Mistress Kang

I don't travel much, so when guys ask when I am session in their city I usually suggest local Asian Dominas- and maintain a list of active ones for their reference. Below is what happens when you send in-niche, high value BDSM specific traffic to some people: This message is to request the immediate removal of the unauthorized posting of my name, likeness and written materials on your website. Such unauthorized posting is a blatant violation of copyright, trademark and internet privacy laws. If you do not immediately remove the unauthorized posting, I will take action including reporting this crime to the United States Department of Justice, Computer Crime & Intellectual Property Section. Please provide confirmation that you have taken down the unauthorized posting on or before the close of business on June 22,2012 or prepare to suffer the consequences. Mistress Lotus Ming I gave her both written email referrals, and a banner link- I did not even ask her for a reciprocal one. That was the "violation". What kind of independent business person threatens "consequences" to the largest NON-COMPETING business in a very narrow niche- for publicizing their services and sending them customers? *facepalm*

whip- It thrills me to know that I can make the hairs on your body dance without even touching you ;-) Imagine what I do when I can! Tell me, why does it bother you that you have these thoughts? What if the person you're tormenting were to enjoy it? What if you didn't like them and they enjoyed it? Would it bother you that you were providing them with a pleasure even though you don't like them, or is it only about your pleasure?

So you mean that you don't believe that there are natural dominants? Or do you mean that you just don't believe there are naturally dominant women?

Currently, Dolli's next date of availability is Tuesday June 19th. She is fully booked before then, whomever she is occupying is in a better position than the rest of you ;-) Patience is a virtue... - Psychomachia

A new level of adorable-fetish play. http://fortressnyc.com/players/mistress_mei Mistress Dolli Me is available for double-Domme training sessions with Mistress Mia Zhao, Mistress Lucy Tran and me. We are offering training session discounted rates as follows: Mistresses Dolli Mei & Mia Zhao- $280 one hour Mistresses Dolli Mei & Lucy Tran- $280 one hour Mistresses Dollie Me & Jessy Kang- $350 one hour Please email me at [email protected] with the subject line "Training with Mistress Mei and (?)", we will be selective with the submissives we accept, kindly include any activities you're willing to endure for the sake of Dolli's training =) You wouldn't want to disappoint us or make a less than your best impression on Dolli now, would you? Hurry, sessions and availability is limited.

I know the ladies always appreciate considerate tops and switches- you sound like you're one

Based on the standard doctor's pain scale- how much pain would bear inflicted by such a lovely lady?

That's almost too funny. Does being a sociopath count as domination?

Hey guys! Welcome our newest addition to the Fortress, Mistress Naomi Haru! Sort of a Japanese version of Bettie Page, definitely a buxom beauty- see for yourself! http://fortressnyc.c...s/mistress_haru One of my favorite pics of the latex set: Mistress Naomi Haru is now available for a limited number of double-Domme training sessions. We are offering discounted rates: Mistresses Haru & Zhao- $270 one hour Mistresses Haru & Tran- $270 one hour Mistresses Haru & Kang- $350 one hour Please email to reserve your session immediately! Availability is limited- hurry!

*Blasts* were had in the spirit of much perversion ;-) All of these birthday wishes are so warm and gooey my chest stone is at risk of melting!

Ha! Thank you

People! We are in the middle of the Fetish Marathon weekend- the SMack! is tonight! http://www.smack-fetish.com/ SATURDAY- June 2nd @ Gramercy Theater - 127 East 23rd Street (between Park Avenue & Madison Avenue) Doors @ 11:00pm Dress Code: Superhero & Villains & Fetish Gear! *all black is always acceptable, just without a smile Guess what?! Every Fortress Domme will be in attendance! So exciting!! Who else is going? Let's see an informal RSVP in this thread! And your tickets if you have them LOL Oh, include your costume too, if you will ;-)

It's harder to do than it may look.

Secrets are exciting, but sometimes seeing it out in the open is even more thrilling- or maybe it's just a reminder of why they make good secrets?! I love everything about this image: Anyone know it's origin? Judging by the newspaper, it might be Korea or Japan? Not sure...

How weird, there was a similar scene in an episode ("Queen of Hearts") of The Breakout Kings. Erica, one of the criminal "helpers" borrows a pair of tall leather boots to effectively interrogate the detainee. Has anyone seen this? ;-)

Just *test*-ing LOL Here's an easy one: Alright, now for extra points, can anyone tell me what the *test* pic illustrated?

Here goes Round 3 of Guess The Mistresses!

Hi akiravn, Did you have any "preference" for more agressive (Asian) women before meeting her? Or was she the one to cultivate the humiliation-seeking submissive in you? Was there any BDSM inclination in your sexual being before that incident? What did they entail? How has your submissive tendencies grown since? Have you had many real-time experiences? Do tell!

