skeech2
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M Chen on left, M Choi on right...
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Just got back from San Francisco. One of my favorite cities in the world. Did not know about the armory but will check it out next time. Had dinner in an authentic Chinese restaurant. The food, decor and the people ( I was the only non-Chinese) made me feel like I was in China. The only difference is that the wine was better. It is San Francisco after all.
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It is such a helpless feeling being so far away and not being able to attend to Your needs. Damn the timing as I postponed my trip to Vietnam this month. I sincerely hope that You are feeling better vey soon, Mistress Tran. That is a beautiful country with a lot of possibilities and You are proof of that.
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I like using my mouth for many things, to name a few: express emotions, inflict pain, provide pleasure...all to the varying degree I determine the situation deserves. Grinning, frowning, upside-down frowing, licking, blowing, biting, nibbling...
Since I usually have it with me in session, when I say usually I mean always, I tend to use it and rather a lot. I often us other body parts for similar purposes such as crushingly powerful thighs, hard elbows, tricky fingers, cool plushy cheeks, ten toes (sometimes less, never more).
Such awesome weapons at your disposal, Mistress Kang. I remember them all very well as I near my anniversary date from an incredible session with you in Los Angeles. What I recall the most, though, is the pace at which you utilize those tools of pleasure and pain and a persuasiveness that could be dangerous.
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Yes bisa. My hot breath (highly erotic) applied to your ear (highly erogenous) does make for an amusing time (to say the least).
Tingling just thinking about it.
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In a session with former Mistress Seung, she blew in my ear as she was hitting me with a cane. I didn't understand the significance of blowing in the ear and I forgot to ask her why.
I find it very arousing when a woman blows in my ear softly or whispers into my ear. I think it would be interesting to intermingle the sensations created by a light blow in the ear and a heavy blow with a cane. Kudos to Mistresss Seung. A lady that cut my hair regularly several years ago, would blow the hair off of my neck and my ears causing an embarassing lump under the cape. I was getting my hair cut a lot more often then.
I once had a Mistress who whispered very humiliating things in to my ear and I also found that to be very stimulating. Almost like she was inside of my head for real.
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I think the "secret" depends on what you're looking for.
There are people who come to us just to get their fetish fix of feet or leather or whatever.
Then there are those who are looking for some type of a relationship, albeit within professional parameters, so that they can somehow grow.
Undeniably, sex is an act that bonds people together, which is why I allude to deeper emotions. I've known many people who deepen their already sexual relationships with BDSM.
To manipulate those deeper emotions without sex is tantamount to psychological domination.
As Phred mentioned, the feeling of safety is another major factor in the release and relief of submitting. We as dommes work with your willingness to be putty in our hands.
Even in daily life, when I mention to a stranger what I do for a living, the stranger usually opens up about any and all secrets he/she has been holding in for years, especially sexual ones.
Our mere presence inspires catharsis
Thanks for sharing your insights, Mistress Zhao. I can only imagine the perspective that you must have. If BDSM is a journey, then you are a lovely tour guide unless of course, you happen to be on a journey yourself.
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I prefer to call it hen pecked. I know a guy (knew) who's so completely and hopelessly hen pecked, that he's not allowed to breathe without his wife's permission. The incredible thing about them is that he's a great and good looking guy and she's a repulsive witch with a personality far worse than her looks. Everybody I know, who knows him, likes him, and everybody I know, who knows her, hates her. Even people who don't know them used to ask me what on earth he ever saw in her. I've known him since I was 18 and he was my best friend for many years until he took too long in the gym one day while she was waiting for him in the parking lot (on a hot August day in 2007). She came in the gym and publicly scolded him for being late and led him out as he followed with his head down. He looked like a disobedient child walking behind his angry mother. I never saw or heard from him again.
Yes, Henpecked was the g-rated version of pussy-whipped with the same result. Too bad for your friend if he is actually miserable in this relationship. Could it be that pussy-whipped could also refer to a lack of balls in this case? I have known people who have suffered in relationships but chose to do nothing about it.
My modern day version of pussy-whipped is another word for submissive male. It is a much more exciting version and it includes two words that alone would cause arousal in myself, pussy and whipped. Pussy is an important part of my submission as it is the distinctive and defining part of the female anatomy. You could also say that I was ass-whipped, leg-whipped, hair-whipped, lip-whipped, eye-whipped, asian whipped and on and on.
