deanroberts

My ex is Japanese. (No, I don't have yellow fever — I love all flavors). We have been to many love hotels. The really cool ones are hard to find but a few are still around. Themes were popular way back. Now they try to be more warm and cozy to appeal to women.

Brian Eno's "Here Come the Warm Jets" is about golden showers. Also, Shirley Manson of Garbage is into giving, but not sure if it has been in one of their songs.

Def into Mistress/Nurse dress-up.

What is the sound of one hand slapping?

Past life events has given me a bit of a nurse fetish but feel like I couldn't indulge because I wouldn't know how to respond.

I get it. I was just reacting to the idea of "mistress" as a default, rather than because of the individual.

Beautiful. Love the candids.

Hate to sound like a preachy a-hole. But.... Sorry. Not buying into this one. I think elevation of these women is just an unrealistic self-imposed way of putting objects of desire on a pedestal. Don't mean to sound harsh, but it is just wickedly unrealistic. These women aren't exalted. They are humans, with flaws like all of us. However... each one is special like every other human is special. It is about respect for the actual individual, not the ideal of what some perv needs that individual to be. Do I respect all of the ladies of the fortress? Absolutely. 100%. But, not simply because of a job they do. But because they are genuinely intelligent, funny, compassionate, and slightly off than your average person. If you need to prefix someone with the phrase "Mistress" then... awesome. If that's your kink, then go for it. But, also try to see and appreciate these women for the real, human, snowflakes that they are.

Some of us are just fetishists that take on a submissive role, but aren't truly subs. No real desire to be dominated, but it is a fun part that comes with the territory -- I just happen to [be very oral], [and love general "waste"], and spit. It is a woman in control and who knows what she wants and demands it that is sexy.

Yes, I can be that lately. It's complicated. But, thanks for pointing it out.

Yes... "REM Atonia" occurs during sleep, and disables signals to the muscles. It keeps our body still so that we don't physical act out during sleep to what is occurring in our dreams. So, often people have the feeling of being stuck or unable to run from something. It is literally because we are in a slight stage of paralysis.

As a kid, I was terrified by the dark, basements, and the idea of supernatural entities in my home. Not that I ever experienced any. My parents took me to see a lot of fucked up movies as a very young kid. It certainly had its impact. But a few decades later, as a hardcore atheist, I no longer believe in such things. On the positive side, I am no longer spooked very easily. On the negative side, the fun has been sucked out of movies like Paranormal Activity. I saw it with a bunch of friends. The audience was totally freaked out, while I was just laughing at them. (However, once in a while, even though my logical brain tells me there is no such thing, I am able to spook myself in a dark room. Sometimes old wiring is hard to override.) There's an interesting book on the subject worth checking out: The Believing Brain: From Ghosts and Gods to Politics and Conspiracies —How We Construct Beliefs and Reinforce Them as Truths

LOVE that scene. Used to watch L Word. Blew my mind the first time I saw that.

The first Hostel is way more gorey and fucked up. For what it is, it is good. But, it isn't for the timid. Eli Roth's approach was with Hostel 1 to model it after the more extreme Japanese horrors, and with Hostel 2, model it after European (especially Italian) horror of the late 70s and 80s. You can see the different stylistic approaches in art direction, cinematography, and tone. The second is also a bit more tongue-in-cheek, while the first is more serious. I've heard the third, which he didn't direct, and is set in Vegas is quite awful.

Oddly, no. It isn't the tits. Something about the makeup.