Guest Posted June 30, 2008 Report Share Posted June 30, 2008 Maybe titled incorrectly, but pain or pleasure derived from physical actions or verbal actions can evoke a deep vibration of life/death. The sadomasochistic world is edge play. Fear, loss of control, losing balance and equilibrium, all aspects that you crave as a submissive in the BDSM culture. How does one arrive at that point? Maybe my topic on subspace was premature but where do you find yourself at that "edge" when you are floating, existing minimally? The verbal humiliation and degradation that breaks you down or the slicing, piercing pain of the whip or flogger that brings you to that moment. The moment of true survival for the sake of pain/pleasure? :?: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkdud Posted June 30, 2008 Report Share Posted June 30, 2008 Maybe titled incorrectly, but pain or pleasure derived from physical actions or verbal actions can evoke a deep vibration of life/death. I agree. Reflecting on my erotic self, I have come to refer to "pain" as extreme sensation because its a feeling I crave just as much as what is considered conventionally pleasurable. The sadomasochistic world is edge play. Fear, loss of control, losing balance and equilibrium, all aspects that you crave as a submissive in the BDSM culture. I hope to explore that wonderful and profound mix of eros, fear and loss of control with you quite soon. Sometimes sessions are profound and lead to self truths and sometimes they are "good clean fun" depending on chemistry;-) Either way, I bliss out! How does one arrive at that point? Pushing physical and perhaps emotional limits and being very verbal works very well;-) Maybe my topic on subspace was premature but where do you find yourself at that "edge" when you are floating, existing minimally? The verbal humiliation and degradation that breaks you down or the slicing, piercing pain of the whip or flogger that brings you to that moment. Submissive narvana! The moment of true survival for the sake of pain/pleasure? :?: To be determined. d/leatherwings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 1, 2008 Report Share Posted July 1, 2008 oh yes, to be determined, my dear d/leatherwings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spockme Posted July 3, 2008 Report Share Posted July 3, 2008 You are a strong mind flogger. Pain brings you to exceptance of giving all to your Mistress of onesself. the mental torment is deabilatating and causes tortal break down of ones inner self. I know , you know we must explore further do you remember ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akiravn1 Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Dear M. Chan, Another interesting thought from a mind which I have grown to seriously love. For me, I must admit it is a combination of both verbal and physical. To me, one without the other leaves me a bit empty and unsatisfied. I like being brought to the edge with physical abuse and as I am just starting to think that I can't take anymore, I like to be pushed over the edge with total verbal humiliation, then I feel the sharp razor's edge and all is complete, I have been dealt the punishment which I so severely deserved. I would love to bring each other to this point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkdud Posted July 6, 2008 Report Share Posted July 6, 2008 Goddess Minnie, You have amazing skill in breaking down the ego and laying bare the soul. Both I and my adorable voyeur marvel at that. I know now what you mean by vibrations of life and death. For me, the verbal whip bites far harder than the leather whip. My deepest thanks for that lesson. Humbly, d/leatherwings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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