Mystery fetish

[Mistress Lovely]

Let’s say we’re sitting in a room, and there’s a button on the table between us. 

If you push it, a brand new fetish will be immediately implanted into your brain. Permanently. You don’t get to know what it is, though I might. I probably do. 

Would you push it? Share your reasoning.

[theDumbMule]

Yep!  How bad could having a new fetish be?

[nofoxx]

I would probably push it if you were influencing me 🥺 because I'm not very good at saying no 

Do you think it could implemented a fetish for pushing that button 🤣😵 

do you think it's possible to implement almost any fetish onto someone else? If so what would you think would be a good example for someone to try to induce on themselves for your enjoyment or for discovery 

 

[Goufin_Around]

I wouldn't press it. I've taken a lot of time as well as trial and error to know and understand what was just a curiosity and what I actually have as a fetish or kink. A lot of "oh wow, that was really unenjoyable" and a lot of "eureka" moments you know? For me, to override growing and knowing myself better by just inserting a fetish at the push of a button wouldn't be right to me. 

To each their own though

[risotto]

Fascinating question.  This looks to be a variant of Newcomb's Paradox much discussed in philosophy and decision theory.  I would have to say, "no."

[Mistress Lovely]

23 hours ago, nofoxx said:

I would probably push it if you were influencing me 🥺 because I'm not very good at saying no 

Do you think it could implemented a fetish for pushing that button 🤣😵 

do you think it's possible to implement almost any fetish onto someone else? If so what would you think would be a good example for someone to try to induce on themselves for your enjoyment or for discovery 

 

I love your profile pic!

Well, if it was possible, I wouldn’t need a button for someone who admits they can’t say no. 

I might just need some typed words.

[Mistress Lovely]

On 6/17/2026 at 8:50 PM, theDumbMule said:

Yep!  How bad could having a new fetish be?

How often do you see an American flag?

[Mistress Lovely]

11 hours ago, risotto said:

Fascinating question.  This looks to be a variant of Newcomb's Paradox much discussed in philosophy and decision theory.  I would have to say, "no."

I’m delighted you’ve brought philosophy in! 

What I’m playing with here is a  transformative experience problem.

Consent to be altered by another’s will opens deep and intimate D/s possibilities. 

For certain people, this teases the surface of their core fear.

[wibo]

On 6/18/2026 at 2:36 AM, Mistress Lovely said:

Let’s say we’re sitting in a room, and there’s a button on the table between us. 

If you push it, a brand new fetish will be immediately implanted into your brain. Permanently. You don’t get to know what it is, though I might. I probably do. 

Would you push it? Share your reasoning.

Dear Mistress,
i would request permission to push the button, and if you want me a new fetish, i  would press it without hesitation. My brain is your property, just like my body, my soul, my fetishes.

[theDumbMule]

10 hours ago, Mistress Lovely said:

How often do you see an American flag?

Every day! 🇺🇸

[risotto]

11 hours ago, Mistress Lovely said:

I’m delighted you’ve brought philosophy in! 

What I’m playing with here is a  transformative experience problem.

Consent to be altered by another’s will opens deep and intimate D/s possibilities. 

For certain people, this teases the surface of their core fear.

Of course the transformative experience is a staple in literature.  The idea of being fundamentally changed with technology has been a staple of speculative fiction since at least the 60s.  (Think of the "red pill" for a modernish example - the The Matrix's big debt to philosophy is the "brain in a tank" problem from epistemology.)  Or would you agree to have your memories changed?  (Think the bad movie "Total Recall" based on the good short story by Phillip K. Dick from the 60s.). But yes, I think there is a core fear there - the same one that comes up with hypnosis, though of course in the real world, hypnosis can't actually make any changes you don't want to make.   It's definitely a fear for me - it's one of the reasons why, for me, BDSM always stays in a well-defined space, walled off from the rest of my life: there's play time, and there's the rest of the time.

But on the question?   Hand over a choice of fetish to someone who may be a sadist?  Not something I would do.

[Mistress Lovely]

On 6/18/2026 at 8:28 AM, Goufin_Around said:

I wouldn't press it. I've taken a lot of time as well as trial and error to know and understand what was just a curiosity and what I actually have as a fetish or kink. A lot of "oh wow, that was really unenjoyable" and a lot of "eureka" moments you know? For me, to override growing and knowing myself better by just inserting a fetish at the push of a button wouldn't be right to me. 

To each their own though

In your self discovery process, do you go trying things and looking for a spark? Or do you ever start with a spark and work backwards? 

[Mistress Lovely]

6 hours ago, wibo said:

Dear Mistress,
i would request permission to push the button, and if you want me a new fetish, i  would press it without hesitation. My brain is your property, just like my body, my soul, my fetishes.

Obedience is based in decisions you make, not actions I permit. Start there if you hope to earn ownership.

[Mistress Lovely]

2 hours ago, theDumbMule said:

Every day! 🇺🇸

🇺🇸‼️

[Mistress Lovely]

1 hour ago, risotto said:

It's definitely a fear for me - it's one of the reasons why, for me, BDSM always stays in a well-defined space, walled off from the rest of my life: there's play time, and there's the rest of the time.

The wall is the tell.

[wibo]

55 minutes ago, Mistress Lovely said:

Obedience is based in decisions you make, not actions I permit. Start there if you hope to earn ownership.

I am heartbroken to disagree, dear mistress, but my decision is the decision to be there for my mistress in whatever way she desires. Therefore, it is not up to me to make an independent decision about my fetishes.