AioriaRegulus

Love this. Clearly a great time! as for suggestions: https://dininginthedarkexperience.com/new-york/

“Let’s get something to tie me over” ”Can you help me plug that hole?” ”We should wrap it up”

Anal stretcher comes to mind as you can imagine. Depending on size of a sub’s mouth and vs your shoe size, may be a unique gag….

I believe that to be spot on Mistress. A carefully curated selection of authors that spurs discourse discovering a deeper understanding of submission. Thank you Mistress.

Thank you for the comment Mistress. This sub is elated. I think Mistress hit upon the crux of what it truly means to have quality attention to the level of what the authors had in mind. To pay deliberate attention, one must not act deliberate. Let go of the notion to catalogue or optimize something. Submit to the river’s current and trust where it takes you. Only then can you truly have quality attention and share that experience to the fullest extent with the observer.

No. Even when those moments are centered on words themselves (the reading of a poem for instance), to describe one’s sensation at the time of the moment requires the person to remove themselves from the moment and take on the role of an observer. Thus do I think these 3 pose an interesting point, in their own respective way… to be fully in a moment and share what it’s like, one must look beyond the spoken word with deliberately paid attention. What is beyond the veil of the word is then sensation.

An interesting curation mistress… one that inspired multiple nights of thought. The inclusion of Scarry is especially so… although with deeper reflection, it makes sense. Their emphasis on the knowledge that lies beyond the boundaries of language and what is manifested rather than stated make sense. The importance they give to disciplined attention (importance that is akin to the divine) can capture those manifestations, enabling one to discover the most important moral realities as a result. In this I see the potential and importance of a Domme/sub dynamic for self growth for both Domme and sub.

A Samurai - adept at both humanities and war both. Above that is their loyalty and honor. I find these qualities relatable… especially their penchant and tradition for poetry.

It is very brief and seldom but in its peak form I sense (not see) a prism of red, blue and purple hues. It’s preceded by a feeling of tranquility. Not to say I don’t feel every contact, but it is an accompaniment to a level of prismatically colored peace that is unmatched. It’s made only more precious by how rare I’ve gotten there.

Good read. Thank you for sharing.