Milkdud

I'm listening to Patti Smith-- she's speaking to me in tongues!

Season 4 has just come out on DVD in Netflicks!!! I should have read the books first but am busily devouring them at present! May the goddesses save us from Edderd Stark syndrome!

Welcome to the forums...but a sub named god??? LOL

Something hot from the forum archives to keep warm during those long hours of shoveling

Mistress Koi, Dare I say delightfully cruel...and perhaps even a treat after a hard, firy caning;)

So appropriate on a cold, wintry night! Bringing it back!

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I'm waiting for Godot. I think he might have the instructions?

Mistress Tran, Your recommendation plus Patti Smith's musical contribution definitely make this one a must see!!!

Dear Mistress Kangsta, Now I'm energetic and silly too! LOL Thank you!

I haven't a clue, but I think I have a new favorite song:-)

Warm and happy holidays to you and all the ladies! Thanks for the schedule and hope to make a visit in the near future;)

You know how to make a boy feel so festive Ma'am;-)

Excuse me Ma'am, Clips? Could there be an ornament flesh hook option?

I have never been to a Japanese love hotel but have been to one in Manilla;-) There are many in the Philippines. It was culturally fascinating for about a minute until the door closed behind us!!! Unfortunately, they didn't have Crisco on the menu!

Dear Mistress Zhao, This is a very interesting study about one of my favorite topics, pain or "extreme sensation" in BDSM play;-) I agree with the study that particular types of BDSM sensations can alter a sub/bottom's sense of reality and enhance the intimate connection between dom and sub;-) It is an experience that definitely transforms consciousness to varying degrees. Of course, we have several thousand years of spiritual/religious ritual practice to support this assertion. And in BDSM play, it often can forge deepening bonds of trust i.e. a sub can both demonstrate his obedience to his lady and abandon self and physical control to her will, wielding so precisely her whip or her cane! I definitely agree that this type of play can be thrilling and invigorating! Perhaps we can put this reaction to the test very, very soon? Humbly, md

Thank you for the topic Ms. Fae, I think Freud certainly deserves his place as the father of modern psychology but his theories are antiquated and of course subjective. There is no real reliable evidence to substantiate the success of psychoanalysis as a mode of therapy. Of course his influence stretches much more widely then that, in literary and art criticism for example. His definition of fetish as rooted in the fear and desire present in the mother/son attachment differs considerably from the common understanding of fetish today. Still, there certainly is quite a lot of HOT material there for future role plays;-) I like the original meaning of the word fetish "an object of reverence we subscribe supernatural powers or irresistible powers to." No doubt that erotic self-discovery can be liberating and that repressing certain desires for clothing types, toys, or particular activities due to barriers of religious-based or other shame can cause distress or psychological discomfort. Thankfully we have this forum, the FF, and all sorts of support communities out there. I think there is a tendency to separate "fetish" from a more inclusive definition of what sex is. Power exchange is just another variation and a means to have a richer,, psychological charged experience to those who are so inclined. . Without kink and fetish exploration, I think things would have been a hell of a lot more boring for me ! I have been kinky and engaging in BDSM my entire adult life with a few primary and numerous other partners over time and so it has meant a lot of fun, personal exploration, and social connection. I think of myself as wired that way! For years, I didn't buy the idea that "fetish exploration" could be therapeutic in a lasting way but that believe has definitely changed over the past few years especially as I have played with MZ:-) . As another poster eloquently said, it is important for some not to over think attraction and the desire to explore erotic variation, but I have found the self-reflection on interpersonal dynamics and the freedom to play and express freely really valuable. Kinky and fetishist fantasies came along with my sexual awakening in my early teens. If this were a PM, I would go into much more detail but my desire for kink and to act those fantasies out was very strong. My first actual experience occurred around age 18 with a friend who was dating another woman and identified as lesbian. We found ourselves in her mother's outdoor hot tub one night and she began playing with and torturing my nipples. It went on for a long time and it was magical;) I loved both the torturous sensations and the power she had over me. That experience helped me begin the process of accepting that I wanted kink in my erotic encounters. I was quite the raging dresser when I was a young lad/lass;-) But when, despite my fear, I received my first few strokes of a single tail, things changed. I've never had a purely vanilla relationship actually. I eventually began to switch in the SM dynamic and gradually, as I have gotten older, explored the D&S dynamic. Its been at the FF that I have been free to explore submission in a deeper sense with some beautiful, devious, sadistic ladies over the years! 　

This video is Youtube good fun! But I am wondering if there is a video categorizing caucasian guys? Need to know where I fit:-)

I'm definitely attracted to the hipster Asian girl as well as the foodie, sporty, braimiac, and good-girl types;-). And I could probably date the feminist.

Scent fetish is especially powerful in building connection. and experiencing Mistress Tran's sweat and other fragrances is unforgetably hot;)

I appolagize Mistress Kang. I was definitely making an assumption in my cheeky reply.

The exquisite "Big Ho-JO's Sleep Better Comfort Inn" but of course!

Jpcpat,As a long-time kinkster, I really enjoyed reading your review. I recently had the opportunity to play with Mistress Tran again after a long absence and surrendering to and remaining present through her sadistic whims is an experience to be treasured!! ,