Aftercare

[Mistress Dalisay]

When a session ends, how important is aftercare for you?

For those that favor it, can you express your needs to come down from a session?

[job1617]

Very important. After a session sub drop comes quickly. I become very cold and need a towel or blanket to keep me warm. I need to be held for reassurance that everything is okay. Water is also a must. BDSM play brings out very traumatic emotions of my mother who abandoned me when I was 8 years old. I often role play scenarios of angry/disappointed mother. Positive uplifting words can bring me back from the brink of tears. 

[Ford Ranger]

I don’t think it’s that important for me, beyond the equivalent of a quick “good job” and a pat on the head. 

[Tyro Tim]

I’m on the opposite end of the spectrum from Ford Ranger.  That brief moment of personal connection (even when it feels a bit awkward) is a session highlight.  To this day I recall a few moments with Mistress Jung (who was my first and set the bar for Aftercare.)