How did you discover BDSM? Was it something you were "looking" for, or did you just happen to find it (how?) and did you like it right away? Or do you mean you've always had a BDSM inclination sexually? In regards to older generations embracing their fetishes- I think it's remarkable to be able to surpress long-time fetishes, and equally impressive being one of the open-minded in a generation largely populated by the close-minded against taboo sexual explorations.

Hi skeech! What did your early desires to be dominated entail? Certainly they were not influenced by the Internet, but do you know if they were tained by what little was found in mainstream media? Comic books, action and sci-fi movies? Or did they originate elsewhere- do you know at all? You only said your desire was to be "dominated by females" and did not mention specific activities or fetishes- *did* you have any desires for those too? Of what you can share with us, what was acquired by taste and what was ingrained?

Do you mean your first experience with said Asian Domme was a little over a year ago? What can you share with us about your exeprience and "tendencies" as a new submissive? How sporatic is your servitude? When and where do you submit? How did you discover BDSM?

tommy, you definitely fall into the category of "new and undefined fetishists". Please tell me what lead you to the Fortress, and before that, what inspired you to even *want* to pursue the lifestyle? Was it a video you saw? An ad you read? A photo online? What were you searching for? Are you aware of having any fetishes before any of this happened? Maybe there are images of certain activities that you are "partial" to when you prowl the net?

The Foot Fetish Community is by far the most outspoken and acceptable in mainstream, movies, commercials, ads, song lyrics, music videos... But there will always be someone *too* prude, I'm happy to hear your partners shared your fetish Did any of your new "tastes" come from the Internet? Or were they all from your sessions at the Fortress? There is no shortage of "new" and "unusual" fetishes on the Internet. I wouldn't be surprised if during one of your more lascivious evenings home alone in your skivvies, you traipsed off on the Internet and discovered how much you like watching trios of hot girls wearing bunny ears and whiskers as they lick Cheeto dust off of each other's big toes right before jamming them into their nostrils. Perhaps it was the secrecy of the moment or how particularly randy you were feeling, but somehow the visuals of that video are now imbedded and you can't seem to find enough like it, even in the worldwide Interwebs (lol), to satisfy this new oddity of your sexuality. It would explain the request for the rabbit costume and cheese curls I once dated a foot fetishist, but at the time, I had no idea it was a "fetish" and obviously that he was a "fetishist"- thought he loved my feet and toes because he was smitten with me! LOL Our relationship ended around the time that I found out he was inflicting his fetish on a few of my girlfriends and their mother- LITERALLY! LOL I think that it's really cool that you went exploring no matter your age!

I find it amazing when people can recall such early affects of their fetishes. What do you mean by "cautious"? Were you *actually* spanked by your teachers in school? Did your first masturbation fantasy subsequently involve that one spanking or teacher, or a combination of all of your "school spankings"? Did you ever tell anyone while you were still in that school? What was their response?

I am an inquisitive being (therefore I am)- always have been and no reason to think that I'd ever not be. Do you not agree? (lol) Information is one of the most powerful tools- I'd much rather be weidling a measuring device than a power tool. That said, I ask a lot of questions especially in new situations. Lately I've noticed a trend among the novices that I've or another "Comrade de Fortress" has played with. For most of them, their session with their chosen Fortress Mistress was their very first BDSM experience. It's quite flattering actually ;-) One could speculate that Fetish Enthusiasts, Dominants, Submissives, Slaves, Tops, Bottoms, and the sort, are simply *not* the sort that are born overnight. Many of us recall kinky cravings and desires dating back to our adolescent and formative years. Unfortunately, personal and social obstacles make it difficult to explore these urges freely, or even exploring them at all. I've played with BDSM beginners- submissive men in their 40's with perversion in their blood like me, since the sprouting of their first pube, they're overcome with an insatiable appetite to be leather-hooded..bound..thickly coat red lipstick on their lips..asphixiated..just to list a few. Early attempts to satisfy these fetishes lead him to "borrow" a girlfriend's tube of lipstick, hiding in a coat closet and applying laying after layer, taking off his own leather belt and emptying out the leather handbag he found in the closet before putting it over his head followed by cinching the belt around his neck. Rudimentary as it gets! Easy to make the connection from putting on your girlfriend's red lipstick, hiding inside the family coat closet sitting on the floor with Auntie's leather purse over your head and tightening your leather belt over the purse around your neck, to seeing a Domme. Other BDSM beginners I've played with- men in their 40's acting on their seemingly new desire to be dominated, they've never had a kinky inclination except for the mild BDSM they've managed to slip into mainstream media. Both examples takes "balls" to act on. I've always welcome beginners ("I I wonder how many of you out there, our Forum readers, are lifelong fetishists of some sort or another, and how many are just getting their toes wet but certainly willing to dive in for a swim should the temperature be just right?