Mistress Kang,
I see your point. For me it's a little bit of both. Failing tests from a Mistress earns me a deserved punishment. Tweaking a Mistress on the Forum gives her ammunition to use against me. Cheating on a Mistress by seeing another Mistress then confessing my infidelity when I go back to the first Mistress gets me into hot water. Right now I'm working on a scenario for when I return to Ms Zhao. On the other hand getting an undeserved punishment can be interesting. Maybe it's my Catholic school experience where most of my punishments were undeserved and humiliating ( could tell you stories you wouldn't believe) that makes them work in session. When I first requested face slapping in a session Ms Zhao accused me of looking up her skirt. This happened toward the conclusion of our session and I had totally forgotten my request. I didn't sneak a peek and immediately denied it. She slapped my face and each denial got me a harder slap until I finally confessed. Then I got caned for something I didn't do. During our next session when I told her how well that had worked she slapped me again, accused me again, and kept slapping me while I laughed. I was then caned for peeking and laughing.
When I worked in the downtown area, many women over the years used to swat me on my backside when they walked by. This was partly due to my reputation as a prankster and partly because, as Ms Ahn said, I have a "spankable booty" lol. One day a woman, who always smacked me, walked past me while I had my back to the wall and was talking to some people. We smiled at each other and when she was going past I brought my hand back as if to give her a backhand to her bottom. While I didn't do it, had no intention to do it, she was highly insulted and scolded me in front of the people I was with. My explanation that I was kidding did nothing to appease her. I can only imagine what would have happened if I actually tapped her. I'd probably still be in prison.
Maybe a little revenge isn't bad after all.
Ray