loveinthetimeofcollaring
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Fun question that should produce some interesting answers. I don't exactly know the term that describes me, but it's probably heteroflexible. When it comes to overall physical characteristics, I absolutely favor women over men. Men's physiques, faces, voices etc do nothing for me.
Cocks though... I'll admit, those can be pretty great. It's too bad they're attached to men and not women. Strap-ons can be somewhat of a proxy there, but I am still intensely curious about what it's like to service / give pleasure to the actual thing. I guess there are ladyboys and what not but (A) I don't foresee such encounters in my future (
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Anyone here have a "fatty fetish?" Just saw this article: http://nypost.com/2015/04/10/the-webcam-model-who-wants-to-be-as-big-as-physically-possible/?utm_campaign=SocialFlow&utm_source=NYPFacebook&utm_medium=SocialFlow
I love that she's curvy and PROUD!
I don't, but it was very interesting when I learned my best friend did (this was 6 or 7 years ago). We'd gone drinking earlier and while waiting outside of Kenka to get in, we started checking out girls. I began noticing a bit of a pattern on his part. Wound up chatting about it over dinner and when I asked him why, he had this inexplicable reasoning of having an overwhelming desire just to "roll" one of these women. I know it sounds ludicrous and somewhat degrading, but I think this was the closet he could come to articulating the emotional-visceral feeling of that kind of attraction.
He also seemed somewhat sheepish/ashamed of this interest, though considering my own fetishes (which I would tell him about years later) it never bothered me. Granted, he's engaged to some waify chick now so I guess his fetish wasn't powerful enough.
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Agreed. This is not for horror aficionados. It barely has three seconds of tame gore at the beginning; after that, it is all atmosphere and suspense. It made me feel as when watching Clouzot's Les diaboliques as a child.
Interesting--do you think gore is a critical component of horror? I don't know a ton about the genre, but there seem to be a few dividing lines--gore, jump scares, etc--that just shut out a lot of films for me. Atmosphere and suspense though.... that's definitely my sweet spot.
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The 2 hours with Mistress Zhao were wonderful. She was sweet, caring, kind, well obviously also rough with me, but that's why I visited the Fortress. Pain and pleasure never felt so good. I will never forget her cute smile, her gorgeous tattoos, her warm voice, soft feet, magnificent body.. everything was better than I imagined. She managed to involve all of my wishes and even more in those 2 hours.
Also I was surprised that I was actually really motivated and full of energy after the session. It wasn't draining or exhausting at all. I felt kinda like after I get a massage, I felt good afterwards and was full of energy again.
Mistress Zhao is indeed very special and wonderful, and it's great that you were able to have such a powerful first impression of the Fortress
The post-session high really is something, isn't it? It's the same sort of energy I feel on a perfect Spring or Fall day, where there's just a sort of perfect balance that hangs in the air between my frame of mind and how the world around me seems to be.
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Hmmm, I am a big wuss and don't do well with outright horror movies, but I love horror writing and--at least from what I understand--the idea of IT FOLLOWS sounds like it would've made a great short story.
I am curious though to know how the film handles what essentially seems like an STD demon.
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You are horrible
(thank you)
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HA do you have an example?!
Let's see...
Most of my examples are work examples, which are pretty boring. A (slightly) less boring example would be the dinner I had with a friend my fiancee a few weeks ago. This is a new friend and he's nice, if a little stiff, and is originally from a very rural state. At some point we're talking about New York and he begins to go on about people from NYC--it's here I realize he doesn't know I was born in Brooklyn.
So, basically, I egg him on to share all of his negative stereotypes: accents, rudeness, inability to appreciate aspects of nature, on and on and on. I wait until he's exhausted himself to reveal the truth and just get a big laugh watching him try to get his foot out of his mouth. I didn't take anything he said personally and told him not to worry, but it was fun luring him out on a ledge with that information gap
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What are your thoughts on power, your preferred role of power- whether it be dominant/submissive? Do you prefer to always be in control (how do you go about maintaining your continual control?) or do you prefer a turn-the-tables scenario like I outlined above?
When dealing with friends/relationships/work, I usually find myself in a more dominant position but I'm not exactly sure it's my "preferred" role. In many cases--some friendships and colleagues especially--there's simply a power vacuum, where either no one wants to have that dominant position or the people who do are somehow toxic to others. My tolerance for those kinds of things is pretty low and, as such, I will assume a more dominant/powerful position to steer the overall group away from a "broken" situation.
I do love a turn-the-tables scenario though! Personally I love a delta in information/understanding and the sort of dynamics that creates--having information/knowledge someone else would use to make a decision and thus altering their actions is oddly entertaining :]
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It didn't seem like that Brooklyn accent ever even had a chance. The way you write/talk (?) is very familiar. I like it.
Well, we *did* spend a bunch of time with our SI/Jersey family growing up so it wasn't totally blown out the water. Out of curiosity, I saw earlier on the thread that you grew up in NYC? Can I ask where? I have my money on Forest Hills or Elmhurst.
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I think "seductively coy" describes Mistress Rey well ;-)
How about "seductively koi"? Do we have a Mistress who fits that description?
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Why do you think you lost or never developed your Brooklyn accent? Did you spend any of your formative years elsewhere?
Speech impediment :] As a kid, I had a minor impediment that sent me to a speech pathologist that really flattened out any accent I might have developed. On top of that I went to (A) high school in Manhattan rather than my very Italian neighborhood in Brooklyn and then (
went to college in upstate New York (which carries its own vowel shift issues).I was also a nerd growing up, so my friends were less guido and more ESL-inclined. Thanks, interest in Dungeons & Dragons!
