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Fear is the body’s response to risk. To achieve real, cold-blooded fear in a session- something real has to be on the line. Maybe your pride. Maybe a cherished self-image. Maybe the illusion that you’re in control. You get out what you put in. No domme needs to remove your safeword to take away your control. We simply reveal that you never had any to begin with.

Realizing you are powerless is a feeling of complete freedom. I need not be concerned about anything in my former life. Everything is now at the direction of my Mistress. I no longer have to think. I merely obey. My feelings are of complete trust and safety for her to take me on this journey. She controls my thoughts. She dictates my actions. Only when I am powerless I am truly free.

As a first timer I recommend a list of the things you want to explore. It does not have to follow specific scenarios unless that is what you want. When I started It was 2-3 things I wanted to try and then grew with more experience. Keep it simple with what you like. Two hours may be good for a first time. The Fortress Mistresses are excellent communicators. You will have time to get to know them. Share your interests. Then go at a pace that is comfortable for you. I am glad you are taking the plunge. Nerve racking but a lifetime of rewards await. Good luck!

I’d recommend 2 hours. One is too short unless you have a discrete scene you want to explore, and 3 hours for a first time could be overwhelming. As for asking for a specific scene, I personally like to leave it to the mistress, but my experience is that until you’ve had several sessions with a mistress and developed a rapport, that’s difficult for them to do because they’re really guessing. I’d recommend sharing several ideas and let them pick. You get a little bit of a surprise and they can pick the scenario they’re most comfortable with. One slaves/subs opinion.

Submitting to a domme evokes a number a number of sensations such as pain, humiliation and anxiety, all of which seem fairly easy to achieve. Genuine fear, however, seems a more complicated task. Wondering from dommes and subs successful experiences in this space. My most successful experiences with fear combine the absence of a safe word (are you really submitting if you maintain that control?) and an initial kick in the balls The prospect of further impact on my balls and having no way to stop in (bondage enhances that scenario) results, as Mistress Kang once said, in absolute terror in me. How do others get to that sensation?

That probably depends on the activities involved. Going at least 2 is a good idea under any circumstance. I’ve gone as long as 4 hours (not on my first session) and walked out feeling like I’ve been run over by a truck (in a good way of course). If you live close enough where getting back for another session isn’t hard, I would recommend sticking to 2 hours. You can always go back for more if you like it 😉. 2 hours gives enough time to try multiple things without testing your endurance. But if you went longer on your first time, don’t be afraid to communicate how you’re feeling. The mistresses are great at changing things up.

Is more than 2 hours too much for first time? I was just reading how quickly even 2 hours can go by here on the forum and was thinking maybe...

Can’t wait to try out the new spot!

A big rock. Lol. I definitely would love to see you

Regardless of the scene you pick, my advice is book 2hrs and nude session.

As someone who still has troubles deciding, I throw out my ideas and let the mistresses pick. But I’m also ok if they just go out on their own and subject me to their ideas.

Let Emma Ree guide you, as she has countless others.

Im finally going to schedule my first session at the fortress after being a lurker for years. So I was just wondering if those who have been here before have any advice for selecting a scene to go with? I probably have 3 fleshed out ones in mind. How do you pick which one to do for your first session? Would you say its better to go with a looser session idea? Or one that has a bit more structure given nerves and all? Is it possible to throw them all out there and let them pick/if they have a preference? Any advice would be much appreciated!

Earlier this month I had the pleasure of having my first session with Mistress Kildare. Wow! What can I say? She is even more beautiful in person, I couldn’t even find words to speak looking into those eyes! The way she was able to get inside my mind with her words… wow. I highly recommend booking a session with her if you haven’t already. I cannot wait to be back!

Looks so inviting

I haven't seen you since Allen Street. What rock have you been hiding under??

Looks like a cool place.