Rituals

[Mistress Dalisay]

Tell me some ways you prepare yourself before stepping into the dungeon?

Do you give yourself a pep talk?

What about wearing a specific cologne?

How about imagining what may happen during the session? That’s what I do!

[Tyro Tim]

Focus on cleanliness (inside and out).  Take a little blue pill.  Prepare an envelope to express gratitude.  Drink water (but not too much).  Try to keep my heartbeat down.  Pace in the area because I arrived too early.  Have an inner debate as to an acceptable time when I can call Ms . Ree.  Begin hoping (against hope) for cameo appearances.  Pull my cap down upon entry to be as inconspicuous as practical.  And we’re off….

[Lilbitchbobby]

1 hour ago, Mistress Dalisay said:

Tell me some ways you prepare yourself before stepping into the dungeon?

Do you give yourself a pep talk?

What about wearing a specific cologne?

How about imagining what may happen during the session? That’s what I do!

I always shower cleaner but wear the best cologne called creed 

[Ford Ranger]

I try to take the prep really slow and think of preparing myself as an offering. Make a cup of coffee, then use a saline enema in the morning. A nice oil and brush shave with a safety razor, top and bottom, making sure to squat low to get between my legs and up the backside. Work carefully around my cage. Go back over the balls. Nail brush and soap on my hands and feet. No cologne, just deodorant. 

Then I go to work and try to compartmentalize for a few hours, before taking a long, late “lunch” and spending my subway ride trying to slowly really enter subspace. Then stroll a little because I’m too early and once I’m completely calm and empty, inevitably fuck up my vibe by walking into the wrong building. 
 

 

[Dannyboy]

13 hours ago, Tyro Tim said:

Focus on cleanliness (inside and out).  Take a little blue pill.  Prepare an envelope to express gratitude.  Drink water (but not too much).  Try to keep my heartbeat down.  Pace in the area because I arrived too early.  Have an inner debate as to an acceptable time when I can call Ms . Ree.  Begin hoping (against hope) for cameo appearances.  Pull my cap down upon entry to be as inconspicuous as practical.  And we’re off….

I almost always arrive in the neighborhood early and walk around the area until I may actually enter the premises. My mind is always active but not necessarily thinking about the session.

Dannyboy

[Mistress Dalisay]

On 7/1/2025 at 9:05 AM, Ford Ranger said:

I try to take the prep really slow and think of preparing myself as an offering. Make a cup of coffee, then use a saline enema in the morning. A nice oil and brush shave with a safety razor, top and bottom, making sure to squat low to get between my legs and up the backside. Work carefully around my cage. Go back over the balls. Nail brush and soap on my hands and feet. No cologne, just deodorant. 

Then I go to work and try to compartmentalize for a few hours, before taking a long, late “lunch” and spending my subway ride trying to slowly really enter subspace. Then stroll a little because I’m too early and once I’m completely calm and empty, inevitably fuck up my vibe by walking into the wrong building. 
 

 

Nice touch at the end 😄

[Ford Ranger]

1 hour ago, Mistress Dalisay said:

Nice touch at the end 😄

I wish I could say I was joking or at least that it only happened once. 

[Mistress Dalisay]

21 minutes ago, Ford Ranger said:

I wish I could say I was joking or at least that it only happened once. 

How many times? 😭

[Ford Ranger]

Only twice, but that’s two times too many. 

[applicant11]

On 6/30/2025 at 7:54 PM, Mistress Dalisay said:

Tell me some ways you prepare yourself before stepping into the dungeon?

Do you give yourself a pep talk?

What about wearing a specific cologne?

How about imagining what may happen during the session? That’s what I do!

On the day of a session, I like to imagine what will happen. I'll re-read the emails I've sent requesting activities and think about them to help get excited for the session.

As the session time gets near, I (like most here) end up showing up early, and end up taking a walk around the area. By this point, I am a mix of nervous and excited. The walk helps to burn up some of that excited nervous energy beforehand.

I also grab a drink and a snack from the nearby coffee shop, one of my favorite places. Every time I'm there, I wonder if the employees know that some of their customers are waiting to session nearby and if they know what truly goes on just a short distance away. For me, this coffee shop was one of my favorite places before I ever visited the fortress, but this particular one is now bound up in my memory with a dual significance.

Right before the session, I have to mentally calm myself and clear my mind. The closest feeling I can think of to describe it is that of a kid entering a toy store and told he can buy whatever he likes.