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I thought of this thread last night, when I was deep in Staten Island for a cousin's birthday party. We have a lot of family in Brooklyn/Staten Island/Jersey and the accents are pretty ridiculous (except mine--no one ever believes I'm from Brooklyn). After a few hours of accented casual racism and misogyny, I was sure I'd gotten my fill of family for another year.
I could never peg M. Zhao
Oh, yes, I do believe it's meant to be the other way around.
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Welcome, Mistress Rey!
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Reminds me of:
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Thought I had posted this but maybe it didn't go through!
Hi GOD! ....interesting choice of username. I look forward to hearing about your Fortress experience and reading things like, "GOD sure did beg for mercy!".
CineKink looks interesting and makes me wish I wasn't traveling this week so I could check out some of it--it'd definitely give a different meaning to what I've come to expect with "Kinky Shorts"!
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Thanks for your suggestions. But further- Which one of your suggestions really haunts your thoughts and why? Why are you recommending those titles as opposed to others?
It's been too long since I read Delta of Venus to really say if (and why) it might haunt me, but the one story that's stuck with me all this time has been an incest-y story involving a teenaged girl (maybe tween) and a stepfather, along with lots of lap bouncing. Though I know they're some people's kink (and that's fine), incest/age play really squick me out, so I'd say that story just sits uneasy with me.
Talking about an erotic story that does haunt me would be Ten Days in Another Town. I've mentioned it on other threads, but a big part of the story is about denying a man not just sexual release, but even the ability to touch himself without repercussions. While all this frustration builds, he's continually degraded and made to pleasure women--that juxtaposition is just wild for me and hits a very tender spot for me.
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Read, "Tell Kang I Know She's Messing with Me."
by Purgatorio, ha ha.
Listen, I can't begin, Venus in Furs, Sacher Masoch. DeSade's Justine, other titles. Anais Nin's Venus something book. And Henry & June, but that's more literary than titillating. But then all my dirty books had to be underground classics, shit!
Delta of Venus
My first (formal) erotica and whew...what a doozy. Just picked uo "The Marketplace" and looking forward to it! Just need to finish "Dark Places" first...
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Very soon, my dear pet kitty.
This response fills me both with anxiety and pride. Anxipride, perhaps?
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Does that tongue have a front butt?
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Hi! Where can I find the instructions ?
for what?
At this rate, this may very well turn into the most existential discussion I've heard in a long time.
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loveinthetimeofcollaring,
I'm happy to answer these inquiries in person
But in short, to you I am a fully formed adult. But before we met, I have been many things and have come a long way to land where I am now. So there's a lot of dimension to my becoming.
I would be very honored and beyond grateful to even hear the slimmest of chapters from that story
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my friend was just talking about his experience in maid cafes! he said it made him very uncomfortable and if i understand correctly the premise is there are a bunch of maids that are serving you as their master while their actual master is away?
i don't like anything that places in women in an overtly submissive role, obviously
That's basically it. They use crazy honorific language, dote all over you, etc etc. I understand the function it provides for something people, but it's just very antithetical to my nature... obviously. I've heard there are a few cafes where the maids are really mean to you, which seems like it might be fun, but I'm not sure I'd get the full effect as a "foreigner".
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What do people here think of maid cafes? Anyone ever been?
My best friend came along for a bit on my last trip to Tokyo and he really wanted to go to one, so I agreed, begrudgingly. I think it was a disappointing experience for him--kinda creepy, kinda awkward--and for me, since I'd been once back in 2006, I knew what to expect (but hoped he'd have a good time anyway). The burlesque show we went to--with its very assertive, devious minded performers--was much better :]
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My "shadow" self has very little to do with BDSM.
It has more to do with my ego's demands to be recognized and validated as someone who is attractive and intelligent. This poses problems in the split identities arena, as the dualities become twice the work to manage in this "shadow play".
Over the course of the years that I have been "becoming" I strive to unite these dualities in both the aspect of idenitity, as well as the anima/animus, and finally the public/shadow self. Relationships play a major part in this integration, both with clients and personally. I feel parts of my shadow self being summoned into play at the Fortress, and utilizing these darknesses allows me to recognize, accept, and play with them.
Of course, there are parts of my shadow self that I have not had the courage to display in session, ones that I feel would compromise my dominance over others. These are ones that I work on in private, but relentlessly. I think that the more I become aware of these shadows, the "thinner" it becomes, and the more whole I feel. It's still a work in progress though!
Hmm, there is much here that I don't understand but I wish to--how exactly does your ego wish for validation (a wish whose prerequisites are so self-evident that I think no validation is necessary...) pose problems in the split arena? What "becoming" are you going through? And, finally, how could anything compromise your dominance over others?
Granted, I've had far less interaction with you than some, but I still feel inclined to say this: even at your most vulnerable--or whatever other emblematic state one would invoke to indicate a reversal of dominance--I can't imagine you as anything but dominant. Not to say that you can't be the full range of who you would be, but rather that (some types of) submission can be such that they hold up another regardless of the expected trappings of dominance. For me, personally, that's always been a core idea in submission--the supportive, loving submissive who wants to see the person they submit to get to express all their myriad sides without worry about their authority dissipating in any way.
Fatty Fetish?
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Not a BBW guy, but I've always liked Harukawa's work. Lots of passion put into it. Along the same lines I'd suggest Eric Stanton's stuff too, as he does a lot of Amazon type pieces (along with much more extreme/fantastical themes too).
And speaking of general fun FD artistry, there's always Sardax and in a bit more of a toonish way, Kamitora.