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I'm so happy you took the plunge. For any one who is new to this I only recommend the Fortress. I have been coming here since 2008. It is the best place in NYC.

My best advice would be to go slow. What you see on a video may turn you on but when it is completely different your first time. Communicate with your Mistress that you are new and anything you are feeling. Fear, nervousness, excitement, uncertainty. Let her know 1-2 things that you think you would enjoy. Then give it a try. You can even ask if it is done a certain way according to your preference to make it easier. Communication is key. No one is a mind reader, No Domme would want to try something that would upset you. One last thing, Who says that a session has to begin the moment the Domme walks into the room? One of the many things I like about the Fortress is the ladies go over things before the session begins. If you are really freezing up don't move forward. Spend as much time as you want talking to the Domme to put yourself at ease. If you have a 2 hour session use whatever time you feel necessary to get into the right mind set. If you communicate trust will build up naturally. Then she can be beside you on your journey. Steven (Good Boy)

Communication is pivotal. In my experience sessions have brought up many repressed emotions of things I buried deep down. If they are overwhelming communicate to your Mistress with your safe word. I made that mistake once by going along with something that brought horrible memories to the forefront. I was in sub drop for days crying often. Now I explore certain aspects of myself in smaller pieces which makes it easier to handle. Steven (Good Boy)

Inspiring. Shows what patience and not giving up can lead.

The only one who ever loved me got sick and instead of taking care of her retreated into my shell. She knew I wasn't happy with the relationship or where we moved to. She helped me to move out without one negative word. Her kindness made me feel ashamed. She had my best interests at heart even though she was deeply hurt. I try not to live with regret but I regret what I did more than anything. Instead of leadership I was a coward.

I hope I have taken enough pain from you Mistress to earn the same.

The first compliment I ever received was back in 2013 when I was told "I love how you take pain for me Steven." I felt so proud that I offered to take even more to show my devotion. Steven (Good Boy)

My favorite gear is my latex briefs along with my bar vests. It may look strange because I am skinny but I feel very comfortable in it. I also wear a collar with ring so if I decide to play with someone they can attach a dog leash to it. Steven (Good Boy)

I actually took some cooking classes before I got into telecom sales. I make a very popular Shrimp Scampi (so I'm told) and my Thanksgiving Turkey is brined in spices for 16 hours before roasting. Steven (Good Boy)

I used to go each month for a while. Now I go about 4-6 times a year since I travel for work. It gives me an excuse to dress up in fetish gear. Steven (Good Boy)

Fetish Tribe is really good. Impact/Suspension parties are a lot of fun.

Julie Newmar. I think I masturbated to every episode she was in,

I will miss him. He got me to try the restaurant The Black Ant in the Bowery. Let's just say it was the most interesting first date I ever had.

Nom Wah is great. Don't even try to go there on a Sunday for brunch. I love the various choices including vegetarian. I am making a note of the other locations. Steven (Good Boy)

When a Mistress told me she had a lot of fun. I didn't believe her. I thought that was something most Dom's say to clients. She said it again after she responded to a thank you e-mail I sent. Then on our next session she was happy to see me when I walked into the room. That did wonders for my confidence. Steven (Good Boy)

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I would love Mistress Zito to do that to me. Have me completely exposed while she questions me and does what she wants if she does not get the right answer. Dreaming of Thursday. Steven (Good Boy)

Welcome to the Fortress! I don't think you could have picked a better Mistress that Zito for your first session. She is fantastic. Enjoy Steven (Good Boy)

Double Fine did a good job on the remaster. I think you will really like it. I too have a pile of "to play" games on my PS4 Pro. Time to build my own PC and get on Steam.

Grim Fandango is another good one. Lucasfilm Games was great on the PC back in the 80's-90's.

I have a accomplished a lot in BDSM in 2017. 1. My first double domme session 2. Being xxxx-roasted by Mistress Zito and Mistress Zelda 3. Confronted my real life fear of abandonment with Mistress Katz 4. Had my first shower with Mistress Zito For 2018 my goals are: 1. Try cross dressing and make up 2. Confront my real life trauma of being bullied (doing this session on the 14th with Mistress Katz) 3. Session with Mistress Shankar and Mistress Rey 4. Try the mad minute with a cane on my back or feet. Looking forward!

Hopefully Mistress Katz can give me 20 and then 18 strokes of foot caning multiple times in our next session. I would love to be crippled so I can't escape.