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  1. Lockednwaiting
    Maybe just a little bit late.... buuuuut. VRworld. Worth getting the all day passes Sleep No more (I mean a little bit a BDSM musical - side note there was a little indie BDSM musical running in Jan that popped up) Illusionists table at the Mckittrick Jane hotel for pre drinks and table/couch dancing Wine legend karaoke Build a bear (surprisingly cute) Personal shopper training days (they match half your spending if you let a personal shopper practice on you). Wedding dress play - (pick a fake bride for the day or take it in turns) and visit various wedding dress shops for the free champagne. I’d feel guilty if the prices weren’t so absurdly inflated. Gemini and Scorpio loft. They have bdsm performances but also bring your own ingredients and we’ll make you cocktails parties.
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    Drinks and Food. Show. Possibly Cocktails. Clubbing and relaxed after clubbing hang out session. Or sneakily renovated the whole fortress while planning an awesome 2019...? Or both.
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    That sometimes playing the mindfuck games of what to read between the lines and say back or not say can be devilishly entertaining. But sometimes it’s best just to let them go with the flow and not think. Also. That I’m not good at it and whatever I say as result of trying has a 50/50 success ratio e.g. I thought you were trying to ask if I was ok or you needed to slow down. And I meant to ask you to go harder but you’ve eased off. So I got the interpretation wrong ? Or... you’re encouraging me to be bratty so you can punish me? Oh ok! Ah. Nope. That was just genuinely annoying. Oops. But now I’m actually being punished. Wait. I’m confused. Did that work or not...<head spins>
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    Might NOT reflect*. Ugh. Stupid typo.
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    Walking into a session with someone who sounds like they read the first two sentences of a five sentence session request who then asks for a list of things to try in the session. And before you’ve started already looks kinda bored. Made it feel like the kink equivalent of a coin operated Domme dispensing machine. The actual session wasn’t that bad because once we started chatting things improved but it lacked any attempt at authenticity for like the first 20-30mins. Granted there’s always some feeling out period but it felt so unreal. I have heard the flip of this complaint and recognize it can be difficult in a first session to do it cold so to speak. Maybe others have just made it look easy. Dinner with a couple of NYC pro dommes who were friends of the person I was dating talking about their views on kink. (I self censored here - just because calling people out anonymously isn’t cool and might reflect their real views). But it was 99% about the dollars and Other cities I’ve been there were plenty of people who did it more for the $$ but they at least got into the kinks out of professional interest if nothing else. It was enlightening. But kinda depressing. Again. I’ve met people with some bad reasons for being into kink. This wasn’t that bad. Just came across as lacking any authenticity. A kink party in someone’s apartment which was kind of like speed dating for subs and Doms. But throughout it I met 2 ladies I got on with and they were both from different places other than NYC. And they spent more than half the time talking about their kinks and interests. The rest of the evening I found myself quietly drinking more than normal because I was struggling to connect with anyone there because the sentiment was - I’m amazing. You should come session with me. Then you’ll see. And when I asked why or what they liked it seemed like they really struggled to articulate anything. Again. Granted. Potentially awkward social situation and other contributing factors. But it was just an overall feeling. And I walked home wondering why I felt that so strongly. This could all be grossly unfair as a representation of the scene in NYC. And I’m sure not true for everybody. But those were my experiences for a couple of months before I came to the Fortress. And (without being sycophantic). Had the quite the opposite experience.
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    Amen on the sincerity. Can’t comment on the whole fortress or the whole of NYC. But having now attended a variety of events and dungeons across NYC. There really is a difference. And when I saw the word ‘Sincerity’ I was like YES. That is the right word ?
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    My thoughts went to a crowdfunded group trip to such a place. Sardax would be proud ?
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    I thought that about the lady parts one too. But I know someone who has been wearing it for 3 weeks straight. The wire caused problems with concealment, sleeping and some day to day comfort. But he assured me it was manageable. It’s tempting as a concept - but - too focused on vanilla relationships etc rn to try it. Maybe if I flip back for some kinky time I can report back personally. But probably only if I get involved with a keyholder.
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    Yes - can vouch for that. Went in to a couple of sessions with Mistress Rey with loose concepts and one of them still makes me smile whenever I think back to it. Right now in fact. ?
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    Didn’t feel they explored that angle enough... probably biased though ☺️
  11. Lockednwaiting
    Not telling her how I felt about her and how much I liked/loved/appreciated her
  12. Lockednwaiting
    Not really. I’ve done it previously but this year I’m dating someone who is pretty vanilla who planned a really nice birthday surprise. We’ve chatted about a No-vember but we’ll see.
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    Now any time I hear “Little things” by India Arie there’s a mental association with the Fortress ?
  14. Lockednwaiting
    Oops. Here’s the right link. https://fancysteel.com.au/products/mens-sissy-slim-fit-chastity-belt
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    True. That was actually the worst part. Worrying if I would hear if something was going wrong and get in there fast enough. We met them at a house party and I chatted to them for a while. Then played it up as a hypothetical to see who would take the bait. A few volunteered and I picked the two smallest and least drunk looking. I discussed the pricing. She didn’t really care about it. And we never actually slept together. I was a virgin at the time and we’d only gotten to third base at that stage. I think that the fact I didn’t want to lose my virginity to her was what might have tipped her off that our relationship had a shelf life. But we stayed friends for a couple of years after and she told me she recreated it for years in her head when she was sleeping with other people. Yes - I was young at the time.
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    It was her ultimate fantasy and I was pretty sure she’d see it through. I’d rather she did it safe-ishly than tried it the other way. She’s now a doctor and married to a very nice man. Together they do lots of volunteer work with children so the universe wins.
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    I’d actually forgotten about it for a long time until you had me in a very compromising position and suddenly remembering things became incredibly important ?
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    A large round of drinks I think. Or I gave it back to her. I’m not sure. Been questioning myself about that since I mentioned it to Mistress Rey. Let’s just say it wasn’t enough money that what it bought was very memorable ? With hindsight I’m pretty sure she knew we were finished and just wanted to have sex with strangers with me nearby as security. It was my first time as security but it’s still in my top 2 weirdest 15 ish years later.
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    Suggestions would probably go to a dark place pretty quickly. It actually went very well. But - never again.
  20. Lockednwaiting
    https://fancysteel.com.au/blogs/news/mens-slim-fit-chastity-belt-review Chastity with fake lady parts for all those out there so inclined.
  21. Lockednwaiting
    Pimping my ex. Nope. Not doing that again.
  22. Lockednwaiting
    Of late.. Eating = French chorizo and eggs protein fest or Rey’s recommended breakfast burrito and an açaí bowl with coffee and kombucha. Reading = Biz strategy, Cleantech innovation, psychology of sexuality or latest chapter in kink related novel I’m debating whether to actually write and publish. Or if in chastity I might sneakily browse Tumblr for some in public tease and denial. Listening to = Junior boys, Jazz or anything that tunes out the other people in the restaurant.
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    So did you enjoy the Bianca Buttcakes stuff? That dude has some serious sissy balls.
  24. Lockednwaiting
    Curious if you’d want one consistent name to help build a single identity or to try out different ones. Although the 5 or 6 times I’ve played that role everyone always picks Sarah or Jessie. So you might find you have one name name everyone goes back to like a cosmic sissy tag ?
  25. Lockednwaiting
    Weekend mornings. Headphones on. World off. Eating healthy food and reading for 2-3 hours <bliss>
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