quirkpok Posted May 26, 2009 Report Posted May 26, 2009 Dear Mistress Kang, what do You estimate is the %age of men crying like little girls in Your sessions ? Quote
Dannyboy Posted May 27, 2009 Report Posted May 27, 2009 Dear Mistress Kang, what do You estimate is the %age of men crying like little girls in Your sessions ? quirk.... A good deal of gender behavior is conditioned by society. There is no biological assignment of crying to little girls and not to big girls or adult women. By the same token, nature did not make it more difficult for men to cry and in some societies crying by a man is considered a sign of strength. I wonder why you didn't say "crying like little boys?" If men could cry more often, the life span of men would be increased vis a vis women. It's not physically heathly to repress emotions. Please don't take this as a personal criticism. You just touched upon a point that prompts this response. Dannyboy Quote
Big Trouble Baby Posted May 27, 2009 Report Posted May 27, 2009 Crying has always been a touchy subject for me because I've spent most of my life attempting to suppress my emotions. In the past few years I've accepted the fact that i,m an emotional person and sometimes it's better to let go than to hold in. Last week I took my rapidly deteriorating cat to the Vet for the last time. The Vet agreed it was the right time and we humanely ended his life. There was a time I would have fought my emotions every step of the way but no more. I cried from the minute I woke up that morning, during the ride to the vet, through the whole process, and then some during the day. On Memorial Day I buried his ashes and those of several other dogs and cats I've lost over the years and cried some more. There was a time I would be embarrassed to cry or even tell anyone about it but I think it makes me a more sympathetic person. I've been told many times that I,m a good listener and I think this is part of it. Ray Quote
Dannyboy Posted May 27, 2009 Report Posted May 27, 2009 Dear Mistress Kang, what do You estimate is the %age of men crying like little girls in Your sessions ? quirk... Reflecting a bit more on your question, I wonder if you would like to share your own experiences in the scene. Have you ever cried in session? What do you think of those who cry in session? Dannyboy Quote
mongoose Posted May 28, 2009 Report Posted May 28, 2009 My grandfather was the only "elder" in my life at the time who told me it was OK for a grown man to cry. He also told me to always carry condoms. Quote
quirkpok Posted May 28, 2009 Author Report Posted May 28, 2009 my experience is actuall a single one, and yes i cried. i went to that asian Lady and had to do some household chores for her, naked. then minutes before her girlfriends arrived, i had to get dressed like a girl. then serve them tea and do the dishes, then do a strip-tease for them. so far so good, even if i know that i am a very bad dancer and they all had their fun, then they made a kind of card-game and i only later understood that they were playing "who is making him cry ..... i had to be kneeling naked in front of the winner and look into her eyes, she then kicked my balls, i had to kiss her foot, say "thank You" and look back into her eyes, waiting for the next kick. that until i cried. what i still not understand is: did i cry out of pain or was it the cumulated humiliation ? Quote
goosemaster Posted May 29, 2009 Report Posted May 29, 2009 We may never know for sure the real answer,,, why you cried... but what we do know is that you are a very very naughty little girl. shame on you! Quote
Dannyboy Posted May 29, 2009 Report Posted May 29, 2009 my experience is actuall a single one, and yes i cried. i went to that asian Lady and had to do some household chores for her, naked. then minutes before her girlfriends arrived, i had to get dressed like a girl. then serve them tea and do the dishes, then do a strip-tease for them. so far so good, even if i know that i am a very bad dancer and they all had their fun, then they made a kind of card-game and i only later understood that they were playing "who is making him cry ..... i had to be kneeling naked in front of the winner and look into her eyes, she then kicked my balls, i had to kiss her foot, say "thank You" and look back into her eyes, waiting for the next kick. that until i cried. what i still not understand is: did i cry out of pain or was it the cumulated humiliation ? quirk... Fascinating scenario. The only part that I couldn't deal with is being kicked in the balls. I doubt that I would be able to take a second kick after receiving the first one. As to crying, I don't know that I would even be conscious. Some Mistresses I know love ballbusting but are disappointed because so few can tolerate the pain. Dannyboy Quote
mongoose Posted May 29, 2009 Report Posted May 29, 2009 I found out about a thing called "ball bustin" on the internet. There's some dudes out there who like that. I don't think that would make me cry. I think I'd puke, then pass out and crack my skull on the floor. I don't care if that's the way to get a good position in the Emperor's court; I'd rather stay a peasant and get laid once in a while. Quote
quirkpok Posted May 29, 2009 Author Report Posted May 29, 2009 oh, i think the fact that she made me look in Her eyes after each kick was to gauge my state, she never kicked full strength, it seemed to me that She just seemed to keep me at the limit as long as possible for their amusement quirk Quote
mongoose Posted May 30, 2009 Report Posted May 30, 2009 Russian commandos do flying roundhouse kicks into each other's balls to show they're tough. The first guy to cry has to do the dishes for the whole unit. Quote
bubble Posted May 31, 2009 Report Posted May 31, 2009 You can feel pain without showing it through tears. :!: Quote
