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This sounds just like her. It's f**king great!

Let us known if you find some

I looked for places (albeit I was quite time constrained) but most of the places I researched ended up being 'rent-a-dungeon-space' type places that you could arrange to meet a domme at - although this was almost inevitably an entirely separate service with no connection between the two to make things easier.. I'm sure there are some (we Brits are a pervy lot by nature), but they would require some digging to find I would like to try something in another city just as a point of reference, but I've always loved my sessions at the Fortress, from the 1st to the last and adore my Mistresses there (MvD took my cherry, so I will always love her and Ms Kang always shows me she can make me more of a slut than even I am willing to admit) I will do more investigation (and am always open to suggestions) ahead of my next visit

You should get Mr Martin to the Fortress and torture him until he does!

A little disappointed about the NY one not allowing extreme play I'm intrigued to know what sorts of extremes were met in SF

What sorts of things do sissies and subs do once there? (I've not been to one so I don't know what sort of interactions/activities occur) Are they paraded around in tow by mistresses or given things to do outside of watching the show?

I am in London this week Does anyone have a dungeon or fetish shop they would recommend? The Fortress is the only dungeon i've been to (as a frame of reference) and every experience has been great

So... Mistresses that went to Torture Garden.. tell all (well maybe not all) What was it like? How did people dress? What sorts of things/activities occurred ?(dancing/drinking/displays of sub-dom/are any actual consentual interactions allowed) Did you end up taking any subs?

Hahahahaha - I almost peed myself hahahaha, love it

Not to serve a Mistress, but... my wife cucks me, and an ex-bull had me drive her over, dress in a maids outfit and spend 5 hours actually cleaning his dirty flat whilst he fucked her behind a locked door it was filthy and a lot of dirty, messy work

I am extremely turned on by this idea I think (in my head anyway) - you would agree with the Mistress on an outfit of her choosing and she would apply all the appropriate feminizations or fetish gear (depending which you're in to) But it's more the idea that whilst being careful not to overtly 'out' you to anyone that touches your 'normal' life, she would take great pleasure in making you do uncomfortably public (at the party) acts outside of the relative comfort and anonymity of the Fortress in just her presence, but in front of everyone and anyone I love the idea of ceding control, the thrill of having your perversions on public display at the potentially fickle whim of a Mistress and being made to debase yourself for nothing more than her amusement ... then maybe once the frivolities are over, her making you walk a couple of blocks in public and hail you both a cab back to the Fortress whilst still wearing your fetish gear or sissy getup and heels maybe lastly, as you prepare to disrobe, she edges you or gives you a ruined orgasm to go home with feeling used and frustrated (and infinitely thankful!) as your return to your boring, vanilla life.

Ms Kang starts a side business, furniture assembly in peoples houses (leveraging free sissy labour)

I would have been interested in going as a sub with a Mistress Sadly i will be abroad at the time, but if other such parties happen in future i will try to be available

A little disclaimer for those that are new to this: I am very much the sort of sub for whom the bulk of the arousal all the way to almost climax can occur in my headspace (subspace?). I am sure there are some for whom the physical acts/discipline themselves are the core stimulation, but I can't speak for that as I am very much the former This means (to me) that many of the things that occur in the physical world are seeds to what my mind embellishes on the way to my brain, and if the right triggers are set off at the right times - it can be a rollercoaster you never want to end. Allowing yourself to slip into this head space can be very hard or very easy depending on the sub, and choosing the right domme for this is crucial. Those that are new can find it difficult to entrust their darkest fantasies with an unknown person (domme) and conversely there are probably some subs that want to freely give it to a stranger and that's part of the eroticism. You can even have a good rapport with a domme but on a given day find it difficult to slip into that subspace for any number of ancillary reasons. From my experiences, the ladies of the Fortress are exceptionally talented and experienced in probing for your triggers and finding them before taking you above and beyond your initial expectations I think one way (for subs like me) and for the domme in question to more easily relax it to have a basic backstory or scene in mind - one that you look forward to exploring (and exploring yourself in, in the case of repressed sexual fantasies). Maybe have some idea of your role and a general role of the domme (she will take this and generally exceed your expectation). I am quite triggered by certain songs, so maybe in your own time fantasize about the session ahead of time and be listening to a playlist of that music, then on the day bring a standalone mp3 player (as phones aren't allowed in the playrooms) with the music that gets you in the mood. If you're thinking of trying for the first time or trying a different domme, reach out to Emma (Ree) and suggest the kind of scene/backstory/roles you are interested in and she can quickly determine a domme that fits your criteria - and atlhiker makes some really salient points above - although I don't think the style of play I am into requires a safeword (more mental/emotional than physical) it is certainly something to consider. I would probably start with a 2hr session with a new domme, because letting your guard down mentally with a stranger can be a gradual thing even if they are waving all the proverbial carrots in your face. You will just know when you find one that clicks with you and your internal erotic rhythm, as you will find yourself willingly relinquishing all reigns of control and letting be the coxswain of your mind, body and soul for the next hour(s). In my experience, it's only when you're fully accepting of this "letting go" that you truly appreciate how talented these ladies are and how lucky you are to be at their feet. For me, Ms Von Dietz knows all my triggers and found some new ones (embarrassingly quickly I might add) and takes me on a wild ride, often leaving me a discombobulated hot mess, before snapping me back for a grand finale. I count the minutes to my next sessions with her, and always feel 'the absence of MvD' for days afterwards

I like all their stuff, but the micro thongs from Wicked Weasel are great for this kind of SPH, effortlessly covering up unsightly insignificances

..for me it's the ears, tongue in my ear, nibbling at the lobe, breathing or blowing around the ear - sets me off and the nape of the neck, hickies etc (the idea of being 'marked' by the lust of the partner) takes me over the edge and out of the realm of 'reason'

... please divulge the details of the ensuing punishment you will doubtlessly receive as they 'prank' you back :P

I love it...