skeech2
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Pro-dommes and subs have a symbiotic relationship by nature. What's a Pro-domme without a sub?
Although this is also a lifestyle, our profession dictates that we have certain parameters to work within. Maintaining the relationship without sex makes use of our other wiles. Some use emotional domination, which ultimately is still psychological, but the point is to go deeper than just a little kinky foreplay.
I am curious about something Mistress Zhao. In BDSM relationships that you have successfully guided to another level, how often do live sessions take place on average? I really believe that to achieve another level, you have to establish a comfort zone or trust. That may take time repetition and reinforcement.
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sk2,
1. I think intimacy is a given in sessions. The Mistress and sub are enclosed in a small room together and chances are, she will use her physical presence to overwhelm and coerce you to bend to her will. It may not be romantic intimacy, but I think it fits in the category.
2. 95% of the experiences I've had in sessions is based on sexual arousal. Fetishes, kinks, and bdsm all fall into the area of a certain kind of foreplay. But that is not to say that some subs come for the pure enjoyment of being a masochist under a beautiful, sadistic woman's twisted desires. One of my favorite things to hear is "My name is _____ and I like pain"
BDSM is an umbrella term for all kinds of play (and non-play). I consider most foreplay of that nature kinky, unless it extends into a more cerebral territory of power dynamics remaining consistent throughout.
Clearly you are of moderate to high intelligence if you're enjoying this type of discussion, so perhaps what you seek is a more psychological approach to being dominated. Your sparse visits to your domme could be out of an unrelenting desire, but it seems that if you were devoted to your own play, you would visit her more often.
My sparse visits are due to logistical issues as I can only participate when I travel. Most of my travel for the past 10 years has been to Asia with stops in Los Angeles along the way. I was fortunate enough to be in Los Angeles last May and was able to experience a session with Mistress Kang. If that is not a psychological experience, I don't know what is.
I will make it to NYC this year and hopefully, several times. I am very interested in learning more from you first hand.
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This is a very interesting topic but two questions keep coming to mind: 1. Is this really intimacy that we are talking about? 2. What role does sexual arousal play?
Many of the same dynamics exist in a BDSM relationship as in a vanilla sex relationship, the latter of which I have much more experience. By the way, if I crave a BDSM relationship and a vanilla relationship, does that make me bi-sexual? The guys in my fantasy football league may not understand....
What about BDSM as foreplay? I think a good smack around and a bit of worship would get the fires stoked better than a bottle of Chinese Viagra (no one told me not take the whole bottle at once). I am asking of those who have experienced this in their personal lives.
I have been involved in this scene for a long time but the most I have ever seen one domme was 3 times and that was spread over a 3 year period. Kind of hard to get in to a rythym or a mutual understanding. I guess you could say that I am stunted in my BDSM relationships. I very much want to change that and take a much deeper dive in to the psyche of it. These discussions help bring different thinking to mind and I much appreciate the candor.
Until I started reading this forum, I did not think this type of discussion possible.
Sk2
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I know we've had a mild winter but I'm ready to pull out all my sandals and sun dresses again. In anticipation of spring time, I went for a bright pink color on my toes. They taste like candy too
Looks like a warm Spring day in NYC today but windy. Do you wear the sundress when the wind is so strong? If there was a large gust, would there still be mystery or would all be revealed?
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Happy Birthday, pretty lady.
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Question: How much butt bouncing could you handle? How about if all the Mistresses got a turn!?
The incentive to endure is certailnly there. Maybe to the point of concussion and a little beyond. A Mistress Butt-go-round would be the ulitmate ride.
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I know we've had a mild winter but I'm ready to pull out all my sandals and sun dresses again. In anticipation of spring time, I went for a bright pink color on my toes. They taste like candy too
Looking yummy.
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I actually have one hanging on my wall....so does that mean you won't come into my apt?
That's unfortunate for you since I like to walk around my apt naked!
My wall has many framed creatures most people fear...scorpions, turantulas, and other large bugs haha.
I would like to be a fly on that wall.
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Thanks for the warm fuzzy. Always ready to play, rarely in a position to. Any chance, you will at Dom Con again?
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STOP wiggling around down there! It is making it very difficult to read and if I have to tell you one more time.....I promise you will regret it! (Bounce bounce up and down) Do you hear me down there? Also, I want an apology for disturbing me!........hmmmm just finished this magazine....now Ill start "The Art of War"....wow this is a long book but i think I could finish in one sitting.
Would a butt face work? The beard might tickle a little.
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With so many wonderful photos with Ms Zhao's eyes, this is your only pick?
Hers are the most important of all because in most of the shots, hers are behind the camera. I really believe that she understands the connection that can be made with the eyes and it shows in her photography. I could actually make a case for every single shot on these boards as all of subjects are so lovely. My hope was that others would post the ones that they feel are their favorites as my perspective could never be a complete one.
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A marathoner.
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This caught my attention at a bookstore in Hong Kong.
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Very powerful, Mistress Tran. Your collection of souls must be quite impressive.
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Depending on how ticklish a sub is, I have been able to tickle using my hair. Hovering over a sub and running my hair down his chest can cause a very sensual tickle that can be unbearable.
I am as ticklish as I need to be to get a treat like that, Mistress Tran. The tease is the treat, the denial is the tortue. I figured You used Your lovely hair as a weapon.
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Thanks skeech
I must say I do enjoy staring madly into a subs eyes while doing unmentionable things to him The range of emotions that you see go through him give me quite a rush.A gut hook from my standpoint Mistress Jung. Once You have me, there is no escape.
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Love the leg shots. The last one of Mistress Ree is phenomenal. I am digging back in to the files searching for more.
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It amazes me how so many beautiful women can be gathered in one space. I love these pics . Such beautiful faces. They are right when they say the eyes are the window to the soul. You can tell much about a person if you look into them. When I look into the eyes here I see sensuality, mischievousness,beauty, and happiness. Really a nice array. Thanks for posting them.
My pleasure. Obviously, I enjoy looking through all of the beautiful photos. I am very much like the kid in the Candy Store. When I am in China I am always scanning the masses of people , looking for those eyes and that connection. When it happens it is thrilling.
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Still not avoiding a beating....
Why would you want to avoid a beating?? Anyway, it looks like you have one coming.
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Agreed but what is equally stunning is that the beautiful and infamous Mistress Vu is not included in the gallary. I can't even imagine what's going on behind those gorgeous eyes.
Oops. I became so enamored with the hair shots of Mistress Vu, that I forgot to add the eye shots. Sorry for the over sight.
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I have to admit that I am a lover of Asian eyes. Here are some "eye" shots that I find particularly stunning. I love to look deep in to them to see if there might be a mystery or two being revealed. They say that the eyes are the window to the soul. Count me as a believer.
SK2
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Great topic for sure but more complicated than it might seem initially. Self confidence immediately comes to mind. Others:
1. Superior but not judgemental.
2. Sense of style.
3. Perceptive / Intuitive.
4. Human.
5. Asian.
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I never thought anyone would pick my candid picture, but thank you Edgar and Johnny for your simple yet classy taste.
xo
I love and appreciate all of the candid photos for the perspective that they add. Unstaged and spontaneous photos reveal a beautiful reality about you. Your reality is one of my favorite fantasies if that makes any sense. Your candids add fuel to that fantasy much like the leather adds fuel to another.
SK2
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Very glad to provide images for your viewing pleasure
For someone so good behind the camera, You are even better when You step in front. Much appreciate the photos.
Advice: Mistakes to Avoid at the Fortress
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The biggest mistake you could make is backing out and never having the experience.