Sissy play vs. Forced feminization

[littlejohn]

I was wondering if the Mistresses enjoy one over the other?

[Mistress Megan Ang]

4 hours ago, littlejohn said:

I was wondering if the Mistresses enjoy one over the other?

I really can’t choose. They’re both such different vibes and I enjoy them both equally! As long as you have panties on, I’m happy lol

[kevybaby]

Serious question but what's the difference exactly? Is forced fem more you feel like a girl and it's cathartic to experience wearing female clothes etc. while sissy play more about the humiliation of being made to wear female clothes etc.? 

[Mistress Alexia Zito]

Forced feminization can exist under the umbrella of sissy play so I’m wondering what the distinction between these two are for you, littlejohn? Are you asking if we prefer an enthusiastic sub who enjoys feminization or one that we have to force into the role “against their will” (as roleplay)? 

[littlejohn]

Mistress Zito,

I never had an interest in sissy play/feminization until a recent session with a very experienced Mistress. She unexpectedly transformed me into a total slut - totally surprised me but loved it.  Wondering if I could continue my training at the Fortress?

[ConsentOptional]

On 1/19/2020 at 2:34 PM, kevybaby said:

Serious question but what's the difference exactly? Is forced fem more you feel like a girl and it's cathartic to experience wearing female clothes etc. while sissy play more about the humiliation of being made to wear female clothes etc.? 

To me (and maybe only me...) the fork in the road is sissification and sluttification.  Both pursue an idealized exaggeration.

The sissy, a notion of a woman who typically belongs to a bygone era.  Feminine, deferring, proper, tasteful - even when dressed for a coquettish adventure.

The slut, a wanton whore, unable to conceal or contain a consuming desire to be used.  A débauché.

They aren't mutually exclusive, but tend that way.  The true sissy would look askance at the true slut.

The biggest difference to me (and maybe only me...) the sissy renounces masculinity.  (At least for an hour.)  He is the ever-so-willing co-conspirator in his feminized re-making.  The slut renounces, or will lose in any event, his dignity.  Willing, unwilling, doesn't matter.  His masculinity is his problem, not yours.  It is now irrelevant.  He will answer to 'whore' 'bitch' and worse and learn that from now on yours is the only cock that matters, and that is where most of his lipstick will end up.

You'd lock a sissy in chastity because he doesn't need "one of those things."  You'd lock a slut in chastity to drive him insane.

I'm a slut.  But I've come to terms with the fact that I'm a submissive.  Reconciling the two has been complicated.  At least for me...

[Mistress Alexia Zito]

16 hours ago, littlejohn said:

Mistress Zito,

I never had an interest in sissy play/feminization until a recent session with a very experienced Mistress. She unexpectedly transformed me into a total slut - totally surprised me but loved it.  Wondering if I could continue my training at the Fortress?

I would love to see you continue your training here! And I would love to hear more details about your experience  

[Mistress Zora Jin]

On 1/21/2020 at 10:45 PM, littlejohn said:

Mistress Zito,

I never had an interest in sissy play/feminization until a recent session with a very experienced Mistress. She unexpectedly transformed me into a total slut - totally surprised me but loved it.  Wondering if I could continue my training at the Fortress?

I want to hear more about your transformation! What did you wear? And most importantly were you a good little whore? Did your mistress fill all your holes? 

[Al3x]

On 1/22/2020 at 5:16 AM, ConsentOptional said:

To me (and maybe only me...) the fork in the road is sissification and sluttification.  Both pursue an idealized exaggeration.

The sissy, a notion of a woman who typically belongs to a bygone era.  Feminine, deferring, proper, tasteful - even when dressed for a coquettish adventure.

The slut, a wanton whore, unable to conceal or contain a consuming desire to be used.  A débauché.

They aren't mutually exclusive, but tend that way.  The true sissy would look askance at the true slut.

The biggest difference to me (and maybe only me...) the sissy renounces masculinity.  (At least for an hour.)  He is the ever-so-willing co-conspirator in his feminized re-making.  The slut renounces, or will lose in any event, his dignity.  Willing, unwilling, doesn't matter.  His masculinity is his problem, not yours.  It is now irrelevant.  He will answer to 'whore' 'bitch' and worse and learn that from now on yours is the only cock that matters, and that is where most of his lipstick will end up.

You'd lock a sissy in chastity because he doesn't need "one of those things."  You'd lock a slut in chastity to drive him insane.

I'm a slut.  But I've come to terms with the fact that I'm a submissive.  Reconciling the two has been complicated.  At least for me...

Interesting. 

Personally, those lines are blurred for me (although you probably just see things with more clarity than I do)

I don't feel the need to be humiliated dressed as a female (in fact I am drawn to beautiful women holding the upper hand), it's more (as you say) that sissying up renounces my masculinity (who I am in the outside world) and the more pronounced that is, the more exposed and vulnerable I am 

Whilst they have the implements and apparatus to (physically) contain me at the Fortress, I'm a fairly big, strong guy - I find it far more effective to strip all of the masculinity away (and provide it themselves) to achieve that scared, vulnerable, gurl inside that doesn't need much coercing to degenerate into the wanton slut whore to be used, broken and discarded by my Mistress

p.s. if you haven't tried this, and are interested - the Fortress is DEFINITELY the right place to come for that