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This has not been my experience. In my vanilla relationships, I've often ended up being the decision-maker in most situations.

I'm going to come across as a basic bitch but "Good Boy!" and "Bad Boy!" get me all tingly inside. A couple of Dommes have affectionately called me "slut" during anal play and I've liked it.

I hate you so much right now ... but I love you even more.

My last in-person session was with Miss Zito right before the pandemic. It seems appropriate that my first in-person session of 2022 should be with her! I have been less than devoted to You during the pandemic Mistress Zito and I really, really should be punished for 2-years of neglect.

If you're going to pop that cherry, no better place than the Fortress. Definitely a cut above the other establishments. I have a feeling Mistress Jung will exceed your expectations by a lot!

That is sad to hear. I've spent a lot of time in Germany but never had an opportunity to visit a dungeon there. They take S&M to matter-of-factly there.

Did 2x pilates classes via Zoom. Was really hoping for some porn-bombing but that did not happen and I had to just keep doing my teasers. At least we are putting our sun room to good use.

We live in an older part of the city where the lots are big and houses moderately sized so there's a good bit of separation from the street. It's also a wooded dead-end and we often have runners and walkers who incorporate the street into their route. We also know all our neighbors well and have had careful interactions with them while keeping our distance. I'm one of several who always worked from home when not traveling but now everyone is home all the time! It's odd to see the street look like Sunday on a Wednesday. Everyone is being very respectful so far about social distancing. The only times its a bit stressful is during shopping. Still a lot of folks who don't seem to know what 6 feet or 2 meters is.

Honestly, we've been a tad too stressed to do much beyond the minimum. If I were alone, I'd probably turn the kitchen into a cooking lab but, my wife likes things neat and clean and we are low on cleaning supplies ? The biggest experiment will be switching to frozen veggies vs fresh. Hope you are well and safe!

Trying to run and walk more. My Pilates studio is trying out virtual sessions so, that's interesting. Eating more at home which is unusual for us. I'm also keeping up with my local restaurants and coffee shops and ordering takeout to make sure we support them as much as possible. Work has been a good distraction. It's interesting because I've always worked from home when not traveling but not being able to go into an office or a coffee shop takes some getting used to. Stay safe!

Grazie!

Man! I'd be up for an evening of drinks and food to compare our experiences! I've given up on trying to tightly outline and define who I am; who I want to be; who I think I should be. It's the fluidity of potential that makes my life interesting now. The challenge was to embrace all of me and not just the public me. Still a struggle at times but I'm much more at peace with myself since becoming a part of this community of kinkster-philosophers! ?

Between you and Danny Boy, I think we have enough material for a few seasons of a NetFlix original: NYC Kink, a twisted look back.