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Not a BBW guy, but I've always liked Harukawa's work. Lots of passion put into it. Along the same lines I'd suggest Eric Stanton's stuff too, as he does a lot of Amazon type pieces (along with much more extreme/fantastical themes too). And speaking of general fun FD artistry, there's always Sardax and in a bit more of a toonish way, Kamitora.

Fun question that should produce some interesting answers. I don't exactly know the term that describes me, but it's probably heteroflexible. When it comes to overall physical characteristics, I absolutely favor women over men. Men's physiques, faces, voices etc do nothing for me. Cocks though... I'll admit, those can be pretty great. It's too bad they're attached to men and not women. Strap-ons can be somewhat of a proxy there, but I am still intensely curious about what it's like to service / give pleasure to the actual thing. I guess there are ladyboys and what not but (A) I don't foresee such encounters in my future ( at least from what I've seen, the ladyboy cocks aren't terribly impressive...

I don't, but it was very interesting when I learned my best friend did (this was 6 or 7 years ago). We'd gone drinking earlier and while waiting outside of Kenka to get in, we started checking out girls. I began noticing a bit of a pattern on his part. Wound up chatting about it over dinner and when I asked him why, he had this inexplicable reasoning of having an overwhelming desire just to "roll" one of these women. I know it sounds ludicrous and somewhat degrading, but I think this was the closet he could come to articulating the emotional-visceral feeling of that kind of attraction. He also seemed somewhat sheepish/ashamed of this interest, though considering my own fetishes (which I would tell him about years later) it never bothered me. Granted, he's engaged to some waify chick now so I guess his fetish wasn't powerful enough.

Interesting--do you think gore is a critical component of horror? I don't know a ton about the genre, but there seem to be a few dividing lines--gore, jump scares, etc--that just shut out a lot of films for me. Atmosphere and suspense though.... that's definitely my sweet spot.

Mistress Zhao is indeed very special and wonderful, and it's great that you were able to have such a powerful first impression of the Fortress The post-session high really is something, isn't it? It's the same sort of energy I feel on a perfect Spring or Fall day, where there's just a sort of perfect balance that hangs in the air between my frame of mind and how the world around me seems to be.

Hmmm, I am a big wuss and don't do well with outright horror movies, but I love horror writing and--at least from what I understand--the idea of IT FOLLOWS sounds like it would've made a great short story. I am curious though to know how the film handles what essentially seems like an STD demon.

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Let's see... Most of my examples are work examples, which are pretty boring. A (slightly) less boring example would be the dinner I had with a friend my fiancee a few weeks ago. This is a new friend and he's nice, if a little stiff, and is originally from a very rural state. At some point we're talking about New York and he begins to go on about people from NYC--it's here I realize he doesn't know I was born in Brooklyn. So, basically, I egg him on to share all of his negative stereotypes: accents, rudeness, inability to appreciate aspects of nature, on and on and on. I wait until he's exhausted himself to reveal the truth and just get a big laugh watching him try to get his foot out of his mouth. I didn't take anything he said personally and told him not to worry, but it was fun luring him out on a ledge with that information gap

When dealing with friends/relationships/work, I usually find myself in a more dominant position but I'm not exactly sure it's my "preferred" role. In many cases--some friendships and colleagues especially--there's simply a power vacuum, where either no one wants to have that dominant position or the people who do are somehow toxic to others. My tolerance for those kinds of things is pretty low and, as such, I will assume a more dominant/powerful position to steer the overall group away from a "broken" situation. I do love a turn-the-tables scenario though! Personally I love a delta in information/understanding and the sort of dynamics that creates--having information/knowledge someone else would use to make a decision and thus altering their actions is oddly entertaining :]

Well, we *did* spend a bunch of time with our SI/Jersey family growing up so it wasn't totally blown out the water. Out of curiosity, I saw earlier on the thread that you grew up in NYC? Can I ask where? I have my money on Forest Hills or Elmhurst.

How about "seductively koi"? Do we have a Mistress who fits that description?

Speech impediment :] As a kid, I had a minor impediment that sent me to a speech pathologist that really flattened out any accent I might have developed. On top of that I went to (A) high school in Manhattan rather than my very Italian neighborhood in Brooklyn and then ( went to college in upstate New York (which carries its own vowel shift issues). I was also a nerd growing up, so my friends were less guido and more ESL-inclined. Thanks, interest in Dungeons & Dragons!

I thought of this thread last night, when I was deep in Staten Island for a cousin's birthday party. We have a lot of family in Brooklyn/Staten Island/Jersey and the accents are pretty ridiculous (except mine--no one ever believes I'm from Brooklyn). After a few hours of accented casual racism and misogyny, I was sure I'd gotten my fill of family for another year. Oh, yes, I do believe it's meant to be the other way around.

Welcome, Mistress Rey!

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Thought I had posted this but maybe it didn't go through! Hi GOD! ....interesting choice of username. I look forward to hearing about your Fortress experience and reading things like, "GOD sure did beg for mercy!". CineKink looks interesting and makes me wish I wasn't traveling this week so I could check out some of it--it'd definitely give a different meaning to what I've come to expect with "Kinky Shorts"!

It's been too long since I read Delta of Venus to really say if (and why) it might haunt me, but the one story that's stuck with me all this time has been an incest-y story involving a teenaged girl (maybe tween) and a stepfather, along with lots of lap bouncing. Though I know they're some people's kink (and that's fine), incest/age play really squick me out, so I'd say that story just sits uneasy with me. Talking about an erotic story that does haunt me would be Ten Days in Another Town. I've mentioned it on other threads, but a big part of the story is about denying a man not just sexual release, but even the ability to touch himself without repercussions. While all this frustration builds, he's continually degraded and made to pleasure women--that juxtaposition is just wild for me and hits a very tender spot for me.

Delta of Venus My first (formal) erotica and whew...what a doozy. Just picked uo "The Marketplace" and looking forward to it! Just need to finish "Dark Places" first...

This response fills me both with anxiety and pride. Anxipride, perhaps?

Does that tongue have a front butt?

At this rate, this may very well turn into the most existential discussion I've heard in a long time.

I would be very honored and beyond grateful to even hear the slimmest of chapters from that story

That's basically it. They use crazy honorific language, dote all over you, etc etc. I understand the function it provides for something people, but it's just very antithetical to my nature... obviously. I've heard there are a few cafes where the maids are really mean to you, which seems like it might be fun, but I'm not sure I'd get the full effect as a "foreigner".

What do people here think of maid cafes? Anyone ever been? My best friend came along for a bit on my last trip to Tokyo and he really wanted to go to one, so I agreed, begrudgingly. I think it was a disappointing experience for him--kinda creepy, kinda awkward--and for me, since I'd been once back in 2006, I knew what to expect (but hoped he'd have a good time anyway). The burlesque show we went to--with its very assertive, devious minded performers--was much better :]