Dannyboy Posted June 1, 2009 Report Posted June 1, 2009 You can feel pain without showing it through tears. :!: bubble: If one does cry from pain is that an indication of weakness? Dannyboy Quote
Mistress Zhao Posted June 3, 2009 Report Posted June 3, 2009 quirk, Sounds like you had a helluva time with the Asian tai-tais. Maybe you were already feeling quite humiliated and the eye contact and ball busting were the deal-breakers, triggering your well of tears. Sometimes an overwhelming experience where you feel like you're jumping through hoops to please everyone builds up a lot of emotional tension and the smallest (or most physically painful) thing simply triggers all the tension to release. Good for you for crying. Especially while dressed up like a little sissy. It's cathartic, yes? Thanks for the great party idea, too! HAHAHAHA :twisted: Quote
Dannyboy Posted June 7, 2009 Report Posted June 7, 2009 Every time I look at my wife...HA! HA! mustanggt: I'm going out on a limb here. I would gamble that your wife is not a member of this forum. Dannyboy Quote
Guest Posted June 10, 2009 Report Posted June 10, 2009 I've dated a few guys that let it spill in front of me. It would only be once though because after it happened I'd break up with them. Maybe it was because I felt that they were "conquered" or there was no more challenge left in the relationship. This was when I was in high school and the few years after. Quote
tamious666 Posted June 11, 2009 Report Posted June 11, 2009 Hey everyone... my vigin post here. Anyway I believe it's emotion that invokes the crying and not necessarily the physical pain. While one's intolerance for pain can certainly make one cry but it's more probably (forgive me for speculating but...) for Woffyboy the bond he had with a loving pet that was broken which caused a strong emotion, I'm sure some of Kang's loving bfs were devastated and emotionally affected, Quirk's experience may also speak at the moment where the look may have invoked a strong enough emotion after pent up humiliation to let it all out, also to Zhao's point it is a catharsis of sorts to expell such strong emotions. Must have been some interesting sessions. I am hoping my first to be as interesting and fun. Regards to all... great to be here, Tamious Quote
Dannyboy Posted June 11, 2009 Report Posted June 11, 2009 Every time I look at my wife...HA! HA! mustanggt: I'm going out on a limb here. I would gamble that your wife is not a member of this forum. Dannyboy If she was that would be the end of my allowance, no more fortress for the stanger, no more expensive toys and I'd have to find a job eeewwww!...the thought. mustanggt: I seem to recall having that conversation with Her Royal Vuness. I am very happy at home though. Dannyboy Quote
lashee Posted June 12, 2009 Report Posted June 12, 2009 i laugh minnie times, but so far cried only once at The Fortress. It was a totally mental session and i was gone from the beginning, so deep inside me, i couldn't look at myself in the mirror. Only at the end did i blubber like a baby. Yes cathartic. It can be life changing even. It can be love. Quote
quirkpok Posted June 16, 2009 Author Report Posted June 16, 2009 Dear Mistress Kang, what did You do to those guys to make them "spill it out" in front of You ? thanks a lot for Your answer quirk Quote
bubble Posted June 25, 2009 Report Posted June 25, 2009 When I said pain;I mean't pain.someone has to be the man :!: In the end ,girls cannot be. :idea: Quote
lashee Posted June 29, 2009 Report Posted June 29, 2009 Hey, everybody, can we play the crying game some night at Fortress? I'm a screamer, but what really breaks me down is crying. And I know no one wants to lose status in the eyes of Mistress Kang, right? Quote
Dannyboy Posted June 30, 2009 Report Posted June 30, 2009 Hey, everybody, can we play the crying game some night at Fortress? I'm a screamer, but what really breaks me down is crying. And I know no one wants to lose status in the eyes of Mistress Kang, right? lashee: To some, crying is not a loss of status. It can be a sincere offering to his Mistress and or a well needed cathartic release. Some Mistresses actually appreciate the trust and sharing of deeper emotions. Dannyboy Quote
mongoose Posted July 5, 2009 Report Posted July 5, 2009 I'll have to admit this song turned me into a total sissy. Lol. http://www.imeem.com/corleone2289/music/DY0B5b0r/oceans-twelve-soundtrax-l-appuntamento/ Ornella Vanoni - L'appuntamento (English) I've Been Mistaken So Many Times By Now That I Already Know that Today Is Almost A Certainty i've Been Wrong About You But Once More that You Can Change My Life... to Accept This Strange Appointment has Been A Madness! i Am Sad Among The People that You Are Passing By Me but The Nostalgia Of Seeing You Again it Is Stronger Than Weeping: this Sun Shines On On My Face a Sign Of Hope. i Am Waiting When Suddenly you Appear In A Distance! love, Make It Soon, I Don't Resist... if You Don't Come, I Don't Exist i Don't Exist, I Don't Exist... and The Time Has Passed And It's Raining but Only To Wait it Doesn't Concern Me What The World Thinks i Don't Want To Go. i Look Inside Myself And I Wonder but I Don't Feel Anything; i Only Have Is Hope lost Among The People. love Is You Already Late And I Don't Resist... if You Don't Come I Don't Exist i Don't Exist, I Don't Exist... lights, Cars, Showcases, Roads everything Seems So Confusing my Shadow Has Gotten Tired Of Following Me the Day Dies Slowly. it Doesn't Befit Me To Return To My House to My Sad Life this Life That I Wanted To Give To You you Have Crumbled Between The Fingers. love Pardons But I Don't Resist... forever, I Don't Exist Now i Don't Exist, I Don't Exist.. Quote
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