skeech2
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Schoolgirl fantasy was just elevated to a high level on the Skeech fantasy hierarchy. Can't imagine a better player than Mistress Koi for this role.
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Hi Skeech,
This is an fairly deep and complex topic to cover, but your correct in that crying is neither the goal or how it is measured. But since you asked here is my 1円
To keep the discussion as light as possible, I will only outline this topic.
- You have breaking in, which is the willing consensual breaking in. Basically it is about establishing procedures, routines and setting expectations. This is teaching the expected result of commands etc.
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Forcefully Breaking on the other hand is about removing limits. It's very similar to animal training. It's about establishing authority. It's about shaping response and behavior until its within the required tolerance. The loss of power and to feel ones core being stripped away is sometimes what the submissive seeking this relish. But as this tend to make the subject extremely dependent on the top, seeking approval for all actions etc. it can be dangerous to the subs mental health.
Your correct in that if an individual have few limits, then breaking that person is more difficult. But most people have limits.
YMMV, stay healthy!
HD.
Yes, a very complex topic indeed which is why I avoided it the first time. I think there has to be a distinction between the fantasy of being broken and the reality of it. It is in the reality that I would fear danger to mental health. The fact that I willingly lay myself at the feet of an Asian Domme in some eyes may be perceived as already broken. I see it as fantasy fulfillment.
Emotional releases that result in tears can be positive as mentioned several times in this thread. I am still not sure if that would considered being broken or if that would be considered a breakdown. I believe there is a big difference.
- You have breaking in, which is the willing consensual breaking in. Basically it is about establishing procedures, routines and setting expectations. This is teaching the expected result of commands etc.
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Honestly, I struggle with the term "being broken". What is being broken? Is it will? If so, it does not seem to me that one can be broken if he willingly submits. I would venture to guess than an emotional experience producing tears during session is rooted in something other than the breaking of one's will.
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Social media surely adds to the level of public humiliation. Not only does he feel the immediate humiliation but can relive it any time forever with a few key strokes.
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Predicament bondage is one of my very favorite activities, simply for the fact that males have a few more parts that can be tied to stationary objects (or themselves) than females.
I love tying a sub up on his knees so that he is ass-height to me and holding myself just an inch out of reach. His delicate parts tethered to a stationary object like the rack. The torturous look on a sub's face usually makes me smile. And from there on, he must reach further and further for a kiss of my sweet bum.
And this is usually the premise for the predicament.
Worship me at the expense of your delicate little manparts.
But sometimes when I'm feeling extra sadistic, I like to tie a sub in a stooped posture so that he can only look at the ground. And when instructed to move, any motion from his legs will pull on the tether to his nether parts. And so on.
Predicament bondage is one of my very favorite activities, simply for the fact that males have a few more parts that can be tied to stationary objects (or themselves) than females.
I love tying a sub up on his knees so that he is ass-height to me and holding myself just an inch out of reach. His delicate parts tethered to a stationary object like the rack. The torturous look on a sub's face usually makes me smile. And from there on, he must reach further and further for a kiss of my sweet bum.
And this is usually the premise for the predicament.
Worship me at the expense of your delicate little manparts.
But sometimes when I'm feeling extra sadistic, I like to tie a sub in a stooped posture so that he can only look at the ground. And when instructed to move, any motion from his legs will pull on the tether to his nether parts. And so on.
Tease and Denial at it's best. That sweet bum can sure generate a lot of desire. I guess some subs now know exactly where their desire intersects with their instinct to survive. I still need to be tested.
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Welcome to your addiction.
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I think that as humans, we are usually inundated by visual stimulation and that sapiosexuality is a rarity because most of us cannot turn off our vision.
Only the truly blind can be purely sapiosexual. And that like skeech2 says, intelligence is a key element but does not work alone for most.
Bradley, calm down.
Intelligence and eyes= Asian fetish in my book.
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Could you be aroused by intellect alone?
Not me. It is a key element but does not work alone.
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Of course, but you know that already. Relates to my discussion of superiority vs inferiority. The larger the gap, the better.
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Collected like badges of honor. Misbehaving right now.
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Why would you want to escape?
I wouldn't. Just wondering if I could. I would have to try in order to feel the helplessness and humiliation of being controlled. Also to inspire intensity in the Mistress.
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When I am not using myself as the restraints, grabbing with my own hands or squeezing with my own thighs, I like a variety of options. Different types of cuffs are really fun and you can get creative with them. Spreader bars are my favorite. I prefer using a few different types of restraints. For example... spreader bars on your ankles.....rope on the spreader bar to keep your legs from moving, cuffs on your wrists, and me sitting on your chest to keep you down. Sound good enough?
If you were sitting on my chest, no other restraint would be necessary because I would not want to escape.
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Sometimes I feel a little old fashioned and like to use what's handy, like my thighs around a sub's neck.
My favorite kind of restraint. Wonder if I could escape.
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"Mean Mistreater"- Grand Fund Railroad.
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My phone prefers wet panties.
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"Whipping Post" by the Allman brothers conjures up pleasant images for me though I do not believe it had BDSM intent.
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There's a really sweet and kind of sexy scene in Tokyo Eyes where the romantic pair share a similar moment... it's supposed to be a very intimate, caring act. I think the female compares it to when an adult would remove an irritant from a child's eye, as at one point it was thought to be the gentlest way to do it.
Japanese seem to be kinkier overall based on some of the Japanese Femdom films that I have seen. I love going to Tokyo to marvel at the fashions and the open sexiness.
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So nice to know that I am not the only one. Mistress Zhao's lovely legs did the trick with a sleeper hold. Waking up is a treat when you realize where you are.
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Face slapping is one of my favorite activities and a real test of a Mistress's true dominance in my opinion. The exchange can be so intimate and powerful, especially if eye contact is allowed. Being repeatedly slapped and spit on is an incredibly humiliating and rewarding experience. Do any of the ladies enjoy this type of play? Are there any slapologists?
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Reminds me of a session in Thailand. Always in 3's.
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Is there enough junk in that trunk for South Beach?
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Got to love a woman who is confident in her farting ability.
Here is one of my all time favorite quotes on these boards from Mistress Ree:
"I'll admit it. I like farting. I like farting in a sub's face, or in his mouth, or up his nose.
Most people don't like farts. And I don't like other people's farts. But like other people, I REALLY like my own. So I like both farts as a torture and farts for fartniffing freaks". :smile:
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Hi Skeech...I'm up for that challenge. I am pretty sure I wont leave you disappointed... no Mexican food required.
Got to love a woman who is confident in her farting ability.
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funny topic for a game!
I would like to play a fart-association game with 2-3 or more Mistresses after they had Mexican food the night before (my treat). Quite a lovely humiliation game. Would any of the current Mistresses be interested in that type of game?
Slapping is Fun!
in Fortress Guest Forum
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A slap is such an intimate and humiliating act. It is feminine but powerful as reinforcement of superiority. Some of my fondest session memories involve slapping and spitting scenarios where I was allowed eye contact with the Mistress inflicting the damage.