captyveny

I actualized my fetishes fairly late. When I was well past 40, a girlfriend I would meet in New Orleans would playfully twist my nipples and insert her fingers into my anus and twist while we had vanilla missionary intercourse. She challenged me to go further to "The Dark Side", and I did, having my first two hour BDSM session in New Orleans with a dominatrix and a dominant who owned a commercial dungeon in New Orleans. From then on, I regularly indulged.

I have been into BDSM sessions in New York since 2000. There are two aspects of the Fortress which are unique: 1) It is spotlessly clean and 2) the dommes are extremely well-trained. At the old Jasmine's--since closed--I was handcuffed with police metal cuffs and about to be hoisted off the floor. I had to tell the domme that it would cause permanent nerve damage if she were to do so. So--clean and professional at the Fortress. Also--the dommes are stunningly attractive.

1. First Mistress I served was in New Orleans, and she and her husband ran the dungeon. 2. The latest was Mistress Rey from the Fortress at the new location. 3.Alas, it was so long ago--1995(?) that I've forgotten the name of my first mistress. Of course, Mistress Rey is unforgettable. 4. 47 the first time, 68 with Mistress Rey. 5. The first mistress and her husband ran the only dungeon in NOLA at the time. Mistress Rey I had seen before at Fortress. 6. I went to the first mistress at her dungeon on a dare from a woman I was seeing at the time who would add some very light BDSM-ish tricks to our sex together, using her fingers, lips and teeth, my leather belt and once an Hermes tie. I wanted to "one-up" her, so I went to a professional dungeon in NOLA, a city where I had a business trip. When I told my girlfriend, she was shocked, gasped, and then said "Tell me all about it. Leave nothing out." Mistress Rey is beautiful and memorable. 7. Always, from the first, I only go to a professional, fully equipped dungeon. Never an hotel or apartment with "makeshift" equipment and the domme shushing the screams. I attended a "lifestyle" gathering in a house whose basement was fully equipped as a dungeon--as professional as any I've seen. Otherwise, always and only at a professional dungeon. 8. How do they differ? The first mistress needed coaching during the session from a very professionally trained bystander--not me. Mistress Rey and all the dommes are professional and skillful. I, candidly, have always expected professional and skilled dommes. The only changes would be when I learned something from a domme and would pass the suggestion onto the next domme.

I have had bastinado at the Fortress, my soles whipped until I begged for mercy. The dommes at Fortress are superb.

don't stop, don't stop.

It's called "topping from the bottom". The "bottom" controls the session, not the "top" when the safe word is over-used. The safe word is a flat "STOP". You may consider shouting out another word to warn the top that you are nearing the edge and that the top should "slow down". Alternatively, and candidly, I've found that early in my BDSM stages, I'd shout out the "safe word" in a moment of elation, when I really meant