Giving up control to my mistress. To be told what to do, how to act, what to feel and what to think. To step away from my persona, responsibilities and belong to another. To flush power and energy from my being and offering it to my mistress. And, in the end, hoping the sacrifice of my dignity is of use to my mistress.
We were talking about fuzzy handcuffs the other day at work, and one of my female co-workers turned to me and said "fuzzy handcuffs are SO vanilla!". WOW!