Those who may have accused me of being pussy whipped in the past, have no idea of the levels of submission that I am capable of as long as the partner is right. I don't really even know myself but look froward to finding out.
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Seems to work for me
.I believe in it too. Can't fully explain it but believe in it. Just wish I could pencil it in to the schedule on a more regular basis. I need to be adjusted more than just a few times a year.
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If it looks like therapy, smells like therapy and tastes like therapy....it is therapy.
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Pussy whipped is a term that is not used much anymore. In my younger days, we used the term to ridicule the guys who were very heavily influenced by their girl friends. I would vehemenently deny it when the accusations flew my way but deep inside, I knew it was what I really desired. Probably so for most of the other guys too.
Of course, in those days, the possibilties of actually putting the term in to play seemed pretty remote. If they could only see me now.
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I love this photo, it reminds me of a show from when I was a kid (Mary Tyler Moore). Here's the song:
I was thinking "Mean Girls" but can see the MTM angle. What guy was not in love with MTM in the 70's?
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Some of my favorite people in my favorite city. What is not to love about these pics?
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I love logging on and being reminded of what perfection looks like in the female form.
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Hi Mistress Kang,
I have always admired your business philosophy and am wondering what inspired you. What were your benchmarks? Did you have a mentor or mentors?
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I think all of the other dungeons are scratching their heads and saying WTF?
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Sounds potentially addictive but I am game.
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Does "high maintenance" mean hard to please? My experience is that women who are truly high maintenance by my definition see themselves as low to no maintenance. I would not say that it takes a superior male to handle but certainly an understanding one.
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With professionalism as the predominant social and ethical structure, therapy is just one of the many possibilities, but definitely my favorite one. The idea of helping someone in some way grow beyond themselves is one of the reasons I absolutely love what I do.
And with therapy comes release and relief, whether it be that floaty subspace feeling, or a deeper, more cathartic impact.
sk2, you are right about the personal relationships being more intimate and open, but mainly because there are perhaps deeper emotions involved.
And what is "the secret" you speak of, which lies beyond the confines of the BDSM relationship?
Mistress Zhao, I think you mentioned the secret that lies beyond the confines of the "professional" BDSM relationsip, deeper emotions from both sides.
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Good job skeech this post should never die for many reasons. As a newbie i found this treatment a elated form of punishment and humiliation. Stayed in my mind for weeks
Sod gets the credit for re-posting this as I missed it the first time around. An act that would be considered distasteful at the least in a vanilla world becomes as Mistress Jung puts it "symbolic" in a dominant / submissive relationship. Whether it is intended by the Mistress as a punishment, humiliation, reward or all of the above, it is truly a symbol of her power over a submissive and strikes at the core of this type of relationship. To read or hear it verbalized so eloquently by a lovely lady only makes it that much hotter and the desire to be on the receiving end that much stronger. Aint to proud to beg....
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Naturally.
The play isn't so much confined to sessions when it transcends the professional realm.
Many times it's just whenever I feel like it.
And usually the sub/player is someone I already know from daily life.
So for the professional version, it is considered therapy? What about the personal version? Also therapy? Intimacy? It would seem that you would open up much more in a personal relationship than a professional one. I think the secret lies beyond the confines of the professional BDSM relationship.
Sorry to keep pressing this topic but I find it fascinating and fairly unexplored. I very much appreciate you candid responses.
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I have thought of this, for me i would only be comfortable if the domme was in charge of us both and told me what to do to the sub
For me, there would have to be a Domme in charge and my interactions with other sub limited to playful exchange. It would be a hard limit for me to ever cause pain to a woman regardless of what role she is playing.
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This has to be my all time favorite post on the Forum. I should get this tattoed on my back
I missed this one the first time so thanks for bringing it back. I agree, one of the all time hottest quotes. No chance for a golden shower tonight but I am thinking a cold shower might be necessary.
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As usual, I have waited untill the last minute to do tax preparation. Now the weather is beautiful and I am confined to my office going through receipts and crunching numbers (are sessions tax deductible?) . Tax time is a torture I would rather do without. I really need to be smacked around by a beautiful Asian Domme a few times a day to keep me as balanced as the books.
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Yummy yummy, dim summy. My WAG is M Choi.