Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 14, 2023 Report Share Posted March 14, 2023 Figured I’d answer a frequently asked question I get….. “What was your first kink awakening ?” Well the story is a pretty simple one lol . I was left alone with the computer a lot growing up and that was my place where I loved to be because of the ability to learn so much from it . That being said I started watching porn pretty early on, it was very quick for me to transition into more “alternative” type of porn . The first type of more taboo stuff I was watching started with gay male porn , then leading into all the Kink.com videos haha . Anyone else have their kinky awakening earlier in life ? If so I’d like to hear your experiences … Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubbleteadrinker Posted March 15, 2023 Report Share Posted March 15, 2023 I think what led me to my eventual fascination with female domination was watching women's boxing and wrestling. There's something I find amazing about watching women showcase their skill, abilities, and dare I say warrior-like spirit during these matches, especially if they're in a match dominating a man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ConsentOptional Posted March 15, 2023 Report Share Posted March 15, 2023 i was turned on by bondage before puberty. any movie with someone getting tied up was inherently intriguing. everything has grown out from that kink. as you Professionals know, there's a lot more to bondage than rope. there's helplessness, vulnerability, consent/nonconsent, one-sided negotiation, but also a sense of Dominant protection. while in bondage, the Dominatrix is both my antagonist and, weirdly, my protector. the one who keeps me safe - especially from myself and over-estimating my limits.. I was never into feminization and chastity or my other strong current kinks in my early years. but i was led to them thru the portal of bondage. and bondage was there before i was 10. maybe 6 or 7? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slave mark Posted March 15, 2023 Report Share Posted March 15, 2023 Growing up, I gravitated towards TV shows about dominant women (I liked the Amazons on Xena, for example). I saw the word "masochist" in a book, looked it up on the Internet, and things grew from there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilbitchbobby Posted March 15, 2023 Report Share Posted March 15, 2023 I lovvvvved watching wrestling growing up especially when women interfere and totallly dominate and humilate the guy she he can lose the match Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 15, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 15, 2023 17 hours ago, bubbleteadrinker said: I think what led me to my eventual fascination with female domination was watching women's boxing and wrestling. There's something I find amazing about watching women showcase their skill, abilities, and dare I say warrior-like spirit during these matches, especially if they're in a match dominating a man. Watching women's fighting challenges seems like a common one I've heard as well. I really enjoy watching strong women dominate as well. The strong and sexy trope is great in movies as well. The femme fatale . I've been getting more into Brazilian jiu-jitsu because I want to utilize my strong legs more . 4 hours ago, Lilbitchbobby said: I lovvvvved watching wrestling growing up especially when women interfere and totallly dominate and humilate the guy she he can lose the match Like grappling a man down then forcing him into submission with forced tickling and wegies haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ford Ranger Posted March 15, 2023 Report Share Posted March 15, 2023 We were in HS. She had one knee on my chest and the other leg stretched … down … with her arms in the air like she was celebrating a victory. And that was that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xrispy Posted March 15, 2023 Report Share Posted March 15, 2023 In 5th grade Paige on the play ground used to hit me with her street hockey stick as hard as she could. Paige was the finest girl in school and she confessed she had a crush on me. So she continued beating me. I must say it was confusing and exhilarating! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilbitchbobby Posted March 16, 2023 Report Share Posted March 16, 2023 8 hours ago, Mistress Diana Gong said: Watching women's fighting challenges seems like a common one I've heard as well. I really enjoy watching strong women dominate as well. The strong and sexy trope is great in movies as well. The femme fatale . I've been getting more into Brazilian jiu-jitsu because I want to utilize my strong legs more . Like grappling a man down then forcing him into submission with forced tickling and wegies haha ????when i was in jr high girls used to take turns picking me up and carrying me throwing me arm wrestling me thqt was quite humiliating Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 16, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 16, 2023 On 3/14/2023 at 8:39 PM, ConsentOptional said: i was turned on by bondage before puberty. any movie with someone getting tied up was inherently intriguing. everything has grown out from that kink. as you Professionals know, there's a lot more to bondage than rope. there's helplessness, vulnerability, consent/nonconsent, one-sided negotiation, but also a sense of Dominant protection. while in bondage, the Dominatrix is both my antagonist and, weirdly, my protector. the one who keeps me safe - especially from myself and over-estimating my limits.. I was never into feminization and chastity or my other strong current kinks in my early years. but i was led to them thru the portal of bondage. and bondage was there before i was 10. maybe 6 or 7? Yup different movies definitely had brought out some interests hehe . Aw I feel exactly what you described , even though I am your domme and I'm here to push your boundaries a little bit. I also know when to stop before YOU might even know lol . Its like...someone's gotta be the "adult" here ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 16, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 16, 2023 On 3/14/2023 at 11:30 PM, slave mark said: Growing up, I gravitated towards TV shows about dominant women (I liked the Amazons on Xena, for example). I saw the word "masochist" in a book, looked it up on the Internet, and things grew from there. Hmm what was the book...?? I wonder what was your reaction the moment you saw everything that popped up on google.... ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slave mark Posted March 16, 2023 Report Share Posted March 16, 2023 6 hours ago, Mistress Diana Gong said: Hmm what was the book...?? I wonder what was your reaction the moment you saw everything that popped up on google.... ? I forget the title; I know he's "cancelled" now but it was one of the Dilbert non-comic books. Believe it or not this was before Google ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ConsentOptional Posted March 16, 2023 Report Share Posted March 16, 2023 9 hours ago, Mistress Diana Gong said: Its like...someone's gotta be the "adult" here ? Exactly. And the one in the pink stockings, pink chastity device, pink ballgag and wearing that collar would not be a good choice for the "adult." At least not for the next few hours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 17, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2023 21 hours ago, Lilbitchbobby said: ????when i was in jr high girls used to take turns picking me up and carrying me throwing me arm wrestling me thqt was quite humiliating Aww did you always lose ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustAGuy Posted March 17, 2023 Report Share Posted March 17, 2023 On 3/14/2023 at 6:16 PM, Mistress Diana Gong said: Figured I’d answer a frequently asked question I get….. “What was your first kink awakening ?” Well the story is a pretty simple one lol . I was left alone with the computer a lot growing up and that was my place where I loved to be because of the ability to learn so much from it . That being said I started watching porn pretty early on, it was very quick for me to transition into more “alternative” type of porn . The first type of more taboo stuff I was watching started with gay male porn , then leading into all the Kink.com videos haha . Anyone else have their kinky awakening earlier in life ? If so I’d like to hear your experiences … Kink.com! You make me feel so old HAHAHA, because that was your intro and I remember feeling blessed to find that site when I'd been kinky for years! Kink.com was fantastic, I still have some of the old galleries of Mike Tan, Kendra James, Penny Flame, etc. Mike had anger, Kendra James went on to kill it at Humiliatrix with calm, sneering condescension, and Penny Flame just seemed nutty! I remember being really confused and excited by a scene in "Never Say Never Again" (the last Bond movie starring the late Sean Connery) where the evil nurse from SPECTR was dressed as a nurse and beat the shit out of a prisoner: When I was probably about, I remember having been fascinated by this print ad from a gaming magazine for "Leather Goddesses of Phobos II." I haven't seen it for decades but thought about it with your question and found it on Google: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 17, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2023 On 3/15/2023 at 5:08 PM, Ford Ranger said: We were in HS. She had one knee on my chest and the other leg stretched … down … with her arms in the air like she was celebrating a victory. And that was that. She was the winner no doubt haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 17, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2023 On 3/15/2023 at 7:42 PM, Xrispy said: In 5th grade Paige on the play ground used to hit me with her street hockey stick as hard as she could. Paige was the finest girl in school and she confessed she had a crush on me. So she continued beating me. I must say it was confusing and exhilarating! Aww did you guys end up having cute little FLR? You were her little hockey puck ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
job1617 Posted March 17, 2023 Report Share Posted March 17, 2023 During my first year of college the internet was in its infancy (dating myself). At the library I was checking email and browsing. Decided to look up sexy women which connected me to a site that had pictures of women in tight leather dominating men. Never in my life had I known something like this existed. I was so turned on, Looking at those pics it just clicked in my brain that I would want that experience. Not understanding where this came from I kept it to myself. This led to watching porn with dominant women. I was attracted to the power they had. Without a raise of the voice or an implement in hand, they were in control. I would have given anything to be on on my hands and knees. Due to shame I kept this to myself for twelve years. Only then did I work up the courage to give this a try. In Feb 2008 my first session was at....the Fortress. That experience brought me into the world of kink and I have never looked back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilbitchbobby Posted March 17, 2023 Report Share Posted March 17, 2023 17 hours ago, Mistress Diana Gong said: Aww did you always lose ? Unfortunately yes i had no chance i was like under 5 feet lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ford Ranger Posted March 17, 2023 Report Share Posted March 17, 2023 6 hours ago, Mistress Diana Gong said: She was the winner no doubt haha Who can say who was the real winner that day! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 18, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2023 16 hours ago, JustAGuy said: Kink.com! You make me feel so old HAHAHA, because that was your intro and I remember feeling blessed to find that site when I'd been kinky for years! Kink.com was fantastic, I still have some of the old galleries of Mike Tan, Kendra James, Penny Flame, etc. Mike had anger, Kendra James went on to kill it at Humiliatrix with calm, sneering condescension, and Penny Flame just seemed nutty! I remember being really confused and excited by a scene in "Never Say Never Again" (the last Bond movie starring the late Sean Connery) where the evil nurse from SPECTR was dressed as a nurse and beat the shit out of a prisoner: When I was probably about, I remember having been fascinated by this print ad from a gaming magazine for "Leather Goddesses of Phobos II." I haven't seen it for decades but thought about it with your question and found it on Google: Aww shame you wouldn't be able to handle the handle the nurse scene haha, it would've been fantastic to recreate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Diana Gong Posted March 18, 2023 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2023 14 hours ago, job1617 said: During my first year of college the internet was in its infancy (dating myself). At the library I was checking email and browsing. Decided to look up sexy women which connected me to a site that had pictures of women in tight leather dominating men. Never in my life had I known something like this existed. I was so turned on, Looking at those pics it just clicked in my brain that I would want that experience. Not understanding where this came from I kept it to myself. This led to watching porn with dominant women. I was attracted to the power they had. Without a raise of the voice or an implement in hand, they were in control. I would have given anything to be on on my hands and knees. Due to shame I kept this to myself for twelve years. Only then did I work up the courage to give this a try. In Feb 2008 my first session was at....the Fortress. That experience brought me into the world of kink and I have never looked back. Sounds like a beautiful journey that came full circle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustAGuy Posted March 18, 2023 Report Share Posted March 18, 2023 18 hours ago, Mistress Diana Gong said: Aww shame you wouldn't be able to handle the handle the nurse scene haha, it would've been fantastic to recreate Well, the part where she slams his face into the wall repeatedly was rough. SPOILERS for a decades old movie but she eventually murders him so he can't reveal SPECTRE secrets, being murdered by a Domme is one of those fantasies you can't really live out more than once! But the slapping is HAF! I found another clip, here's the final confrontation between James Bond and "Fatima Blush" (spoiler obviously). She's a sort of fantasy figure you probably want to keep in your fantasies and out of real life! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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