sweetbitchkalina Posted May 25, 2011 Report Posted May 25, 2011 I was wondering to the mistress's of the fortress does a quiet sub bother you or is it no problem whatsoever because i may not talk much but i will obey your orders Quote
Mistress Zhao Posted May 26, 2011 Report Posted May 26, 2011 I was wondering to the mistress's of the fortress does a quiet sub bother you or is it no problem whatsoever because i may not talk much but i will obey your orders Bisa, Good question.. Sometimes, when it comes to a completely new sub, silence can be confusing. I am not sure if you are immensely enjoying yourself, if you are terrified, if you are having an awful time and hate everything that's being done to you, or if you are completely indifferent to everything. Not talking is fine, but vocal cues are very welcome. Quote
Mistress Tran Posted May 26, 2011 Report Posted May 26, 2011 I was wondering to the mistress's of the fortress does a quiet sub bother you or is it no problem whatsoever because i may not talk much but i will obey your orders A quiet sub doesnt bother me but I do like to hear noises coming from my sub. Noises are like marks for me, I think they are signs of what I am doing to my sub. However, I do like to use silence in my sessions......I think you can achieve a certain type of control through silence. Quote
Mistress Ree Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 I fully agree with Mistress Zhao. As a Mistress, when playing with a new sub it's important to be able to gauge how/what the sub is feeling, if they like/dislike activities etc. There have been a couple of times when I have sessioned with new subs who were not vocal and been surprised to learn that they loved every minute of the session when, in my perspective, it appeared that they had hated it. Quote
Mistress Zhao Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 I never stop talking during sessions. there was a word omitted from your statement, so I filled it in for you Quote
joey Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 how are subs who over emote handled? i mean those that cry real tears or even scream. Quote
Big Trouble Baby Posted May 28, 2011 Report Posted May 28, 2011 there was a word omitted from your statement, so I filled it in for you Can't fool you, huh? Quote
Mistress Ree Posted May 28, 2011 Report Posted May 28, 2011 how are subs who over emote handled? i mean those that cry real tears or even scream. They are enjoyed, of course. Screams and tears are marvelously gratifying, as long as they don't go hand in hand with wimpy safeword abuse. Quote
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