jack29

Also curious as to how Mistress Zhao got you to this self revelation ?

Hey Jack.. I believe there are a lot of us introverts out there faking it the best we can. Most importantly for me is to not feel bad about myself when I'm feeling introverted. Also, intentionally gearing myself for smaller group settings. I can't always do this but I don't have to say yes to go to every uncomfortable situation. I'm also making an effort to talk more, one on one, with strangers who also appear to be introverted.

During a time of self doubt, Mistress Zhao had consoled me with a quote from Miguel Angel Ruiz's "The Four Agreements". In studying these, i have been looking back through my life and analyzing the "judgements" I have made on myself. This introvert realization was a surprise sidebar to that process. Mistress Zhao is inspirational for me to be more in touch with my feelings and, maybe someday, opening up to others.