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On 3/9/2022 at 4:06 PM, eager2serve said:
Have to be honest. I guess I have always felt that whether consciously or not, most male/female relationships are. Seems to be the natural order.
This has not been my experience. In my vanilla relationships, I've often ended up being the decision-maker in most situations.
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I'm going to come across as a basic bitch but "Good Boy!" and "Bad Boy!" get me all tingly inside. A couple of Dommes have affectionately called me "slut" during anal play and I've liked it.
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I hate you so much right now ... but I love you even more.
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My last in-person session was with Miss Zito right before the pandemic. It seems appropriate that my first in-person session of 2022 should be with her!
I have been less than devoted to You during the pandemic Mistress Zito and I really, really should be punished for 2-years of neglect.
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If you're going to pop that cherry, no better place than the Fortress. Definitely a cut above the other establishments.
I have a feeling Mistress Jung will exceed your expectations by a lot!
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On 11/28/2020 at 12:28 PM, theDumbMule said:
I just saw where they are closing up due to the pandemic. So sad to hear. Hopefully we are nearing the end of all this and no more great places like Avalon or our beloved Fortress have to close up.
That is sad to hear. I've spent a lot of time in Germany but never had an opportunity to visit a dungeon there. They take S&M to matter-of-factly there.
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Did 2x pilates classes via Zoom. Was really hoping for some porn-bombing but that did not happen and I had to just keep doing my teasers. At least we are putting our sun room to good use.
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We live in an older part of the city where the lots are big and houses moderately sized so there's a good bit of separation from the street. It's also a wooded dead-end and we often have runners and walkers who incorporate the street into their route. We also know all our neighbors well and have had careful interactions with them while keeping our distance. I'm one of several who always worked from home when not traveling but now everyone is home all the time! It's odd to see the street look like Sunday on a Wednesday.
Everyone is being very respectful so far about social distancing. The only times its a bit stressful is during shopping. Still a lot of folks who don't seem to know what 6 feet or 2 meters is.
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Honestly, we've been a tad too stressed to do much beyond the minimum. If I were alone, I'd probably turn the kitchen into a cooking lab but, my wife likes things neat and clean and we are low on cleaning supplies ?
The biggest experiment will be switching to frozen veggies vs fresh.
Hope you are well and safe!
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Trying to run and walk more. My Pilates studio is trying out virtual sessions so, that's interesting. Eating more at home which is unusual for us. I'm also keeping up with my local restaurants and coffee shops and ordering takeout to make sure we support them as much as possible.
Work has been a good distraction. It's interesting because I've always worked from home when not traveling but not being able to go into an office or a coffee shop takes some getting used to.
Stay safe!
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Man! I'd be up for an evening of drinks and food to compare our experiences! I've given up on trying to tightly outline and define who I am; who I want to be; who I think I should be.
It's the fluidity of potential that makes my life interesting now. The challenge was to embrace all of me and not just the public me. Still a struggle at times but I'm much more at peace with myself since becoming a part of this community of kinkster-philosophers!
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3 hours ago, LiamD said:
Step into me web.
Me Wall St. boss, as a thank you for a s load of money making trades, said that he'd set me up with the receptionist (whom he had the unrequited hots for) at the company's law firm. "Believe me kid, I'm doing you a favor." OK. Alley and I meet for a drinks date. She's a statuesque blonde looker. Mysterious. Riddle in a conundrum. Great fun date. We hit it off. More dates. She got weird. We couldn't arrange to go out in my neighborhood West 70's, only hers, East lower 60's. Turns out, can't make this up, she was dating/quasi living with a guy who lived on W 69th St. & I lived on W 70th St.. I didn't know that yet. Our windows in sight of each others. 7th floor over to 2nd floor.
Summer night. I hadn't shelled out for a window air conditioner yet. Turn off TV, pleasure myself. Phone rings immediately. "Are you just going to leave that on your stomach?" My blood froze, and I see this black slax white shirted blonde on the opposite roof top walking away with what was then ~ 8 lbs cell phone. "Call me exactly at 7:27AM on Saturday morning." That's how it started.
Between you and Danny Boy, I think we have enough material for a few seasons of a NetFlix original: NYC Kink, a twisted look back.
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On 2/13/2020 at 2:06 PM, LiamD said:
When I was trained by a neighbor in me 20's, she would have me come over and 90% secure myself for my corporal training. Part of my advancement was to move past the need to be secured. With the wooden paddle and this leather paddle and the rolling of dice, I've asked to be secured for the first time in many years. 2.5 - 3 months for healing.
Best & cheers,
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Ok, you HAVE to spill the beans on this. The closest I've come to this "fantasy" is on PornHub. In my 20's I had the hots for a neighbor who was a hot goth type and might have been in the scene. We hung out a bit but nothing ever happened outside of head!
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Does a bra/sports bra count as underarms? I used to find myself intensely aroused by the smell of sweat in bras. The thought of sweet, sweat beading off the luscious breasts of a woman and soaking into the fabric is highly erotic to me.
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I’m glad your “review” was a “10/10” kind of review
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Welcome Mistress Lovelace! Counting the days till I’m in NYC next ...
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On 11/3/2019 at 11:12 AM, Mistress Alexia Zito said:
I love that this session was so impactful! It’s a great feeling to find your dominant match.
I couldn't agree more Mistress!
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Make sure you wear a mouth guard! Those cracked molars are painful!
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You send an email from the link on the main page to book a session
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On 8/13/2019 at 12:08 PM, Dannyboy said:
I think they have relationship problems. Anyway that never worked with me. When I woke up in the middle of the night in great pain at saw a mouse trap on my erect penis it was time to leave.
Dannyboy
Ouch!
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Just walking the streets. I’ve been lucky enough to get up to the city a few times every year for work and there is nothing like just talking a walk in NYC and soaking in the ambience. Autumn is magical while the leaves are still on the branches. My absolute favorite time in the city.
I’ve spent time in some other great cities but nothing really compares to the big Apple in terms of visual impact, atmosphere and diversity.
Of course, the most enjoyable walks are the ones from and to a session at the FF ?
The thrill of the anticipation as you stroll down one of the arteries to Chinatown thinking to yourself “in a few minutes I’m going to be vulnerable in front of a gorgeous mistress” never gets old for me. I like to walk if I have time so it builds up and up and up till you are convinced your heart beat is going to be audible to the pedestrians at the next intersection.
Then the walk back after the session is of course always memorable. I am always on the session high, sort of floating slightly above the asphalt with probably a rosy glow all over (particularly in my posterior! ??). Everything is accentuated at that point but also strangely distant.
Yeah. Autumn in NYC with a dash of FF. That’s the ticket.
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1. WYSIWYG (for anyone who was around for the early days of computing in 80's and 90's) - What You See Is What You Get at the Fortress. No games. No bait & switch.
2. CLEAN - I am a bit of a germophobe and never once freaked out at the FF
3. Professional - The ladies know what they are doing. Trust me.
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13 hours ago, JustAGuy said:
I once dominated someone so bad at a Street Fighter game that they threw down their controller and walked out of the room. That may not be what you mean, though...
lol
I think that's more under the #RageQuit category.
Five Words To Win Over Your Mistress
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