over the departure of Sandra Endo. I used to fantasize that she was Mistress Senju's sister. Dannyboy

mongoose: I have known a few who were special, very special and absolutely special but my mind is always open. Dannyboy

In my copious spare time I think about changing titles of songs as a joke, S & M reference or other sexual innuendo (LOL). Let me offer one now and see if anyone else has ideas. How about Dang Me by Roger Miller. I would change it to "Kang" Me. Dannyboy

Dear Mistress Seung: Lotsa tricks but no treats. Dannyboy

I hoped for that too. If I had to pick a way to go, I'd rather die from the heat than freeze to death. Did you ever see that episode of the Twilight Zone where its dying hot because the earth is moving closer to the sun but then she wakes up to find the exact opposite is going on and they're freezing to death instead because the earth is moving away from the sun. Based on a true story. Ray: Reminds me of a Robert Frost poem. Dannyboy