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Mistress Fei

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  1. Interesting point of view, interested to meet you to discuss your thoughts further. Regarding your questions, I wouldn't go into your first session with expectations- an open mind works wonders in taking you to where you need to go. However, it is important to know what your interests are and who you would like to session with, which you have the opportunity to email before hand, but the most important is meeting the mistress- the chemistry and rapport is what will create the session and is something you can't plan for Booking can help you pick the right match in terms of experience level and interests- but also remember to go with your gut i often think your choice in mistress is directed by your subconscious (and obviously libido which is important as well), as we each have our own core interests mixed with our own ability to tap into your needs/wants
  2. just realized I've been living my life all wrong...
  3. EWWWWW TOO DISTURBING. HAVE TO LOOK AWAY!
  4. According to Freud, punctuality is a sign of sadism. NO WONDER I'M ALWAYS ON TIME

    1. RandyCameltoe

      RandyCameltoe

      So am I. What does that mean? I am a switch?

  5. oh my- that is like a car crash- just can't look away it's so cute.. so dirty.. so wrong.. but so right! my mind can't handle it!
  6. LOVED your response- what are the other emotional states? I think the erotic is completely driven by fear! I think the sex drive is the strongest impulse of all with untapped potential for change and the power is too scary to deal with so that's why all of these systems of social conditioning are in place to deny us of our lust! and this is exactly what advertising exploits.
  7. yeah that makes sense, being envious of those that are less self-conscious about those needs which i think we all have. SOCIAL MEDIA is a whole discussion in itself! LET'S TALK!
  8. my friend was just talking about his experience in maid cafes! he said it made him very uncomfortable and if i understand correctly the premise is there are a bunch of maids that are serving you as their master while their actual master is away? i don't like anything that places in women in an overtly submissive role, obviously
  9. Are any of you familiar with Carl Jung's theory of the shadow? To summarize, the shadow is the collection of negative attributes of a person, hiding in the unconscious. Everyone has one. It's everything we don't want to face about ourselves. The phenomenon when we dislike someone else, later, through retrospection, realizing that the reason we don't like them is because they remind us so much of the things we hate about ourselves can be attributed to the shadow He says that the more someone recognizes what is carried in the shadow, the more the person is willing to consciously incorporate those elements, the less dense the shadow will be Speaking in terms of energies, it would go without saying that the denser the shadow, the more negative a frequency a person will carry and the more negative things will be drawn to that person. My question is, since as a societal standard BDSM is considered "dark" and within the realm of the collective shadow, how many of you consider it to be a part of your own shadows and how many of you do not? What has embracing the shadow element done for you in your life, do you feel more cohesive as a person, more sane? What else would you say is in your shadow aspect, if you're willing to share? Thanks for your candid replies, as always x mFei
  10. interesting, thank you for sharing! i didn't know there was a term for it
  11. Man is the one who desires, woman the one who is desired. This is woman's entire but decisive advantage. Through man's passions, nature has given man into woman's hands, and the woman who does not know how to make him her subject, her slave, her toy, and how to betray him with a smile in the end is not wise. —Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Venus in Furs

    1. RandyCameltoe

      RandyCameltoe

      True. Mind control is the strongest form of bdsm

  12. http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/01/the-secret-to-smart-groups-isnt-smart-people/384625/ this is a must read
  13. yes, DR9 was easier to connect to because of the, albeit loose narrative. although i appreciate experimental films, i think just as a human being it's easier to process a narrative since that's how we tend to make meaning in our own lives. my favorite part was the scene at the end when they... i guess you could say, share sashimi. and yes! BJORK! have you seen dancer in the dark? she's great in it. talk to her, the skin i live in, volver are a few of my favorites besides tie me up i liked bad education and wasn't fond of i'm so excited, except now, given this current context, i'm sure i would like it more since one of the main characters is a high profile dominatrix! which ones have you seen on my list that you liked?
  14. i do whatever i want, if i want to flaunt my privilege i will, thanks moral authority, but i have a strong need to rebel against all authority.
  15. Aw thank you James! I really liked the Cremaster cycle, admittedly haven't seen all of it since all the parts are hard to find, but DR9 I found to be more beautiful and elegant. Not to mention the core messages were easier to extract. Cremaster w/ it's changing characters and elements was distracting and more of a spectacle Loooooove all by Almodovar. Let me know what you think of the rest of the films if you watch them!
  16. Did you just call me a movie theater? Do you mean cinephile?
  17. I mean, it's VERY easy to get all you subs to do whatever I want without resorting to manipulation. In general, it is VERY engaging for me in a mental way- never felt so engaged across all dimensions in my life!
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