Mistress Lovely

You endless fount. ⭐️

What does absolution cost?

This is Sparta.

Some sessions form themselves the moment a man arrives ready. I’m pleased that you followed where it lead. Blue into red. A key worth remembering.

Punishment = chisel Discipline = architecture

Containment is what allows submission to happen. The safety of the bedroom. Obedience is lying in the bed. Requests (such as for GS) are asking for pillows. Submission is the transition between states. A surrender of defenses, like the surrender of awareness when you fall asleep. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to simply receive orders or sensation; but it isn’t the same as participating in a dynamic. Lying in bed is a lovely activity in its own right, but it doesn’t create sleep by itself. Allowing your psyche to be seen touched that way is more intimate than many people are able to afford.

I have mentioned nothing about lifestyle. My question is: “What distinguishes submission from passivity?” No credentials required.

Submission has a high physiological cost. There is nothing wrong with enjoying obedience as its own form of power play.

Submission is an act. Passivity is the absence of an act. They cannot coexist. What you have described is obedience within containment, not submission.

You have described logistics and obedience, not submission. Are you able to answer my question without drawing on your personal feelings or anecdotes?

* You concede. What distinguishes submission from passivity?

Punishment, by definition, presupposes evaluation. Fantasy or not. There is no form of ‘punishment’ that exists outside the categories of “deserved” or “undeserved.” Force applied without evaluation is simply “violence.”

How do you conceptualize ‘punishment’ in a BDSM context?

In a multi-syllabic mood, I see 👁️

Devotion spoken plainly is a rare strength

‘Help.’ What an interesting word choice for what it is I do. You know who fortune favors.

I wonder what you’re hoping to find

Deserving has little to do with what fate delivers.