Curious Femdom Novice

i think what i most look for is someone who will keep me absolutely restrained and unable to move.

i guess what i find exciting is the complete reversal of gender roles with the female in control over the man, i guess also being completely restrained and at a woman's mercy is also a major turn on.

As my username suggests, I'm a curious about femdom yet a novice, i've never done anything bdsm related before but i found this site a while and I'm obsessed with this site and the beautifully exotic mistress's. My question is who would you recommend to be my stepping stone into this? Again i have no experience in femdom or bdsm.