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Culturally speaking, I believe it’s warding off evil. Taoist i think

With sizing at L… 20D sheer to waist - one pair with lips parted… though I want to train my gag reflex to be able to close my lips over them. 30-40D deniers or sheers with control tops or gussets will depend on how it’s made, but generally I can fit one in if it’s packed like a chipmunk… takes some a little work though to make sure it’s packed on the cheeks and not back towards the airway. 50D and up is about half. Typically at that point I will get a control top and stuff my mouth with the control top and wrap the legs around my mouth multiple times to seal it in. The OTM look like that is exquisite if done right. As an aside- I can generally pack thigh highs with no stay-ups at a higher denier level given it inherently has less material than pantyhose of the same coverage level. Those I’ve done with lengths going out to XL depending on brand. Not a fan of stay-ups because the rubber can interfere with my tongue when I try to keep my airway clear… plus it’s weird taste that can trigger gag reflex if I’m not mentally zoned in 100% of the time.

What resonates for me has evolved over time… the biggest thing for me now is someone who really dives deep into the psychological and artistic intricacies of this craft. While it doesn’t have to be a lifestyle, the Domme who embraces it as an important part of their life and who deeply appreciates the sanctity and privilege of the power exchange in the Domme/sub relationship leaves the strongest impressions and receives my unwavering loyalty.

It was gradual until adulthood as I never knew an entire community existed until college. Up until then my curiosity slowly evolved from that initial cartoon scene to being curious what it would feel like to wear black nylons to actually trying things out on myself to understand the experience. Once I realized there was an entire community out there, I already had my own means as an adult… and so really dove in to explore. Thinking back, at the risk of sounding cliche, the motivation was as much the relief that I wasn’t alone with these interests as the physical payoff of it.

Self-bondage done right requires exquisite rope work though I could never get the hands and wrists quite right. Being commanded to gag and tie myself down in wait for my Mistress has always been an interesting level of submission to explore.

I have. Even have gear made especially for it.

Goes all the way back to my childhood, where a scene on a Saturday morning cartoon of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles stoked a feeling I was confused about in the beginning, but ultimately grew into these interests as I grew into adulthood.

*LONG POST* As the days grow to their longest, I could think of no better way to ring in the first week of summer than having an extended session with Mistress Lovely. I have had the privilege of having multiple sessions with Mistress over the past year and it seemed fitting that we explore the blue oceans that await beyond gates of my historical limits. Lest anyone misunderstands, I do have limits just as anyone should when engaging in a scene. However, what was once a locked gate has since been creaked open, and I was quite curious as to what lied beyond the veil of those old boundaries. And so the sure hand of my Mistress took me to lands previously unknown to me. I will not recount all the things we explored, but suffice to say things that a year ago would have been hard limits are now embraced experiences. I was nervous as it was the first time I truly went into waters I never dared to explore prior. However, throughout the entire session, Mistress created an air of safety and trust. She did not disregard my nervousness, but rather soothed it with sure direction and instruction. She allowed and encouraged me to express and embrace the sensations I felt… to let it flow through me rather than internalize it. What resulted was a wonderous ride through waters that undulated between pleasure and pain. Her approval and satisfaction were my reward, and I was proud each time I was graced with it. By the time the sun set on this session, and the light of the rising moon illuminated the uncharted ocean we’ve been exploring, I realized just how far my Mistress has guided me beyond the gates of my old limits…. and just how big this blue expanse truly is. The experience was so sublime that it could have passed for a dream were it not that I still have a memento one week later that reminds me it happened. Those who have read my other reviews will already know the conclusion, but it bears reiterating… As with all the ladies of the Fortress, Mistress Lovely has a true appreciation for this art of play. If you are a beginner, you can rest easy under her experienced direction. If you are seasoned, you can rest assured that she can both indulge and challenge your unique sandbox of a world, and make it wider and bigger if you are willing and open to it. All this to say – Mistress Lovely is a high quality player for all range of subs… from the new explorers to the seasoned connoisseurs. I am left to count the days to August… and wondering how long my memento will last before it fades

Some of the most beautiful locations are secretly nestled away among untrodden paths, and the exploration itself is part of the excitement and fun.

Yes Mistress… A deep trove of possibilities limited only by physics and/or the imagination.

https://lecherynewyork.com/ Writing down my answer to your question Mistress.