I finally took a leap of faith last week and visited the Fortress. As a middle aged first-timer, I squarely fit the profile discussed by Mistress Kang in her "Fetish Phenomenon" post. I (unfortunately) waited until my mid-forties to experience something that I had wanted to do for decades. If there was any benefit in waiting to experience the Fortress until now, it was to be initiated by the beautiful Mistress Jung. It was an experience I will never forget (indeed, I still have some physical reminders of a session which ended a few days ago).
I lived in New York for three years while working and attending school and I fly to New York every few months on average but I had never been able to dredge up the courage to make an appointment until now. I regret all of that wasted time but intend to make up for it in the future.
I gave a lot of thought to my first BDSM visit. I lurked here for a long time reading about people's experiences. I wanted a mistress who was experienced and who could guide me through the session. I did not want some nineteen year old who does this as a sideline. I was not disappointed. Mistress Jung is truly more beautiful than her photographs on the Fortress website. And she has a wonderful and playful evil side (as a former seminarian, I have given a lot of thought to evil). I also briefly met Mistress Ree and I agree with the other posters on this forum that her smile is truly wonderful. I love her heart tattoo!
From the outset I was impressed by the professionalism I saw during my visit. From my first email I knew I was in good hands. They kindly answered all of my newbie questions and provided helpful suggestions. The Fortress location and layout inspires confidence. All-in-all I wanted a session that I could remember during my boring brainstorming meetings back at the office and while shopping at the grocery store late at night in the suburbs.
As the old saw goes, I guess I should have been careful what I wished for because I got all that and more. I learned some important lessons: (1) if you can't answer a question about your most embarrassing moment to date, one will be provided for you (it was); (2) never let your fears dictate whether you should make an appointment with a beautiful woman (because those fears will pale in comparison to the more realistic fears she will provide during the session); and (3) try to arrange for more flights to New York so you can visit the Fortress again.
I read one of Mistress Kang's interviews awhile back where she said that her goal was retention of customers. Mistress Kang, consider me retained. I can hardly wait for a return visit (but perhaps I should heal first).
I have also taken Mistress Jung's advice to heart and will strive not to be "boring" before we meet again.