Excited, nervous, and anxious for my first ever bdsm session with Mistress Ito tomorrow.

[adamzzzz]

Hi everyone,

 

It's my first time posting here but I just wanted to share how I'm feeling right now with my upcoming session with Mistress Ito tomorrow. It will be my first ever bdsm session, something I've been fantasizing about for years now. I'm obviously excited but I'm also very nervous.  I just don't know what to expect. I always get anxious before normal dates, and this a full-fledged bdsm session! And mistress Ito is obviously very beautiful. I think I'm going to be shaking and trembling in front of her, even while just talking and discussing with her. Tomorrow will be the first ever time I'm going to tell someone in-person, face-to-face, what my deepest darkest fantasies are, I mean, how do I even prepare for that? I just hope I can please her and have fun while doing it.

 

Anyway, I'll be sure to leave an update post after the session to tell you how it went

 

Sincerely,

Adam

[TKLVR]

Feeling nervous is natural and appropriate. Just know that you are in good hands and prepare to "let go" so you can fully enjoy the experience.

[Mistress Lovely]

Be nervous.

[MissBetty]

"I think I'm going to be shaking and trembling"

Lucky you, that is a bonus.

[Mistress Ito]

You did a good job today! Don't forget to do your "homework" until next time

[Farm Boy]

11 years in and I still get nervous.  Just don’t get cold feet.  I feel like it’s a huge emotional and psychological   step to actually enter into this world, but it’s worth it. You’ll regret it if you don’t go through with it.   Honestly my earliest sessions were a bit stilted but were enough to keep me going.  Over time you’ll get a sense of what works for you and what dommes you connect with.   The more tome you invest in the experience the more you will take from it.  Best of luck and welcome to the “scene.”