Mistress Rey

Last year I had the pleasure of visiting Japan for the first time. Before my visit, I couldn’t say I was particularly fascinated by bondage. I understood that Japan is where punishment bondage and erotic bondage originated, so I made a point to discover their methodology. I wanted a fresh perspective and hopefully to feel inspired. After encountering the masters at their craft, I was so enamored by it that I’ve decided to take a break from New York to be an shibari expert's apprentice in Tokyo. As a Mistress, I want shibari to be my speciality moving forward. I felt immediately that the subtlety in their approach resonated with my style of sensuality. And more, there is an undercurrent of Zen that elevates it to an intensely aesthetic and transcendental practice. The way these shibari artists elegantly weave webs around their victims is something I would like to incorporate in my own sessions. The tying is an event in itself; there is so much sensuality, sexual tension, and a range of exhilarating emotions from start to finish. There is an immense range of emotion and sensation that rope can give when mastered. I love the idea of how sexually exciting subtlety and suggestion can be, and the Japanese are masters at it. I’ll be leaving April 16. Meanwhile I have been studying my knots and Japanese speaking skills! Also, von Dietz is planning a short visit in Tokyo at the same time as me! It’s her first time. How exciting! Can you imagine what trouble we would cause! We have been taking Japanese writing and speaking classes together so we can wreak havoc all over Tokyo. So excited to embark on this adventure, and more so with a fellow partner in mischief!

What a wild account of some court case humiliation! In Roman Catholic France, (pre Revolution) human bodies were not considered private property. Married persons were required to perform their bedroom duties by law. An impotent husband, even if he was unaware of it before marriage, would be considered to have committed larceny. Divorce was almost non existent, but a marriage could be dissolved on the account of the husband’s flaccid prone penis! The couple would be subject to examinations, plenty of groping and prodding by medical professionals. Under all that pressure how is a man to perform?Then, they would have to copulate in front of medical professionals and/or close family members at the court to make sure the husband was doing his wife right. It all sounds so humiliating and hilarious that this was once a way to settle a court case! An excerpt from the text: “It involved a couple—likely estranged—who were compelled to have sex in semiprivate quarters, either within the courthouse or rented rooms, with medical people and legal people and close family nearby. In some accounts, all that shrouded the copulating pair were thin paper screens; in others the small crowd gathered behind a half open door or in an antechamber. The entire trying event lasted roughly two hours, punctuated by the kind of bickering achievable only by two people-in-hate. Before and after there were careful checks for fraud. On entering, each party was stripped and examined in every available orifice, searched for vials of blood, and checked for the use of astringents. Afterward, their genitals and bedsheets were subject to examination for fluids.” https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2016/05/18/the-hard-on-on-trial/

This time, Tie a knot around your tongue with my panties. Then pull it taut with a clamp so you can't utilize it at all!

How will you scream with my panties stuffed in your mouth?

I always need regular practice. Thank you for volunteering!

I love how your mind works.

So prudish, right? It's an awkward phrase.

I thought the Lower East Side was kinkier!

Any of these findings surprise you? https://www.thrillist.com/entertainment/new-york/sex-in-soho-the-lower-east-side-and-brooklyn-according-to-babeland

Will I have to restrain you in case the Hulk comes out?

I love that mental game you posted. Where does it originate from? It's so twisted to make someone beg for more when they really want it to stop. At some point in play, the submissive victim won't even know what he or she wants anymore. The pain will confuse their thoughts and words to the point that they'll break and fully submit to their punisher.

I would.