Mistress Choi

Oh, spankable- What an apt forum handle. you were such a lovely little trooper for Us :-) Not to mention the great colours that multiple parts of you turned!

I find with african-american butts, they do change colour but not quite like pasty little caucasian bums (so satisfyingly pink!). Depending on the hue, they can turn purple-ish.

:-) All part of keeping you off-balance! Perhaps next time you're in town I can show you just how wrong you were...

What's mercy? Kidding! It depends on the situation joey. Body language speaks as loud, if not louder than words. While a sub may incur heavy punishment upon his or her own self, soothing after punishment is important. To me, that's what mercy is. If you act up while taking your punishment, you may not be granted any soothing rest time, in order to further impress your position on you. To sum up, to receive mercy one must be deserving of it.

I do not currently own a car - I had a large boat of a car but it does not make any sense to keep one here in Manhattan. As all you car owners know, the payments and insurance adds up, and then throw in a monthly car garage payment. Just silly when I don't get out of the city as much as I'd like. HOWEVER, I am a big fan of cars. What's the one that the doors open upwards? Those are great and futuristic looking, and from what I've seen they have great acceleration. I love Audi's - the R8 looks AWESOME. I also drove a BMW for a while that I really liked, but it was an older model and I like shiny new toys better - the M3 convertible is nice looking. I like sleek, shiny, black or gunmetal coloured cars. Can I please have Batman's car? It was badass - both the original one and the new one :-D And possibly a crotch rocket if I conquer my fear of going splat - I like Ducati's and the adrenaline rush is amazing.

Danny, I like having a sub off-balance, both mentally and physically. Since you all tend to be a bit larger than me physically, I find that a combination of verbal and unexpected physical contact works perfectly. I love ball-taps (and slaps, and kicks...) when I've lulled a sub into a state of relative comfort. Expect the unexpected :-) Put two (or more) of us together, and you'll never know what hit you!

Oooh this festival looks fun! I just read about it today through one of those "deal of the day" websites. I love tea! Especially the blooming ones, because they look so pretty. deanroberts, If you haven't already, you should make yourself some barley tea. While it is simple, it's still delicious - and there are a bunch of different ways to prepare it.

fistluvr, While I agree with your point about marks and outing a sub, I have to disagree with it being "clearly defined as a wish list by the sub" because there are so many ways in which to slap a face. I like to do little taps and then a harder one, but definitely not full force unless requested by a sub - I can leave hand and finger shaped welts on subs if I feel like it. Also, touching and slapping of the face, even gently, ensures that the sub knows his place - it can be patronizing, and even disciplinary without being full-force or leaving any sort of evidence.

Newbies! The other other white (or brown, yellow, multicoloured) meat!

Especially when it is for an extended period of time, like in Curb Your Enthusiasm! Eeew! Now, to flip this topic slightly: Men. Men and hair. Many subs know this about me already, but I am not a fan of hair where I don't think it should be! Extra hair on men (hair other than on the head, armpits, legs) = fair game to be ripped out!

Excuses, excuses. Just you wait!

lashee, you're right - your definition is a bit jaded. I prefer my interpretation because it is more accurate. I think that saying our sessions have been "girlfriend experiences" cheapens the wonderful bond we've built in our time together. That I can make you cry with no bad intentions, repercussions, or bad drama is a much deeper thing than a temporary experience.