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Mistress Kang, As a personal slave, I would stay in subspace for days at a time, especially when my Mistress was visiting and staying for days. That subspace feeling would shoot up whenever she decided to session with me or to include me in one of her session. May be subspace is a state of mind that one goes into, triggered or enhanced by sessions. Nowadays I tend to fall into subspace hours if not days before a session. That is why it is so important to communicate before a session to build up the subspace momentum, so to speak. That way I am "ripe" as soon as the session starts!

I definitely agree that it is all about creating intimacy in a clear Mistress/slave relationship. But it is easier said than done! Intimacy is about closeness, exchange, trust and more. Very hard to build in a one or two hour session, once every few weeks. There might be ways to do so but lets be honest, it is very challenging. I think submission is not a one hour a week or month attitude, but a permanent state of mind, a burning desire to please and serve your Mistress. Once you are there then fetishes definitely take a backseat and once in a while, you are rewarded by Your Mistress because She wants to do so and knows your fetishes. And I do have a favorite color, nothing wrong with that! I love Red, because to me it is intense, passionate, burning, agrressive, highly symbolic and much more! Again I love what You say Mistress Rey

Have been there a few times. Lots to visit and the food is absolutely delicious! I still remember the food courts where it is very varied food, inexpensive and excellent! Enjoy Your stay.

I was there a little over a month ago and was most impressed. I thought New York had a great skyline but Shanghai is in another league, amazing. I did not session but would have liked to and welcome any tip for my next trip! One issue might be that I do not speak Mandarin....

Ah, excellent ConsentOptional! Your conclusion is particularly true: In my (limited though) experience with transwomen, my mouth was always put at very active and good use, no doubt! Very Curious to hear finally from -lilbitchbobby

Yes,we all want to know. Listen to Mistress Kang :-) May be I will go get the same massage myself.

Hi Lilbitchbobby, So how was the massage .....

Also very interested to hear about it. May be a happy ending.... possibly with reciprocity????

The excitement starts to build the night before the day of the session. I fantasize a bit about the session itself, especially if I know the Mistress already. If I don't, I try to guess Her style and favorite activities by browsing the forum, looking for Her posts and any other clues. The day of the session I pay special attention to showering and being well groomed. Since I usually wax, I try to plan sessions at least a few days after I waxed to offer the smoothest possible skin. A couple of hours before the session and If agreed or instructed by Mistress, i do the special care like one or multiple enemas, put on special panties and dress. Special panties, lace, jockstrap, are nice because I wear them in the subway and nobody knows...... I usually arrive early and wait a few minutes before arriving! My heart is always pounding faster as I go up the elevator and enter the welcoming, intimate, dim, red lighted Fortress. At that point I am in fully submissive mood and cannot wait to serve Mistress. The rest is out of my control!!

I could not agree more with You Mistress Rey! This is right on and describes exactly how I felt after O/our last session.