Dashan

Ha ha, M. Zhao, I love this post. I truly enjoy both sides of the equation. As my Mistress knows, I only am a submissive inside the FF. I think it's like being bisexual; those of us that "go both ways" just enjoy life on a higher plane. Besides, how could I know the true pleasure my subby girls enjoy if I've never taken the punishment myself? That's why my Mistress (she knows who she is) is so extraordinary- she's been able to "tame" me inside the walls of the FF at least, and girls outside should thank her for how she's made me a better master. I think the BEST, world-class mistresses either switch openly (or secretly, like M. Kang does). How else would they excel at play?

I can assure you M Kang is (from what I've heard) VERY impressive as Wonder Woman

You, sir, are a fortunate man; definitely an aesthete and bon viveur!

I'll be brutally honest here, I've had complete mental orgasms just seeing a wooden paddle in the hand of my Mistress- she knows who she is. Being doubled over the knee of my other san-disant mistress has been bliss. Paddling, both on the receiving or delivering end, to me is the ultimate subjugation, release and beautiful aspect of the BDSM scene. Taboo, visceral, and sexual all at once. I have had many a wonderful sub over my knee, and been lucky enough to enjoy severe paddling from the lovelies at the FF. Starting out with bare hands is especially intimate, yet using a variety of paddles will provide different colors of pain. I highly recommend it for all- it is simultaneously cathartic, sexual, and humiliating. I wonder if other subs enjoy this activity as much as I do, and I wonder if the Mistresses at the FF derive the same pleasure from administering it that I do?

Rumor has it M Kang has a Wonderwoman costume that no one has ever seen her in. I've also heard M Jung looks delightful as Catwoman.

M Kang is spot on; in china the barber pole has special significance! I recall fondly my first of many trips to shanghai over ten years ago. The city looked like one big construction zone. At first I didn't know why there would be 15 or 20 barber shops in a row on the same street. What was especially puzzling was the beautiful young uniformed girls from the countryside that all worked at each of them. It was like an army of them. Due to my curious nature, I soon found out how great it is to get a daily "haircut.". Highly recommended, although you may need to "train" your "barber" as some are pretty inexperienced and Chinese men seem to have low,expectations.

Now that is devotion!

For the record, I really hate tattoos on women. But for some odd reason, maybe it is your force of personality, on you it seems glorious, perfect, even. Just saying.

I had some AMAZING snake wine in China- actually it was snake in "Baijiu" which is grain alcohol. They literally had an entire snake inside the bottle of hard alcohol. I've been lucky enough to try many different hard liquors in my day, but this was the best by far. They claimed it did something for your mojo. It was so warm going down it was ridiculous. And potent! Unfortunately, we were warned that customs didn't let you bring a bottle back to the US. A year later, they closed the restaurant (Which was called Snake House) because some of the snake dishes they sold there were endangered species. If vietnamese snake wine is anything like it, it's worth trying to bring back.

Part of being a "high maintenance woman" is denying that you are one.

The only great woman is a high maintenance woman. She's like a Harley Davidson- quirky, exciting, difficult to handle...only a superior man can handle her. Who wants a woman that is easy to handle?

Let me be the first to HIGHLY recommend the FF and the superstar Head Mistress Kang. Jessy Kang is a class act- not only the best domme in town, but a fantastic person. All of her girls at the FF are top-notch and she runs things perfectly. Congrats, Jessy, for the interview and recognition. Oh, and it's obvious that she's beautiful, too. If you asked me of a list of people that I respect the most, Jessy Kang is VERY high on that list, for what she's created at the FF.

I agree with M Zhao. I've been in BDSM outside the FF as a master, and of course, as a sub at the FF. I think in some ways the sessions at the FF, BECAUSE of the professional relationship, can be just as cathartic and meaningul. Maybe more so, with the right Mistress. There is NO emotional baggage with the capable mistresses at the FF. There is a strong emotional bond, I'm not saying there isn't, but as a sub, I can truly "release" and "surrender" as Zhao mentions. In fact, I almost wonder if the sessions are less effective as I get to know my Mistresses more personally over time. Will they ease up on me? Let me assure you, so far that has not happened. I'm sure I'm not the only one that goes to the FF and leaves feeling "powerful" and "limitless"

My favorite safe word (phrase) was given me by M Kang: "I don't deserve pussy." since then, she won't let me have ANY safe word. She knows I'm a terrible sub

I’m just sharing some helpful tips for new visitors to the FF and veterans alike. I’ve made some real blunders at the Fortress, so maybe you can learn from my mistakes. Some tips on what NOT to do at the Fortress: Never tell your Mistress while you are tied up and she has a paddle in her hand that you are thinking about another Mistress. Don’t tell two Mistresses while you are tied up that you don’t mind electro that much and are willing to take the Max shock from it. Bragging about your pain tolerance isn’t always a good idea. As you can imagine, these blunders were met with the requisite punishment. (I'm not complaining) I've made these mistakes and many more... "Devotees" of the Fortress, please add your favorite errors for the benefit of us all...

BOTH.

Well, Mistress Zhao, I believe Mistresses are like all women- it works best if you let them THINK they are in charge

I was a little surprised how gentle you were, too, Mistress Tran- I had read on the forums how fierce you were. Maybe you were just having an off day...

it was worth it and if M. Kang ever allows it, I'll do it again

Don't believe a word they say- they will inflict serious corporal punishment on you. No way you'll get out of the Fortress with only tickling. If you do decide to go, pick Mistress Kang- she is very gentle and sensual, a real pussycat.

The only risk I see is that it will be the best money you ever spent and you'll be addicted. But hard for me to imagine your session will only involve tickling, knowing the creatively evil minds at the FF.

The engaging and stunning Mistresses Zhao and Mistress Tran made a "cameo appearance" at a recent session I had. I want to thank them for that- it was the icing on the cake for what was my best session at the Fortress yet. (And I spend way too much time there as you all may know.) Thanks also of course to M. Jung and M. Kang who excel at putting me in "my place."

Like I've told you before, sessions with you and WW are transcendent, intimidating, yet empowering at the same time. Can't wait for my next chance with you and Wonder Woman-