Fear

[Papo66]

Submitting to a domme evokes a number a number of sensations such as pain, humiliation and anxiety, all of which seem fairly easy to achieve.  Genuine fear, however, seems a more complicated task.  Wondering from dommes and subs successful experiences in this space.  My most successful experiences with fear combine the absence of a safe word (are you really submitting if you maintain that control?) and an initial kick in the balls The prospect of further impact on my balls and having no way to stop in (bondage enhances that scenario) results,  as Mistress Kang once said, in absolute terror in me.  How do others get to that sensation? 

[Mistress Lovely]

Fear is the body’s response to risk. 

To achieve real, cold-blooded fear in a session- something real has to be on the line. Maybe your pride. Maybe a cherished self-image. Maybe the illusion that you’re in control. You get out what you put in.

No domme needs to remove your safeword to take away your control. We simply reveal that you never had any to begin with.