deanroberts

My ex is Japanese. (No, I don't have yellow fever — I love all flavors). We have been to many love hotels. The really cool ones are hard to find but a few are still around. Themes were popular way back. Now they try to be more warm and cozy to appeal to women.

Brian Eno's "Here Come the Warm Jets" is about golden showers. Also, Shirley Manson of Garbage is into giving, but not sure if it has been in one of their songs.

Def into Mistress/Nurse dress-up.

What is the sound of one hand slapping?

Past life events has given me a bit of a nurse fetish but feel like I couldn't indulge because I wouldn't know how to respond.

I get it. I was just reacting to the idea of "mistress" as a default, rather than because of the individual.

Beautiful. Love the candids.

Hate to sound like a preachy a-hole. But.... Sorry. Not buying into this one. I think elevation of these women is just an unrealistic self-imposed way of putting objects of desire on a pedestal. Don't mean to sound harsh, but it is just wickedly unrealistic. These women aren't exalted. They are humans, with flaws like all of us. However... each one is special like every other human is special. It is about respect for the actual individual, not the ideal of what some perv needs that individual to be. Do I respect all of the ladies of the fortress? Absolutely. 100%. But, not simply because of a job they do. But because they are genuinely intelligent, funny, compassionate, and slightly off than your average person. If you need to prefix someone with the phrase "Mistress" then... awesome. If that's your kink, then go for it. But, also try to see and appreciate these women for the real, human, snowflakes that they are.

Some of us are just fetishists that take on a submissive role, but aren't truly subs. No real desire to be dominated, but it is a fun part that comes with the territory -- I just happen to [be very oral], [and love general "waste"], and spit. It is a woman in control and who knows what she wants and demands it that is sexy.

Yes, I can be that lately. It's complicated. But, thanks for pointing it out.

Yes... "REM Atonia" occurs during sleep, and disables signals to the muscles. It keeps our body still so that we don't physical act out during sleep to what is occurring in our dreams. So, often people have the feeling of being stuck or unable to run from something. It is literally because we are in a slight stage of paralysis.

As a kid, I was terrified by the dark, basements, and the idea of supernatural entities in my home. Not that I ever experienced any. My parents took me to see a lot of fucked up movies as a very young kid. It certainly had its impact. But a few decades later, as a hardcore atheist, I no longer believe in such things. On the positive side, I am no longer spooked very easily. On the negative side, the fun has been sucked out of movies like Paranormal Activity. I saw it with a bunch of friends. The audience was totally freaked out, while I was just laughing at them. (However, once in a while, even though my logical brain tells me there is no such thing, I am able to spook myself in a dark room. Sometimes old wiring is hard to override.) There's an interesting book on the subject worth checking out: The Believing Brain: From Ghosts and Gods to Politics and Conspiracies —How We Construct Beliefs and Reinforce Them as Truths

LOVE that scene. Used to watch L Word. Blew my mind the first time I saw that.

The first Hostel is way more gorey and fucked up. For what it is, it is good. But, it isn't for the timid. Eli Roth's approach was with Hostel 1 to model it after the more extreme Japanese horrors, and with Hostel 2, model it after European (especially Italian) horror of the late 70s and 80s. You can see the different stylistic approaches in art direction, cinematography, and tone. The second is also a bit more tongue-in-cheek, while the first is more serious. I've heard the third, which he didn't direct, and is set in Vegas is quite awful.

Oddly, no. It isn't the tits. Something about the makeup.

Up! is insanely great. One of my favorite Russ Meyer movies, along side Faster Pussycat, Beyond the Valley of the Dolls, and Motorpsycho. It is so warped. Hitler getting fucked in the ass by a pilgrim? Whaaa? Russ was so ahead of his time on so many levels of female and racial equality.

Spiders. Bugs in general. The more legs something has, the less I like it. Exceptions: bees, butterflies, moths, dragonflies. Flies and ants don't freak me out, but I am still not a fan. Honestly, I'd be happier if bugs didn't exist. Also, not a fan of clowns, but this oddly makes me quite horny: http://www.naughtyselfpics.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/1269423110790.jpg

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Seems like Showtime really has gone S&M main-"stream". The Shameless credit intro has always had a bathroom sequence with various males and females on the toilet. A few weeks ago, Emmy Rossum was on the toilet, looking at the camera and saying something like "here's what you missed last week." Last night's episode had a cute young girl pissing publicly on her father's gravestone. Not sure if the actress really did it, but it looked real enough. Unfortunately, not hot for obvious reasons. Their new show House of Lies last night had a bizarre conversation between a pretty MILF and her pre-teen pseudo-tranny son, in which she implied she let someone piss on her (a sort of sugar daddy), and said to her son "Do you know what a golden show is?" WTF? Unfortunately, also not hot because of obvious reasons. A previous episode did have a scene where two wives snuck away fro their husbands to the restaurant bathroom. Of course they had sex in there. When the husbands found out, the seduced woman in an obvious unhappy relationship blurts out to her husband, "she made me squirt!" Finally, previous two weeks of Californication. Three weeks ago, a Charlie Runkle meets a woman who once had sex with Charlie's ex-wife's current husband. She said "You know, he asked me to pee on him." She and confirmed she did, "I had to go. It seemed silly not to." And then the week following that episode, Charlie admits to paying for an online chat service (like Live Jasmin), and said "I got a girl to drink her own pee." Does someone high up at Showtime have a watersports mandate? Probably not. I just think we've entered age of edge, where other forms of media need to compete with the Internet and general jadedness. Pushing boundaries. Right now, seems like we've entered a Golden Era of comedy.

Bai Ling seems like a total kook in some respects, but somehow that is part of the appeal. However, I also think she is talented and intelligent. What I did just notice about my list is that it seems to be a fairly smart and talented group of women.

I've got a fairly long list of celebs I fantasize about pissing and spitting on me. Criteria is two-fold -- who I think is freaking hot and who I think would be really into it. Of course, there is overlap. Kind of a weird mix of beautiful women I admire for a variety of reasons: beauty, intellect, talent. Just a few. Quick list. Not in any particular order: Bai Ling Mia Wasakowska Cameron Diaz (not really into her, but I get the feeling she'd totally be into piss play) Kristen Bell Mila Kunis Akane Hotaru (JAV star) Risa Murakami (JAV star) Azusa Ayano (JAV star) Rihanna Aubrey Plaza Rashida Jones Evan Rachel Wood Lizzy Caplan Kristen Kreuk Emmy Rossum Olivia Thirlby Shannyn Sossamon Christina Ricci

You may or may not know this tongue-in-cheek South African duo Yolandi and Ninja of Die Antwoord. Really clever, creative and humorous. They have a lot of interesting videos, but this one is fantastically fetish filled with implied pissing and golden catsuits. Enjoy.

I need to get in to the Fortress ASAP.

Not a great movie, but it was fun to watch. Mol is good as Bettie. I haven't seen the movie since it came out, but I remember it feeling fairly close to the bio.

Good points. So, my answer to the question is yes and no. S&M itself isn't becoming more mainstream, but overall, all forms of sexual practice are being employed by various media (especially film & television) to compete with other media channels that have take advantage of not being censored — namely, pay television and the Internet. I guess what I was saying is that it isn't S&M that is going mainstream, but that the overall milieu of sexuality is being tapped regardless of its practice in every day life.